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  1. acessential

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    This is why I think we should stop using "top" and "bottom" as nouns instead of verbs. It's not who you are, it's what you do. You bottom, you're not A bottom. You top, you're not A top. By using them as nouns, they become identity markers and that's why people so easily assign character traits. And then you have conversations like this. It's bullshit.

    And the thing that gets me about these critiques of masculine dudes who like other masculine dudes is that it often comes from feminine dudes who also prefer masculine dudes. Even dude in the video said, "He can't be more feminine than me." What? I've heard this same logic from a lot of self-identified feminine bottoms. So basically, they would prefer that the gay community align the same way as heterosexuals where masculine gay men exclusively date feminine gay men. That's some heteronormative bullshit.
     
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    Becus a lot of fem dudes havent gotten the memo that they have diks n testosterone! They misconstrue bottoming w being a woman, which is how they wana be treated. Look at that damn utube screen cap... NO!
     
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    It's almost like how {a lot of} heterosexuals view homosexuality, they can't understand why two men or two women would be attracted to each other or want to be together. Most fem dudes can't understand why two masculine men (or even two fem men, in some cases) would want to be together. Its an anathema for most of them. smh
     
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    Too many folks spend time whining and endlessly obsessing about those that don't want them and the reasons why rather than accept it and go find someone that does.
    There are plenty of masculine dudes that like femme dudes, it's just encombent upon them to find them if that's what they really want but I guess it's easier to sit around and lament about dudes for not falling down to worship at their heavily made up altar instead of putting in the time and effort.
     
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    The whole concept of a fem man (not all) not understanding why a gay masculine man would want to be with someone like them seems weird. It seems like even in the gay community people don't fully understand sexual fluidity and the complexities of bedroom preferences. I think a lot of gay men cant get past these rigid labels. I cringe when they keep calling each other "girl". Or when they say stuff like (in @Nick Delmacy gay voice) "O he said he was a masc top but he really a bottom....he bottom better than...." etc. I think a lot of black fem dudes take on the mentally of black women for some odd reason.
     
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    Honestly Bro, they really shouldn't have to change anything about themselves in order to find someone. They just need to stop bitchin' and look for a masculine dude that's into them. I'm sure they're out there.
     
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    I think a lot of feminine men think that homosexual relationships should mirror heterosexual ones, where one person is masculine and the other feminine. A masculine dude seeking another masculine dude pretty much goes against this.
     
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    All of these muhf@#kaz is madd as hell, but "Blondie" is TIIIGHT! This is the same situation as the whole "No Fats, No Fems, No Blacks, No Asians, etc" madness, If a nikka don't want YOUUUUUUU...for WHATEVER FUCKIN REASON.....MOVE, ON!!! Your bitcha ass whining and complaining and eye rolling, lip smacking, exaggerated inflections is NOT going to change a muhfukaz mind and make them sympathize for you and give you a mercy fuck.

    I'm really not one for all the "Dick this, Dick that" talk. That (among many other things) turns me off about a lot of effeminate men. I'll say every once in a while.."yeah, dude probably got a big ass dick" or "damn, homeboy got DICK" if I'm with my cousin or my best friend, but the dick/ sex conversations are a big turn off for me.

    Poor Pedro. In regard to his commentary on not feeling privileged and not to look down on guys that you don't consider on your level, he might as well have been tellin' a Black Baptist Preacher from 1930's Alabama that he need to have a flamboyant, gay man in charge of the "Ursher Board", because I could see it in "Blondie's" eyes while he was talkin...."Little Latin Boy in drag....SIT yo ass down, bitch. We don' do, foo foo, boo boo". LOL
     
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    I was thinkin the SAME...EXACT...THING... I was lookin at the screen like this...
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    I feel u, 'no1 wants to feel unwanted'. So ppl need to grow tf up n act right! Im sooo tired of fem dudes playing victim because every masc dude isnt rushing to treat them like princesses.
     
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    Agreed@"I think a lot of black fem dudes take on the mentally of black women for some odd reason."
     
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    "I can't have anyone more fem than me...it's just my preference," said the glassy-eyed wrist-popping pristeeJ84 as he complained of regular masculine dudes preferring to be with other reg dudes. As to be expected, hypocrisy is most delicious when you're the one serving it.



     
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    This brings this old cartoon to mind.
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    So many fish in the great big ocean.
     
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    People tend to get this way when they run into a string of rejection from their "objects of desire", it all depends on how one handles it. When enough of a said type rejects you, all of a sudden its..."all these {insert type} is only lookin' for {insert type} " when the real case is you just happened to have run into {insert number} nikkaz that didn't want anything to do with you. LOL Some muhfukaz (like myself) don't have the patience for the "hunt & peck" so I just decided to fall back for a minute, but I be damned if Im'a sit and bitch about it. If a nikka don't want me for WHATEVER reason, that's his prerogative and ain't shit I can do about it. LOL Muhfukaz just need to cup they ballz, man the fuck up, and SHUT the fuck up.
     
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    I'm still trying figure what women gave him the taco? Must have been one of the BBWs with a pretty face and long hair. They stay on tryna get with the gays.
     
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    I've never met the dude but I kinda get a feeling that he might actually like it and start calling you daddy.
     
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    The gum popping, blonde-haired really annoying one went to Ohio State Beauty Academy...naturally. SMH I hope he is not one of us(Buckeye). If he is I am gonna have to post that Freaks "One of us, One of us, Gooble-gobble gooba gobble" GIF I have.

    None of them really made any points about their topic really did they? lol The others seem like they might not be particularly bitchy, extra, and rachet, but the blonde one...you KNOW he is all of those things. He has that 'can go from ok or mildy annoyed to raging bitch in 2 seconds' look and feel about him.

    Jacob Kohinoor is good looking and has a nice body and while not exactly dripping with masculinity seems like a nice guy actually, he just says some strange stuff sometimes and it is weird when he cusses so much and yet is just so relentlessly smiling and upbeat. Being that 'smiley' is just not normal and I would want to punch him after a while just to stop. that. damn. smiling. all. the time.
     
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    Man, i didn't even bother to watch the vid. 0 need. Get some fukn testosterone in ur life! Shyt is pathetic!
     
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    i had to stop it half way...it was a lot of wtf. but i think it boils down to rejection no one wants to feel unwanted
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    I dont understand way people cant get what you do in bed does not define your whole person-hood or identity. And the conversations spread the bull because a lot of young kids view his program to see how to maneuver in the gay community smh.
    Thats what I never understood it seems that like gays always want to copy what heteros dude to seem like "were're just like you". No were're different and that's ok. The thing about being gay is that we can make relationships dynamics what we want them to be and should not follow that traditional hetero normative bullsh...sh.

    Dont worry @Nick Delmacy found just the one for you givin you a lil masculino and a lil femenina all in one lol lol
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