HIV-positive guys reading mean dating app messages

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    Wow, people are odd. I understand peoples phobia's but like they said in the video if you're edumacated then you'll be fine.
     
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    This should not be surprising to any gay guy who's ever read online dating profiles. Dudes can be real nasty about this. What I find odd is most of the guys online claim to be negative but the infection statistics tell a different story......hmmmm.
     
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    Wow..

    The response at 1:43 was priceless.
     
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    The dude in the Raiders muscle hoody was hot...
     
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    Honestly I think asking how someone acquired it is a legit question as long as it doesn't get into the shame and holier than thou territory.

    Though I would love to hear a podcast from HIV+ guys and their dating experiences. I would totally understand people wanting to be anonymous.
     
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    I think it is up to an individual whether or not if they want to deal with someone who is HIV+. Personal preference BUT to ask how did someone get it and to say derogatory things is going to far.
     
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    I think there's an point in time when it's appropriate to ask. If someone has told you that they have HIV, I think you should be sensitive to it if you really are interested in them and at least get to know them before asking about how they got it. If I had it i would not be telling people who I just met how I got it regardless if it was being a hoe or a slip up.

    These guys all said they got it from sex. Ok cool. However if you got it from shooting up, I'd be more concerned about that than having raw sex.
     
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    I was on a date with this one dude and out of the blue he asked would I date someone who was HIV positive? I actually had to think about it, however, before he I could answer he told me he was positive. I enjoyed the date and wanted to go out again but he said because I didn't respond quick enough we couldn't continue.....
     
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    Damn. Dude clearly has had a lot of ppl who wont fuk w him, so he's guarded as hell, n is ready to shut situations down before his feelings can get hurt.

    I can only have empathy for anyone in that position. But, things do look up sometimes. I have a family friend who is hiv poz, n she's now happily married to a neg guy.
     
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