How Are You REALLY Doing?

Discussion in 'Group Discussions' started by Nick Delmacy, May 6, 2019.

  1. Nick Delmacy

    Nick Delmacy is a Verified MemberNick Delmacy Da Architect
    Site Founder The 10000 Daps Club

    Joined:
    Jun 28, 2013
    Messages:
    3,560
    Daps Received:
    12,140
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Atlanta
    Orientation:
    Gay
    Dating:
    Not looking
    Saw this posted as a thread on Reddit and figured it would be good to check on my Squad:

    Screen Shot 2019-05-06 at 5.08.58 PM.png
     
    NewAfrikan, Juan-Carlos and BrentForays dapped this.
  2. Jai

    Jai I'm honing in on my inner freak.
    The 1000 Daps Club Supporter

    Joined:
    Oct 8, 2015
    Messages:
    937
    Daps Received:
    1,572
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    U.S.
    Orientation:
    Asexual
    Dating:
    Single
    Finished Book I, working on Book II then III.

    I'm hornier than normal...I think it's the moon.

    Body Wise: I'm still kinda small but not skinny...Medium build. I have booty goals this year.

    Financial wise I'm satisfied, though I would love to have my own beach house and writers retreat.

    Family wise: I'm still distant.

    Sex Wise: I try to remain celibate but that's causing problems. I have discovered what I'm into though.

    I learned how to do more things this year. Animation and stuff.

    Overall, Id say it's been a good year tho it's going by really fast.
     
  3. Krimsonic_

    The 100 Daps Club

    Joined:
    Jun 5, 2018
    Messages:
    71
    Daps Received:
    128
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Dallas
    Orientation:
    SGL
    Dating:
    In a Relationship
    So far I’ve had great successes but some huge struggles areas for sure.

    Career is going great. I’m a 2nd year educator and I’m really achieving. I’m building great bonds with my students. They’re learning. I feel like I’m making an impact. And I’m getting noticed by the higher ups, which is always a good thing.

    Personal life has been a big struggle however. I grew up in the stereotypical black Christian household so you know where I’m going... As an adult in college I had years to research, dig and question, in order to develop my own belief systems but I kinda half-assed the development of those beliefs and it’s had such a toll on me. The values and rhetoric ingrained in me through my upbringing have been kicking my ass lately. It’s gotten to the point where I’ve been questioning whether or not I should continue to live life as a gay man and be with current partner of almost two years. Needless to say it’s been causing us both hella stress. Luckliy he’s such a loving and patient guy who has been giving me the space to figure things out. But this religion thing is so mentally taxing though and it’s hard to shake what I grew up learning now that I’m fully dealing with it. I feel controlled by the fear of being eternally punished for living my life and it’s tuffff man...

    Sidebar: What subreddits do you frequent? I’m a redditor myself.
     
    #3 Krimsonic_, May 6, 2019
    Last edited: May 6, 2019
    MatthewX, Juan-Carlos and Nick Delmacy dapped this.
  4. @yahoo.com

    @yahoo.com When the lights get low, I Burn Brighter.
    The 100 Daps Club

    Age:
    42
    Joined:
    Oct 15, 2015
    Messages:
    298
    Daps Received:
    348
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Atlanta, Ga
    Orientation:
    Gay
    Dating:
    Single
    2019 has been great so far, most of the time.
    I moved to a new city to pursue my dreams of becoming a writer of film and television.
    I knew that it would be a very weird adjustment For me, so one of the first things I did was to find a psychologist that I visit with weekly. I use him as part psychologist/part life coach. I recently moved into my own place, a spacious two bedroom apartment in my backyard is the woods. It’s a sanctuary of sorts. I love it.

    Even though I have significant accomplishments under my belt for 2019, there are days where I am totally depressed. I sit on the couch all day and do nothing. Yesterday was one such day. Some days are a struggle. But I do remain positive and optimistic based on what I’ve been able to accomplish thus far. My focus now is creating a positive social circle and to have fun. Knowing I’ll be fine! Oh, God helps. Faith helps too.
     
  5. BrentForays

    The 100 Daps Club

    Age:
    30
    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2015
    Messages:
    229
    Daps Received:
    782
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Atlanta, GA
    Orientation:
    SGL
    Dating:
    Single
    I like your template lol Let me steal it.


