I don't want anybody who doesn't want me either. In my experience, white gay guys don't like black men, so I usually don't even bother hitting them up first. I would date a white guy if we were compatible, but I'm not going to "chase" them like so many men of color do. They aspire to be with a white guy and I think that's sad.
It's racist if you completely exclude an entire group of people based on race. Think about why they're excluding them. It's because in their mind, there's a character or physical trait that they dislike about the group and immediately apply it to everyone in the group without giving attention to how everyone is different. That's one of the classical definitions of racism.
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Those Grindr profiles are hilarious. LOL I'm so done with this topic, my dude. The older I get, the less of a half a f$%k I give. a few years ago, this used to bother me to no end, not because I was getting rejected by white guys (I never went after them) but because the whole racist undertone bothered me. But now, at 38yo, Im just like dude, get over it. Muhf#$kaz are ALWAYS going to be racist and/or have {racist} "preferences" on all sides of the spectrum. It makes for good, entertaining convo, but for this to be an issue (in the words of Funky Dineva)..."Chlye Cheese". Its too many beautiful men of ALL ethnicities out there to be sweatin' a handful of douches.
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Hmmm. I've noticed that it seems acceptable for black men to "stick to their own kind", but let someone mention they don't like black men all hell breaks loose. I do understand that people have preferences, but if you are completely shutting out an entire race then that isn't a preference. It's a standard that you adhere to and in that case it might not be racist, but something suspect is going on. In my opinion anyway
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I have always said that I have no problem with dating guys who are not black but I just don't think that they are checking for black guys, that's been my experience and since I give priority to black guys, this hasn't been something that kept me from socializing or dating.
The white and white passing people in this clip know good and gawt damnned well if most black dudes approached them, they would reject them. If it were another sample of white men, I'd probably believe they would be fine with dating (not just sex but actually building a relationship with a non white male) but just not this set. I just did not get that these guys would be interested in learn about non white culture as that's going to be a part of dating someone with a different racial make up.
Now let's be real here. 80 percent of guys on hook up sites are looking for sex, not dates and relationships so if you only want to have sex, I'm OK with you eliminating early on. As was said by Urkel in the clip, he likes big d!x so let him have his preference. It's sex. Just because two people are horny at the same time doesn't mean one of them should be forced to have sex with the other when they are not even into or attracted to them.
Things like this highlight to me how affluent white gays are always about inclusion and acceptance but draw the line at race when it comes to them being in relationships and sex. I have said it before and I'll do it again, non people of color have the burden of showing that they are not into dating people of color because of a fantasy or fetishism. No POC wants to be a pet project to prove someone is "down with the people."BlackOnyx1, Jdudre, cypher21 and 2 others dapped this. -
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Umm yeah... gay people are hurt so they hurt others. I am in school now and I see men that are black, white, indian, latino and I think they are all fine. I have become much more open. While I do prefer the darker hue, I still find men from all races attractive.
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