How Short is Too Short?

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    I am your run of the mill, American male. I'm 5'10". Woefully average in height. I'm not tall. I'm not short. Most men I meet literally eye to eye. I don't really have a height preference when its comes to dating. There's advantages to guys who are a little shorter, a little taller, and the same height I think.

    However the below photo made its way into my Facebook feed.
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    I think this guy is attractive. However most of the ladies who replied to the photo said he was too short. Maybe for them and from the point of view that this could be a potential baby daddy, I can see how they couldn't get beyond his height.

    I mentioned that sexually, he probably could do a lot of acrobatics to hit that spot. I mean low center of gravity and all.

    Still the ladies were not biting. Could it be his clothes? Maybe his youthfulness? I'm not sure. I really didn't dig that deep with the chicks in question. I thought he wasn't bad looking so it really didn't matter what they thought on this hypothetical situation.

    Being a sexually active guy, I went to use cases for what sex could be like with someone this height. For real, being on top, you could be thrusting and pulling him onto you at the same time. He'd not really be able to "run from the D." Probably even spin him around on it while he's riding you, like he's riding the agitator on a washing machine.

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    Have to be careful hitting him from the back though. Probably would literally break his back if you are too heavy. I would not want to be the one ending up on an episode of Sex Sent Me to the ER over that.

    69 could be a little problematic. Unless you're into yoga, double jointed, and really flexible. However you could sit down on the couch, have him stand on the outside of your legs, bend over and you can eat the groceries while he's slobbin on the wood.
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    As a top, he could probably be spinning around and hitting the prostate in all kinds of different ways. His low center of gravity could allow him to like jack Hammer it in. Short legs means he his thrusts wouldn't be much deeper than he's endowed but the quickness could be intense.
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    I honestly started this thread being seruius about dating someone significantly shorter than I but my senselessness took over and here we are.

    So my attempt to get this train back on the track is... Would you date a dude who is significantly shorter/taller than you are?
     
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    Back in my teens I always said I'd only go taller .My short @$$ is 5'7 so everyone is taller than me usually.But now now I think I'd only prefer a a few inches taller like 5'9-10 or maybe a few horter like 5'5.I don't think an extreme of either direction would be a deal breaker.If dude in the pic above showed up I'd at least give him a chance to see if he can make me laugh,have good convo,and stuff like that.
     
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    These gifs tho
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    One was too large to upload and I didn't have the original link to embed it into the post. Lol
     
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    "Short legs means he his thrusts wouldn't be much deeper than he's endowed but the quickness could be intense. "

    Im here at work dying over this LMAO I have a thing for short dudes. I think they're adorable, but I've found that can't take them seriously because I always look at them as little living toys or elves or some wacky sh!t. I'm 6'2', my shortest partner was 5' tall (ridiculous). My last partner and the dude I messed with for a minute after him were both 5'4". I would like to deal with someone maybe an inch or so taller than me, tho. I admittedly get "hot & bothered" when I see a dude that's like 6'3" 6'4" because its kind of a "rarity". I'm always the Jolly Black Giant in the situation.But yeah, as far as the shortest, 5'4" is where I draw the line. I've found that the shorter the dude, the meaner they tend to get. LOL
     
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    The train of thought has me weak:dead1::franko1:
    Would I hook up with dude in the picture? ABSOLUTELY!
    He is cute. Would I date him? I am not sure cos I am 6ft5 and I think the vast height difference will be an issue even for him. I have been ALWAYS been taller than my dates, so height is no issue for me however that short I think will not work.
     
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    LMAO!! This is the best post ever. I'm 6'2 and I'm a sucker for dudes that are taller and bigger than me. Unfortunately that cuts out a huge chunk of the dating pool. The shortest I ever dated was 5'9. That might be the shortest I'll ever go for.
     
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    Glad it's not just me! I like economy and subcompact rides, myself. :troll:

    And yeah, them Lilliput mofos make up for height with 'tude. I'm 6'4"...and can't hoop worth shyt. Lol. My height only gets put to use when there's some little old lady at the market who's been waiting awhile on some dude like me to walk down the aisle to finally grab that can of Glory Collard Greens on the top shelf for her.

    I think L'il Man got it going on, but he'd probably be more intimidated by my height than I would be of his, natch. Plus, I'd probably be pissed when he'd take my pants and go making tents with them and camping out in the backyard. But at least I could rest my beer on his dome when he's giving head. Which brings me to

    I'm actually intimidated by dudes taller than me, 'cause I'm used to always being one of the tallest, or the tallest in the room. Then, Dikembe Mutombo walks into the room, smacks the drink out my hand, and wags his finger. "No, no, NOOOO..."
     
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    I like em short but damn...

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    Meh. I would give him a shot if we had been clicking on every other level. I'm a pretty short dude. 5'6"/5'7". It's nice to have a dude around my height. (makes spooning, cuddling, and hugging so much easier) but I don't really have a preference. Shortest I dated was about 5'5". Tallest was about 6'2". Most dudes are taller than me by default, but I don't really care either way.
     
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    Well then, you've put a lot of thought into this! Jack hammer? Wowzers lol.

