I need genuine and honest advice about shooting my shot

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  1. King Zorro

    King Zorro I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.....
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    I need advice! I don’t have many gay guy friends who are level headed and I know most of you guys have lots of experience with various situations! There’s this guy who watches everything I post on my Facebook story as soon as I post. He always posts about not being able to find the right one and that he wants more. I recently found out he was gay and he is looking for a relationship but he never tries to reach out. Me, I’ve never had to reach out or ask anyone out because I’m always approached. I don’t know how to shoot my shot and I really think this dude is a good dude. Should I wait for him to reach out or should I say something? And what should I say? I’m scared, nervous and I don’t want to look stupid. HELP lol
     
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    Do you believe there's a mutual interest?

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    You just need to start of by saying "Hello" or something clever like maybe "why are you so handsome?" then see how he will respond
     
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    The most important thing is the fact that you shoot your shot and BE YOURSELF
     
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    Yeah. Im just afraid of looking dumb
     
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    I would suggest not using the phrase "shoot your shot" since it grinds my gears. For real, it comes off as egotistical when i hear guys say that or have it posted on their social media. It's as if they expect people to jump through hoops just to have a conversation with them. I may be judgmental, but guys that post that phrase seem like a lot of work, therefore, I usually walk on by.
     
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    Just DM him and spark up a basic conversation.

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    well, look at you. :rocks:
     
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    Truth is that closed mouths don't get fed. I am weary at times about rejection but it is a part of the process. You have to be bold. I am about to be 30 years old in November 2019 so I need to be brave and bold and just shoot my shot. At least I know after complimenting a guy or trying to talk to him that he is interested in me like I am in him or not.
     
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    Yeah you gotta take a chance and slide in the DMs online OR just approach and speak in person.
     
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