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  1. mojoreece

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    Why would a feminine man be upset that a masculine dude would want to be with another masculine dude? Why cant people understand that some masculine men like to bottom and/or be vers? Could a masculine dude let a fem top? What are your thoughts.
     
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    Because fem gays are always pulling their victim card. 26.3.2016 - 1.jpg
    They're constantly getting butt hurt over shit that shouldn't be an issue. That seems to be a thing in the gay community in general.
     
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    "I can't have anyone more fem than me...it's just my preference," said the glassy-eyed wrist-popping pristeeJ84 as he complained of regular masculine dudes preferring to be with other reg dudes. As to be expected, hypocrisy is most delicious when you're the one serving it.



     
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    A lot of fem gay men equate that statement as if you are telling them they can't drink at the Whites Only water fountain. They should be accounting themselves for their contributions to the stigma and heteronormative crucifixion that comes with being gay or bisexual, especially in the Black community.
     
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    The whole concept of a fem man (not all) not understanding why a gay masculine man would want to be with someone like them seems weird. It seems like even in the gay community people don't fully understand sexual fluidity and the complexities of bedroom preferences. I think a lot of gay men cant get past these rigid labels. I cringe when they keep calling each other "girl". Or when they say stuff like (in @Nick Delmacy gay voice) "O he said he was a masc top but he really a bottom....he bottom better than...." etc. I think a lot of black fem dudes take on the mentally of black women for some odd reason.
     
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    Agreed@"I think a lot of black fem dudes take on the mentally of black women for some odd reason."
     
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    This is why I think we should stop using "top" and "bottom" as nouns instead of verbs. It's not who you are, it's what you do. You bottom, you're not A bottom. You top, you're not A top. By using them as nouns, they become identity markers and that's why people so easily assign character traits. And then you have conversations like this. It's bullshit.

    And the thing that gets me about these critiques of masculine dudes who like other masculine dudes is that it often comes from feminine dudes who also prefer masculine dudes. Even dude in the video said, "He can't be more feminine than me." What? I've heard this same logic from a lot of self-identified feminine bottoms. So basically, they would prefer that the gay community align the same way as heterosexuals where masculine gay men exclusively date feminine gay men. That's some heteronormative bullshit.
     
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    Plus he needs to take that damn gum out of his mouth-you are talking on camera! No gum! geez. It is all a contradictory mess. LOL these are all in Atlanta... @Nick Delmacy here are your choices in Atlanta! lol.
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    I was taken back by his comment as well.
     
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    I dont understand way people cant get what you do in bed does not define your whole person-hood or identity. And the conversations spread the bull because a lot of young kids view his program to see how to maneuver in the gay community smh.
    Thats what I never understood it seems that like gays always want to copy what heteros dude to seem like "were're just like you". No were're different and that's ok. The thing about being gay is that we can make relationships dynamics what we want them to be and should not follow that traditional hetero normative bullsh...sh.

    Dont worry @Nick Delmacy found just the one for you givin you a lil masculino and a lil femenina all in one lol lol
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    i had to stop it half way...it was a lot of wtf. but i think it boils down to rejection no one wants to feel unwanted
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    Becus a lot of fem dudes havent gotten the memo that they have diks n testosterone! They misconstrue bottoming w being a woman, which is how they wana be treated. Look at that damn utube screen cap... NO!
     
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    I feel u, 'no1 wants to feel unwanted'. So ppl need to grow tf up n act right! Im sooo tired of fem dudes playing victim because every masc dude isnt rushing to treat them like princesses.
     
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    I really would take the video a lot more serious if the people on it had something to say... I heard a lot of blah blah blah ... this is what has hurt me, this is what i hate, i cant get a man because i am too fem and not cute... and some more blah blah blah.

    I think if they were a bit more educated (or sounded like they were educated) it would have more of an impact... but other than that, this was useless.
     
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    Man, i didn't even bother to watch the vid. 0 need. Get some fukn testosterone in ur life! Shyt is pathetic!
     
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    Most (not all) fem guys are such a turn off because they extra and loud. They are akin to a ghetto women. I hate when they call each other girl or hunny or ma'am.

    The fems are cute in the video though. I have saw this thing where a lot of buff dudes are big ole bottoms.

    I think its the stigma with the whole manly man thing. I agree that everyone has their own thing though.

    Aint nothing wrong with eating a Tops ass or a Top that likes you into eating ass...lol

    Aint nothing wrong with fems but gender fluid gays are the best!! Lol.

    A lot of guys like trannies as well and these dudes are "straight-acting" as they call it.

