Is This A Sign To Stop Dating Younger Guys?

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    Is This A Sign To Stop Dating Younger Guys?

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    That's a sign to stop dating anyone. Regardless of age.
     
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    And the person sending those texts is 29 years old, not 19 :shock:
     
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    Nothing wrong with dating younger guys at all. However, a 29 year old dude not knowing the difference between *Wanted and *Want to and their use, also asking for money to download music???
    ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!
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    From my experience its not about the money for the music to download, but to see if you will open your finances to him. If you do that, then he knows he can ask for more since he knows you fancy him. Also, I have learnt that it's not a good sign if you getting to know a dude and he ask you for money.
     
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    Yeah and we haven't even met in person yet. These young dudes are bold! But if you're doing this that means you've done it before and it worked on someone so you keep doing it, especially with older men.
     
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    You have not met him before and he asking for money???
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    C'mon Nick you should know what dude is about, using what he has to get money from dudes! A lot of dudes do this now. I have fallen for them before, thinking he might just be in a rough patch now. However once the favor was done and I said no to the next one, GHOSTED! Fortunate he letting you know what he is about, your money/support. Unfortunate that you want more from him and have to now move on. Oh, the battlefield of dating...
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    And you haven't even met him yet? Just no tact whatsoever. I'd think this was something one would deem inappropriate regardless of age.

    Props to him for "wanted" support the artist, though.
     
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    Mos def some nerve for sure. SMH.
     
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    The funny thing is we don't see ANY response from Nick to his solicitation. I mean that 29-year old dude got ghosted with the quickness. LMAO
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    Yeah! This is very common now.

    He is freelance appscorting!
     
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    I think regardless of age its important to date those on your level, emotionally, spiritually and definitely financially, because love doesn't pay the bills. lol. However sometimes regardless of age, people can still be in a child like state of mind. As a 24 year old, I personally wouldn't have expected that from a 29 year old. But one of the biggest lessons ive learned in life is that everyone and I mean EVERYONE is different sometimes not always age may be nothing but a number. But at the same time let's always strive not to rock the cradle lol.
     
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    Aww now come on Nick. I'm gonna start calling you Uncle Nicky if you keep messin around with them youngins..J/k :p.

    Hmm. It really depends on the mental state of the person. I do find some young guys to be cute sometimes but I don't date them... Not in these times especially. Well I don't date period anyways but I've never looked at a younger guy and been like...Oh, that's my hubby...I may have thought about how good his pipe game was but that's just typical me and my normal throw away thoughts..I size up any man I think is cute the moment I see him.

    29 is fairly young I suppose, though it's 59 in the gay community. o_O

    In this case I'd be weary though you never know someone's situation. We do have to keep in mind that sometimes even the best of us can go through things beyond our control. However, if you were talking to me and I hadn't met you, I would never ask you for money. That is rather impolite and I have observed younger folks do that. I once met a young guy a long while ago that wanted to "come see me" but started asking me for gas money to come over...
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    From my observations, men (& women) like this may need to be avoided. They usually do this to test the waters to see how much you're into them and they figure if you do it once, you'll do again. Not saying it's him but some folks do like to live at the expense of others.
     
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    This is referred to as a "F#$k Boi" right? LOL I'm surprised you even bothered to present this to the group, Nick...tho I suppose it makes for decent convo.
     
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    I don't think it has to do with age. I am 25 years old and my 19 year old self would still not ask another grown man for money for stupid s*** like that. It's just awkward. 29 is not young either.
     
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    I could excuse asking for gas money to get to work or something serious, but to money to download music?! GTFOH.
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    This is what you call a "grown ass boy" at almost 30 years old he's more than likely is never gonna man-up or smarten up.
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