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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    Coincidently We briefly discuss this in the new podcast. Recorded it weeks ago tho so we don't really go into it a lot. Porn def helps to not give AF abt being obsessed with dating and all that. But it also can prevent one from getting out there and meeting people to replace the need for porn.
     
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    Funny you created this thread. I have been thinking a lot porn addiction and its side-effects on "love" and intimacy for the past few weeks. A friend suggested that I read Out of the Shadows:Understanding sexual addictions by Patrick Carnes. From that book, it sounds like there are two chemicals that released(different from men and women) during sexual intimacy to strengthen the bonds of relationships. It turns out those chemicals don't get released during a hook-up(that's why most of us are not about that life), but are release when watching porn. Essentially, porn usage can evolve to trick our minds into believing that we have intimacy when we don't. Hence, the apathy towards relationships and the "I got myvidster/pornhub for that " attitude.
     
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