Even On Cypher Avenue My Inbox Is Dry as Caitlyn Jenner's Cooch

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    Look at this shit, fam... Zero new messages... All these fine azz bachelor dudes on The Ave and I don't even get late night "sup" jawns... True I prob wouldn't entertain nothin', especially long distance... but my inbox is dry even on my own website...

    And yeah, I know I'm bad at checking on my "Alerts"...
    The whole Squad likes most of my comments so I get a lot of Dap Notifications:bronbad::troll:

    For real doe, soon as 2016 hit I'm turning back into the old me... :fredo:Bagging every dude I see. My phone should be chirping from text messages all the time...

    And since @ockydub argued with me that HIV+ men no longer transmit the virus through unprotected sex, its fair game for all... I refuse to get Reverse Slut Shamed by @ockydub again in 2016...

    Question for the Squad: How should I step back into the scene?

    I refuse to do Jack'd and Grindr...Should I do the mainstream dating sites like eHarmony? Become a gay bar hopper and approach dudes? Ask for Blind Dates?

    What do you do?

    And for the guys already in relationships, how did you meet your current dude?
     
    #1 Nick Delmacy, Dec 3, 2015
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    Why must I always be the enemy...I'm not your adversary.
     
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    Awww, you mad? Don't get mad, 'Toine...

     
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    My thoughts...
    Why not use every tool that is available at your disposal? Do you think there is and innate problem with Jackd and Grndr that no matter how cool your profile is, you feel you are wasting your time? I heard many say both are filled with bottoms so shouldn't that make the pickings easier?

    You was with me when I met my ole-man; are you against parties under the assumption that dudes there may have a "high body count" or may have been with others at the function?
     
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    Damn, that was funny as hell!
     
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    ....hmpgh
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    Guess it's time to brush off the cobwebs eh @Nick Delmacy? While I understand your logic @ockydub the reality of it is not so clean-cut. Plus you have been out of the game for quite some time.
     
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    Im not even foolin up w this post...

    In addition to the shade, I aint got no business having the audacity to offer dating advice.

    But I will say, real dating sites dont hurt. I have str8 friends who've gotten married off of them. Didnt work for me, but Im not in Gaylanta.
     
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    Real dating sites here in Atlanta are kinda a waste for black gay men unless you are looking for a white gay republican who has a thing for "black meat."
     
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    LOL Dont feel bad, Nick. I been on here for 2yrs and I think the only messages Ive ever gotten were my "welcome email" from you and Ocky and you instructing me on making new posts. smh
     
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    @Nick Delmacy my brother I have had ZERO luck on Jack'd & Tinder but I still just keep them. I think like @ockydub said works. Use everything at your disposal. You are not getting any younger so use the apps, go to the bathhouses (no lol don't do that i am only kidding), go to the bars, clubs, gay black orgs (which I know ATL has plenty of, gay softball leagues, etc. Exhaust all possible options.

    I am taking the leap of faith to attend this black gay event done by BLACC in FTL and YOU had a lot do with that lol. Encouraging and pushing me to grow. So yeah go and do your thing. Don't forget to get back in the gym though because you know how shady these queens can be lmbo. But you do have more than a "handgun" at your disposal so you should be good LOL!
     
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    And @Nick Delmacy your inbox is dry because no one can see your face lol.
     
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    Sigh...the game aint changed nor have the players...believe that!
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    LMAO but what do you expect. I got hit up by this Jamaican & Cuban dude on Jack'd that had no pic and I asked for pics and he sent 3 face pics. Handsome guy. Good 30 minute convo. Then it dwindled off.. that's Jack'd for you. Inconsistent ni99as lol. But yeah gotta put yourself out there. That's what I am doing now like you told me back in 2012 & 2013 big bro! Someone needs to practice what he preaches! Ain't that right @ockydub? ;-)
     
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    Yeah when solely looking for friends, these options are actually pretty decent.
     
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    Yeah when I finish school, I will exhuast all options. The frustration comes with it but that is anything in life... friends, business, relationships... But the good will come. A guy I know off of Cypher Avenue found his long-term "BAE" on Tinder! He hated it at first but he kept with it.
     
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    Yeah but friends get can out of the friend zone!!!!
     
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    I think it's great @Nick Delmacy is getting schooled by a virgin with killer dating advice. LMAO
    cpnoway:khart1::steviej::salute:
     
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    LOL yeah I do put myself out there, I just reject all suitors because I wasn't interested in dating. This entire post was kinda tongue in cheek man. I have no desire to get back on Jack'd or A4A so fear of putting my pics online is not a problem. Hell I had pics on those apps and even Grindr and Tinder. Waste of time. When I do step back into the dating pool, it will be through personal connections and meeting people in public, not the Internet.
     
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    Killer Dating Advice? Yeah you def been retired too long...
     
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    If yall just promise to keep providing the shade, i'll bring my own snacks...
     
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    LOL...and yet I never had a problem dating quality kats when I wanted.
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    :khart1: Bruh, don't forget that I know what you consider "quality kats." One of them turned out to be a married down low preacher right? You wrote about him on the site before...
     
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    :fantasia::gladbron::krs::lupe1::ufdup::umad:
     
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    If you call making out with a dude for a week "dating"....then I see your problem.
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    The fact that you were NOT dating a dude that you exchanged bodily fluids with for a week and turned out to be married says more :mynicca:
     
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    I feel u, but I did at least get a couple friend requests after doin a cpl roundtable podcasts. I guess its nice to know that some ppl at least think im a sensible guy, even if they dont wana date me lolol.
     
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    This thread quickly turned into this:

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    Wow really? Kissing is taboo now with you too? 6 days of hanging out and kissing-from over 10 yrs ago-and never speaking to dude again and finding out years later (2015) he was married. Ok...I guess you got me...sigh
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    Fukk this I'm ready...
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    I say we both team up on @SB3 for trying to instigate shyt like the messy faux masculine queen he truly is
     
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    I fell yah about @SB3
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