Hearing His Voice Before The First Date?

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  1. African King

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    Hey so for you guys when you come across a man on a dating app like Tinder, how important is it for you to hear his voice before date #1? I've come across an attractive man that I mentioned on my profile post previously that has been consistent when we text back and forth. We already got a date set up and all for Monday but we've just not been able to get on the phone with each other!

    It's only been one time when I met a guy when I first moved back to Houston (temporarily) that we text consistently but never spoke on the phone and we met in person. We both linked in person and had a nice time and vibed very well.

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    If I'm meeting you through an app, I need to at least have had a phone convo (Facetime preferable) before I even think about scheduling a date...I just can't play those games anymore. I've been unpleasantly surprised in the past.
     
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    Right. Easy for dudes to feign masc on an app or through words. Different story in person.
     
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    Yea. I feel like I can tell what the deal is based on their pics alone 99% of the time, but there's absolutely ZERO reason why someone can't do a quick couple min chat before we meet up. I'm not a phone person, and 100% prefer texting, but even I have to concede on that one.
     
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    Wait you prefer texting??
     
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    Did you see Mr. Houston's face before meeting?
     
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    Yea. I don't keep my phone attached to me, and I just feel like it makes it easier for ppl to respond at their own convenience. I don't mind a phone call, and we might even spend over an hour talking, but don't hold your breathe waiting on a call from me.
     
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    That's so different haha
     
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    I feel like i will be the same way when i start dating. :weak:
     
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    Not encouraging or discouraging...crickets in my DMs lol.
     
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    Id prefer to see his face and hear his voice before actually meeting him. I once called a guy I had been chatting with a few days before out of the blu. Completely masculine in pictures but when I spoke to him over the phone, he had a strong lisp and said bitch ten times to whoever was in the car with him.

    Honestly, I just need a man that can talk to me and we can sit and discuss things like you our different viewpoints on how the universe was created or how we channel our energy to our creative gifts. That would turn me on a lot to find a man like this. I'd really suck his lips with a deep kiss after several dates.

    Most of the guys I've chatted with don't actually go that route with me. They think I'm fast when I'll talk you to death about different topics.

    Coversation always goes like..
    Me: So do you think the Universe is actually alive and just like we have cells, we are the cells of the universe?

    Him: So when you gon' let me f**k?
     
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    You have at least the visual of what that guy looks like so you aren't going into it blind. A phone call could help but as @RolandG stated machismo can be feigned over the phone call. I say follow through with the meeting as scheduled as there aren't any set expectations. Besides, you are going to meet the "representative". You get to meet the "authentic self" usually after date 3. Hope it goes well for you @African King . I tip my NY fitted to you for even being willing to try to socially engage with these fuckboyz in tha A.
     
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    WE did a video call last night and it was cool. He was "gives enough boy" so to speak. We linking up tomorrow for some Thai food. I am actually in Houston currently for 2 more months before going back to the A. @Juan-Carlos
     
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    We did video chat over WhatsApp (free texting, calling and video chatting app) and it went well!
     
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    LOL yes. Met on Tinder. Did a video call last night after seeing responses on this thread
     
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    Texting is okay once you initially show interest in someone. If you get to the next step of actually meeting in person it is good idea to hear their voice before this happens. Not to sound superficial at all, but that really is part of the attraction process. It also gives more of an idea of what their personality is really like.
     
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