    They should have adressed the new fascination or resurgence of raw sex and diseases and the nonchalant attitude toward it in the community.
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    Say it again!!!!!!!
    I was watching it and calling all of them losers! and I said, they need some testerone
     
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    So they only place they could film this video was in the bedroom?
    Uhm okay.

    And is there anything wrong with masculine men who bottom only? I mean, these dudes exist.
     
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    Nothing wrong with it all and Oh
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    They do!
    I done did have plenty in my time.
     
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    The gum popping, blonde-haired really annoying one went to Ohio State Beauty Academy...naturally. SMH I hope he is not one of us(Buckeye). If he is I am gonna have to post that Freaks "One of us, One of us, Gooble-gobble gooba gobble" GIF I have.

    None of them really made any points about their topic really did they? lol The others seem like they might not be particularly bitchy, extra, and rachet, but the blonde one...you KNOW he is all of those things. He has that 'can go from ok or mildy annoyed to raging bitch in 2 seconds' look and feel about him.

    Jacob Kohinoor is good looking and has a nice body and while not exactly dripping with masculinity seems like a nice guy actually, he just says some strange stuff sometimes and it is weird when he cusses so much and yet is just so relentlessly smiling and upbeat. Being that 'smiley' is just not normal and I would want to punch him after a while just to stop. that. damn. smiling. all. the time.
     
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    I've never met the dude but I kinda get a feeling that he might actually like it and start calling you daddy.
     
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    All of these muhf@#kaz is madd as hell, but "Blondie" is TIIIGHT! This is the same situation as the whole "No Fats, No Fems, No Blacks, No Asians, etc" madness, If a nikka don't want YOUUUUUUU...for WHATEVER FUCKIN REASON.....MOVE, ON!!! Your bitcha ass whining and complaining and eye rolling, lip smacking, exaggerated inflections is NOT going to change a muhfukaz mind and make them sympathize for you and give you a mercy fuck.

    I'm really not one for all the "Dick this, Dick that" talk. That (among many other things) turns me off about a lot of effeminate men. I'll say every once in a while.."yeah, dude probably got a big ass dick" or "damn, homeboy got DICK" if I'm with my cousin or my best friend, but the dick/ sex conversations are a big turn off for me.

    Poor Pedro. In regard to his commentary on not feeling privileged and not to look down on guys that you don't consider on your level, he might as well have been tellin' a Black Baptist Preacher from 1930's Alabama that he need to have a flamboyant, gay man in charge of the "Ursher Board", because I could see it in "Blondie's" eyes while he was talkin...."Little Latin Boy in drag....SIT yo ass down, bitch. We don' do, foo foo, boo boo". LOL
     
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    I'm still trying figure what women gave him the taco? Must have been one of the BBWs with a pretty face and long hair. They stay on tryna get with the gays.
     
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    I was thinkin the SAME...EXACT...THING... I was lookin at the screen like this...
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    Yeah I thought the same thing. But remembered a hearing a black gay dude talk about it on the Judge Mathis show some years back. A thing that happens in the gay community that some masculine bi/lesbians and fem gay/bi men become couples or have sex together. Some do it to make a baby or just to experiment. I remember on the MTV show "Suspect" I thought I was looking at this fine good looking dude until I find out it was actually a masculine lesbian.
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    nope, they sure didn't!

    You know, Hugo seemed to be the most mature of the lot, even though he looks like he's 11. Not sure how he managed to do that. Oh, wait, it's cos the rest of them made NO DAMN SENSE! It was a f%cking morass.

    And Jacob, poor sweet Jacob, running his mouth about "discriminating hos". As if this is how one wins friends and influences people. Well Jacob, this 'ho' isn't loyal. Not to you. Not ever. Sayonara fool. Or as he would put it,






    lmfao! soooo glad i wasn't the only one who was hella confused by that
     
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    R.I.P. to all of the men who went over to @Tyroc house...
     
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    Hey, I may have slayed them but they all still alive...just walking funny after!
     
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    after @Tyroc dudes be like Tom,



    poor (or i guess lucky) lambs
     
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    Dont believe thy hype...i heard @Tyroc is hung like a mouse...but i aint one to gossip...
     
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    I think a lot of feminine men think that homosexual relationships should mirror heterosexual ones, where one person is masculine and the other feminine. A masculine dude seeking another masculine dude pretty much goes against this.
     
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    It's almost like how {a lot of} heterosexuals view homosexuality, they can't understand why two men or two women would be attracted to each other or want to be together. Most fem dudes can't understand why two masculine men (or even two fem men, in some cases) would want to be together. Its an anathema for most of them. smh
     
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