For the Sake of Loneliness

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  1. Naturally10Me

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    Ok so after 3yrs of being single for the most part. Dating around here and there, I learned loneliness can be a real b***h. It's not easy dealing with the unknowns of knowing whether you are going to find the right dude or not. I hear people say man I settled or damn I shouldn't have opened that door. While listening, I had to take evaluation and ask myself am I doing what I am doing for the sake of loneliness. From sex to overloading myself with porn. From random ass dates with dudes I know my lifestyle doesn't even match with to random meet up spots. I guess the reality is we all get lonely, but managing your loneliness is key. What are your thoughts CA on this? How do you manage?
     
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    I've been lonely all my life. It's only just recently that I have been more social/open to meeting people. I think that is what is key - meeting people. If anything, you learn different personality types and it is through meeting people that I have learned pretty much what they all are. Some people are hybrids of two or three, but once you learn them, you learn how to navigate their personalities. You have a lot going for you and just because there isn't someone in your life right now doesn't mean that will always be the case. Maybe God is saying - I'm not putting someone in your life right now because you have too much other stuff that I need for you to do... Also think about this, just because there are people constantly around others doesn't mean that they aren't lonely too.
     
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    Wow great perspective and thank you @KritiKat I try my best to bring the best to the table of what ever I do.
     
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