    Body Wise: I'm fluffy. I'm 6'2 240. Tryna lose 40 pounds. But I still look like I'm in shape thankfully to the untrained eye.

    Financial wise I'm ok. I have healthy savings and a good credit score but my income isn't where I hoped it would be at my age.

    Family wise: Im good. I love my immediate fam but distant from extended fam.

    Sex Wise: I have a couple regular GoTo friends every now and then but I'm mostly solo on pornhub. Im not very good in relationships. I'm workin on it.

    I'm 30 and mostly happy. I'm a naturally happy person anyway. I smile just looking forward to the next Game of Thrones episode.
     
  6. Nick Delmacy

    Nick Delmacy is a Verified MemberNick Delmacy Da Architect
    Site Founder The 10000 Daps Club

    Joined:
    Jun 28, 2013
    Messages:
    3,560
    Daps Received:
    12,140
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Atlanta
    Orientation:
    Gay
    Dating:
    Not looking
    This was from the r/AskGayBros subreddit:
     
    Krimsonic_ dapped this.
  7. Artistic Arsonist

    The 100 Daps Club

    Age:
    24
    Joined:
    Nov 21, 2015
    Messages:
    200
    Daps Received:
    844
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Georgia
    Dating:
    Single
    Eh. Not bad. Not good, but still not bad.

    Maybe the second half will be better
     
    Juan-Carlos dapped this.
  8. BlackguyExecutive

    BlackguyExecutive Charge D'Affaires
    Squad Leader Best Site Comments The 1000 Daps Club Supporter

    Age:
    33
    Joined:
    Aug 21, 2015
    Messages:
    1,025
    Daps Received:
    2,453
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    World Traveller
    Orientation:
    Gay
    Dating:
    Married
    2019 has been decent. I set some lofty goals. Working on Ph.D., doing some odd jobs in consulting. Considering being an early adopter in a presidential campaign. I am really missing my work in Diplomacy and learning that I do not love DC all that much. I am working on year 4 of my marriage, things are settling and that is good and secure. Although fuck Trump and these taxes, making a nigga think he needs to consider adoption! Healthwise, I have been working on being more mindful and doing meditations and have committed to walking at least 5 miles a day. It works, I lost 29 pounds and my butt/thigh ratio is turning out nice. All of my friends are getting pregnant and that is strange. My inner circle is slowly but surely giving up the childless professional life for family life and I think that is beautiful. I started reading fiction books to take my mind off the daily grind of life.
     
  9. Infinite_loop

    Infinite_loop Is this thing on?
    Bae Material The 1000 Daps Club

    Joined:
    Sep 7, 2015
    Messages:
    767
    Daps Received:
    2,476
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    BK
    Orientation:
    SGL
    Dating:
    Single
    well, I am alive, healthy, gainfully employed and surrounded by great friends and family. So in the big picture, my life is going alright and has never been better!
    digging deeper into things, I am not where I want to be dating and professional wise; working on the latter part so there is light at the end of the tunnel.
     
    mojoreece and Juan-Carlos dapped this.
  10. MatthewX

    MatthewX Lurker

    Joined:
    Apr 22, 2019
    Messages:
    2
    Daps Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    East Coast - NYC
    Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Dating:
    Married
    I am achieving finding a balance in life. Working on living a consistent healthy diet and weight control. I wish I had more friends outside of my professional circle, looking for more hobbies to take me into a new level of thinking.
     
  11. takeyourmeds91

    The 1000 Daps Club

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2016
    Messages:
    739
    Daps Received:
    2,993
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    FL
    I'm overwhelmed a bit with school and life circumstances. I can tell because I start acting out. I'm good though. I've been in rougher situations so this too shall pass.
     
    mojoreece dapped this.
Loading...
Similar Threads - REALLY Doing Forum Date
13 Black Men Who Travel The World (And Look Really Good Doing It) Travel and Vacation Destinations Mar 2, 2018
The Internet Seems to Really Care About Who People (and Desus Nice) Are Fucking Television and Web Series Jul 25, 2019
Guys Really Live in Apartments Like This and Don’t See Any Issue Group Discussions Apr 14, 2019
Does What a Man Drive Really Matter? Dating and Relationships Feb 27, 2019
Lil Jon featuring Kool-Aid Man - All I Really Want For Christmas (Official Music Video) Music and Podcasts Dec 22, 2018

Share This Page

Loading...