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  1. Lancer

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    I haven't talked much about my dating this year, only because it has been really, really dry.
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    I still put myself out there, go up to guys and strike a convo, exchange numbers, but after that crickets. I still see said guys around, and we exchange pleasantries and I keep it moving. I use to get very weird and insecure. Like avoiding the dude or walking very fast by him, while I fake being on the phone, when he hasn't called but this year I am quite chill and let it go.
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    If its for you it will come, that's what these universe folks say right? *shrugs*
    Anyways, I was at the lobby at work just watching folks come into the building and I see this very handsome dude. Just like the dude in the picture above without the beards and well dressed. Like he didn't put any effort or thought into it, but it came out wonderful. I think Italians call that Sprezzatura.
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    So works done and I see homeboy waiting outside for his ride alone. At this moment I know I have to go talk with him.
    (Side note: I did not have any high hopes or expectation for said interaction. Also, I know my physical level and am comfortable with it and there is no way in Kings Landing or Mordor homeboy was going to be interested in me).
    We start talking, he is a Geophysicist (smart) and as he his talking I could't help but admire how good looking he really was, and how my life would be if I had such features lmao

    We exchange numbers, he never calls, blah blah blah. I still see him around and I noticed one thing about him, he NEVER looks not groomed. Everything about him is always in place.
    I thought okay, its just in my head but one time during lunch I heard his team mates talking about him. He was made their leader, and they were saying how good looking, well dressed, fade always on point, skin moisturized and glowing he always looks. I couldn't help but chuckle.
    My coworker comes to sit beside me and then handsome dude comes up and starts talking with his coworkers. He says Hi to me and I reply.
    Bruh! you need to see the reaction my straight coworker had when he came.
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    He immediately sits up straight, and adjusts his shirt.
    I burst out laughing, cos it was so obvious my coworker was caught off guard and jealous of his good looks. All the ladies were just transfixed on him. He leaves and in a failed attempt to recover his ego, my coworker says to the ladies 'But he ain't got no beards though...' :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::dead1:

    While at home I stand in front of the mirror and ask, can I try to look always groomed and would that help? as in haircut always on point which means never missing a haircut appointment, always moisturize , always look effortlessly well dressed
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    too much effort, I will just stick to my good sense of humor. Some say I have that...
     
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    1st. I learned a while ago that dudes like him can keep up this facade because they belong to the children of the night. He's basically a vampire so be careful.

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    2nd. IMO there are a lot of kats who look sexy af with their natural 'grizzled' look.

    There are plenty of dudes in ATL that are super attractive but because they look so manicured, for me personally its kinda unappealing.
     
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    I'm sure he gets numbers from chicks and dudes all the time and they are probably in there like "Thirsty lobby guy" "fat tiddies Starbucks on 5th"

    I think it's cool that guys put in effort to look good but I definitely like a little scruff and edge. I'd equate this guy to the chicks who can't leave the house unless they are beat for the gawds and without in full make up.

    Too much maintenance. You Probably can't even rub is head when you hitting it from the back.
     
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    I'll add that those that are always o well groomed and put together usually have extremely high standards. I ain't trying to date a high maintenance diva.
     
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    LMAO! Yeah, I could just imagine, he wouldn't want his waves to be disturbed.
    I have never gone after the classically handsome dudes and do prefer a dude to have some scruff and edge. If I was to get with a handsome dude, who am I kidding, if a handsome dude was to get with me it will totally be on a hookup bases and nothing ever serious. lol
     
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    Meanwhile I'm still waiting for puberty to punch me in the face .
     
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    Let me just say I never try to get with folks at my work. He works in a completely different section of the building and we only run into each other like once a week. It might work for some, however I know for me it would never.
     
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    I'm always well groomed. In fact, most of my coworkers don't put in any effort. The only thing about my job is that we can wear whatever is comfy. Most of them folks wear things I may wear around the house. I like wearing fitted clothes and matching attire.

    One of my white employees never dressed but saw me dressed one day and looked at me out of the corner of his eye..He came dressed the next day and for a period of time he seemed slightly passive aggressive in his comments. I cannot stand Evo driven jealous dudes like your jealous coworker and it's probably one of the quickest ways for me to cut someone off. I wish they got a life instead of trying to model mine. No one is perfect. Lol..sometimes I'd like to punch these types of dudes in the face...they bout messy as females and wait for you to leave.

    Either way, I'm still me at work...a little goofy with sexually suggestive comments that can be taken either way but mostly just goofy at times.

    For the record, I find beards unattractive...(well not all guys..some guys look cute with them) but I try to and like to be clean shaved, face and all. I like being hot but never pretty to the degree of what most guys these days do. I think most of them do too much and it's just for attention because they want people to chase them around. I don't want a pretty man, I like ma men handsome. All this manicures, facials, man weave is ridiculous with most dudes.

    Also, the surface value of most dudes is just for show. Though they could be like me and prefer to be to themselves. I'll resist any guy if he doesn't make my sapiosexual vibe click. I may thinking of fuking him but never will if the aura and connection ain't there.

    My silly ass been doing a mess though with these Instagram and Facebook stories...I've been posting more and more letting people see me and how I look and it's funny.

    I think a good personality is great. I like Intellectual and humourous dudes. I don't care about how much money they make, degrees or anything.
     
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