NSFW Is Showing Ass in Selfies and Pics Feminine?

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  1. OckyDub

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    I like looking at ass (amongst other things) on a man. However, when a dude is “presenting” the ass outside of the bedroom it comes off as feminine to me. ‘Presenting’ is a term used by some animals specialists to discribe when some female mammals are receptive to a male. The female will present (usually by tooting her rump/ass up or showing her backside) to the male.
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    Members of the site know how I roll and I hope they know this doesn’t mean something is “wrong” or negative with feminine men or any man who does this. I’m just saying how it comes off to me personally. AND I’m not even saying it’s unattractive. If my ole man wanted me to send him a butt shot, I would because you know…that’s my dude but me just dropping random ass shots on Instragram.
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    What do you think?
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    I would agree. Especially, seeking the more masculine guys rump up. It would be a turn off for me. I am just not into nude selfies on anybody.
     
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    I guess maybe it is the way they pose that really makes it feminine. Other than that, masc & fem dudes stay showing booty on IG
     
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    :umad:you right, which is why I sparked this convo. But let me flip the question back to you, regardless how I posed the question, what is your perception of guys who do this?
     
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    I definitely agree with this, it is totally feminine. When I see guys do this, it's a turn off for me.
     
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    I agree it looks thirsty as hell and is a turn off for me
     
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    Like this dude...


    It's clear he wants us to know he ain't got on no drawz and clearly pulled those down just so to show of his ass, which is nice, but still. It does come off a little fem and I'm okay with the occasional butt shot every now and then. He's got several posts that high light or look to purposely bring attenion to his butt. That's fine.

    But then ...



    So he's may just like guys and gals checking out his ass. Hell it's nice! Most straight men don't want you looking so if he's not caring I'll continue to look.

    I have a squat butt and I try not to bring attention to it as much as I can. But I mean I can't really hide it but if I wanted to draw more attention to it, it would by thirstily obvious. I actually work my upper body more to try to balance it out so it's odd to me when I see dudes trying to make their ass a focal. But people are different so...
     
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    If anything I'm constantly pulling my shorts up and pulling my shirt down. Lol
     
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    I remember when you posted about this guy's instagram account in the groupme chat. This dude is so obsessed with his ass it's ridiculous lol. I'm just wondering how his wife feels about this? I don't know too many females who like it when their man flaunts their ass off like this lol. I feel like a lot of females would find this unattractive lol.
     
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    The guy gets my cylinders going so I can't lie about that. I find him attractive. But I do think that's peculiar "hey! Look at my ass!" with this thirst trapping. He's GOT to be getting hit on all the time in those DMs.
     
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    ....same. Nude selfies leave nothing to the imagination.
     
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    ....same. This is my true struggle. I could do without my a**, so I do a lot not to bring attention to it. But the times it does get attention, it looks like that's my intention when in honesty, it's the farthest from it.
     
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    ....that's just so bloody adorable man!
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    Even then, I still wouldn't do it for him....but then again, I'm speaking from my own naiveté of not being in a relationship.
     
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    Eeh....I've never correlated the two. I think I'd have to go with how the picture is taken....the face down, ass up pose, the sitting on the corner of the sink pose, etc....then yeh, I can see it. But those poses where it's them standing sideways or them not facing the camera....eeh. Either way, I'm not complaining yeh.


    I feel where you coming from on dropping ass shots. I don't like my ass and try to keep it hidden to the best of my ability. I had picture up on Jack'd where you could see my bum from my reflection....didn't catch it at first but when it was brought to my attention, it was definitely removed. I don't know, just not a good look for me. :/
     
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    I don't think it's feminine in and of itself, but many of the poses are. It doesn't really turn me on or off, though. Nude selfies are pretty meh to me in general.
     
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    As long as the azz iz phat, feel free to show that shit.

    Femininity is IMG_20160304_171926.jpg all in the pose!
     
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    Feminine doesn't capture the essence of what I think it is, which is "gay." I don't intend to be mean or bashing, but in a manner of speaking, there are some things that can simply be summed up as just gay and I think this is one. I know women like men with nice asses, but I haven't come across any that like them like hangin out and posing like that.
     
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    I would not say its fem. Depending on the pose he could mean your trying be an attentionaito. I mean if your a bodybuilder and into fitness stuff and work hard for it maybe you want people to see "all" of your "great work" . If it looks good im not complaining cause im def enjoying the view. But str8 dudes tend to get upset. I mean how can you complain your getting attention from dudes when you showing your a** for the world to see online.
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    These are a few of my favorite presenting shots where I find both an inviting and masculine appeal to them.

    I like that they showcase the male form from the back without trying to pose like a female even in the use of feminine props like the furry blankets.

    If I came home and found anyone of these dudes like this, my self imposed celibacy would come to an immediate end.

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    Number 2 with the sack view... Yes!

    And number 3.
     
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    Good taste and eye sir!
     
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    When gay men discuss at length what they think is "feminine" and why it's unattractive, doesn't that indirectly say they dislike women and womanly traits?
     
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    Maybe for some but I see it as what may be an attractant on one body doesn't work on another.
    Watching tassels swing in two different directions while upside down works on breasts but not on pecs and doesn't mean I dislike women because I'd find a dude doing it ridiculous.
     
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    Idk what to say. It's like, I love nice cakes, but I dont just 'expect' a man to have them. But, I DO get Chloe face when I see a woman w pancakes.
     
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    I have seen many women who have made me think "Damn!" like these chicks were built. Thick thighs, boobs, ass, flat stomachs. Really statutesque. I can appreciate that on a female but I'm definitely not one who would find a big ass ass on a dude all that attractive.

    For example the photo going around with the dude in the crop jacket in the brown sundress. Thats not attractive for me.
     
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    I love looking at ass pics regardless of if sending ass pics is deemed fem or not, if it's a nice ass I'm not mad or turned off. What determines if it's fem or masc to me depends on the pose, the build of the guy and what they're wearing, and if they're well... actually feminine or masculine. If you can take dick like a dude I don't see how you can't take an ass pic like one?
     
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    Yea, i can say that i have a cpl mirror nudies, but i've never even thought of taking an azz shot. But, now, I think it's relative. In the muscle mania world MANY guys live in, (including many gay dudes on ig) it's more abt the glutes than cakes.

    Obvs diff if ur tootin it n shyt
     
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    No, I get it. I'm more into the guys @Tyroc posted, I find those masculine and erotic because it is more "natural state and shape" in their posing as opposed to the feminine, "Coppertone dog done grabbed my bikini" poses.
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    When it comes to male booty, it's about geometry of shape for me, not size, quality vs quantity. I guess the artist in me just likes perfect circles and curves; as a college professor once said to me, "beauty is a round butt." Lol I like big booties on women because that is a biological response for me as a man; "that phat azz and hips can carry some babies!" The idyllic male form, from the classical art perspective, is not meant to be like the female form. So, if you're masc or prefer masculine guys you tend to want the behind to sit like the period in an exclamation point, under an inverted pyramid, V upper body
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    not my preference as I think a woman's butt on a male body is cartoonish, but whatever floats your boat, it's a free world baby!
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    So am I the only person on the planet who is specifically ASKED for ass shots? Does this mean that I've been pegged as a bottom?
     
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    I sent my first ass shot this year btw. The most uncomfortable-nerve racking thing :sadcam:
     
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