    I thought I was 5' 9" for about 10 years, only for that bubble to get burst about 3 weeks ago. I'm closer to 5' 8"; on a good day 5' 9"ish. How short is too short? Well, I don't discriminate on height, but in general I'm ok with 5-6" in either direction. So 5' 2" to 6' 3" ish? That's a pretty big spread and prob accounts for about 95% of all heights.

    Like most people, I'd wanna be with a dude close to my height. Just because....well @acessential said it best,

     
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    I'm short, bout 5'5 and I like other short guys like between 5'3-5'8.

    That guy in that pic looks like a cute toy that Id sit beside my sister's stuff animals.

    I can't imagine the little critter asking to have sex..I'd stick a pacifier in his mouth & rock him to sleep.

    I feel like I'd dominate him or something. I like for guys to be my height or a tee bit taller...since for me, if I were to get sexual II'd like to have a fair struggle...Sounds awkward but its not..lol
     
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    Mmmm I'd say as long as they're isn't too big of a gap in either direction then it'd probably be fine. I'm 5'8 so I'd probably lend a few more inches to someone taller rather than someone shorter.
     
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    Last time at the Dr. the assistant made me get measured with shoes off. She was this older Asian lady and she would not take no for an answer. So I compromised and said I would get measured if I could skip the weigh-in lol.

    I am five eight and a half in bare feet. I wish I was taller-both of my older brothers hit six feet-one more than that. I got the short genes. I have dated a guy up to six foot six and I admit I did feel like a shrimp. If I was still dating I would be ok with any height though-it really is not that important of a thing in dating really IMHO.

    * I am cursed with short legs and thick torso-inseam is barely 29 inches-worst thing about tall long legged people-they walk too. damn. fast. Practically have to run to keep up with them.
     
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    He is too short!

    I don't mind shorter than me since I am 5'11" BUT dude in the pic is too short.
     
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    This is so wrong. lol. There should be laws against this! When he gets kicked he just shoots off of there like a bullet! How did he not get hurt? *ashamed at laughing at this*
     
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    I like short dudes like a lot of other members said on here. Even more so than tall men.

    For some reason when dudes get too tall, like 6.2 and up, I think of them as (less than smart) and the sound DUH or DOOF..LOL. I know thats not true at all and it probably is just my personal experience with tall men. Dumb ass basketball players I knew in school, etc.

    But under 5.7 would be a stretch for my personal taste.



    On another note, isn't it funny when you experience that short dude with a massive big ass d*ck. :pachah1:
    Not trying to be vulger or nothing, just thought about it when talking about short men. Its always funny when I see it. But makes me realize that I guess its definitely true that d*ck size is hereditary and has nothing to do with height.
     
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    I saw this new escort site(just stumbled upon it somehow) and XL is listed as five foot seven-which probably means the guy is five foot six. And that thing looks huge! Most of these guys in porn are on the short size it seems.

    I would link to the site but I don't think that is allowed.
     
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    I'm 5'9''. I refuse to go more than 6'/6'1, it just feels weird. Plus at that point you're way too big to be man-handled in the bed. I think the shortest I've been involved with is like 5'7/'8 maybe.
     
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    They are absolutely terrible,
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    Okay,but this one you posted ! :whew:
     
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    Innit!? I can't help but to think guys shorter than me (6'2, 6'3 with hair) are just so adorable yeh, like, I want to take care of them and sh*t. Lol.
    Same. I've always been told I was tall but I didn't accept it until recently. Probably because I usually see guys taller than me (or my mind is just ignoring the ordinary of seeing guys shorter than me or I'm probably subconsciously looking out for tall dudes :/ ) and since I'm not as tall as them, I didn't see how people saw me as a tall guy.
    I thought I was the only one....for the longest yeh, I truly believe that short people hated me. The group of people that always gave me sh*t had one thing in common and that was their height.
     
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    You don't say,
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    I thank you for typing something I had to google,which lead me to more pics of him :rejoice:
     
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    Little daddy is adorable and he is Polo'd out!
    ....if he came up to me trying to holla, I wouldn't shut him down (albeit I don't have a think for short guys; subjective, but below 5'10).

    I don't look for much in a guy. Either than killing the occasional spider for me, being taller than me would be nice; height is probably number one thing. I'm 6'3 and would like to date someone my height or taller. Shortest I've dated was 5'9-ish I think. Guy I started back dating now is the tallest guy at 6'7, my own personal skyscraper.
     
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    Game of Thrones baby, ;)
     
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    Yall kill me w all of these 'rules' /preferences. Real talk
     
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    THIS IS TEST BOOK HEIGHTISM and ERASURE! Gay dudes 5'-5'9, the majority, trying control the narrative of the minority gay dudes at the extreme end of the height spectrum. We the minority need more representation and would not let our voices be silent by these Homonormative height gay dudes!
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    OH SHEEIT! That's baby Barak Obama( Gay of Thrones) I totally did not recognize him, he is so cute.
     
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    Where would Keyshia be if I was soo damn particular?
     
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    It's probably because he's smiling, innit? :D
     
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    This thread was informative just from the revelations of Squad Member heights alone. I always imagined some of you to be shorter and taller than it turns out you actually are, lol
     
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