This is why I think we should stop using "top" and "bottom" as nouns instead of verbs. It's not who you are, it's what you do. You bottom, you're not A bottom. You top, you're not A top. By using them as nouns, they become identity markers and that's why people so easily assign character traits. And then you have conversations like this. It's bullshit.
And the thing that gets me about these critiques of masculine dudes who like other masculine dudes is that it often comes from feminine dudes who also prefer masculine dudes. Even dude in the video said, "He can't be more feminine than me." What? I've heard this same logic from a lot of self-identified feminine bottoms. So basically, they would prefer that the gay community align the same way as heterosexuals where masculine gay men exclusively date feminine gay men. That's some heteronormative bullshit.
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Becus a lot of fem dudes havent gotten the memo that they have diks n testosterone! They misconstrue bottoming w being a woman, which is how they wana be treated. Look at that damn utube screen cap... NO!
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There are plenty of masculine dudes that like femme dudes, it's just encombent upon them to find them if that's what they really want but I guess it's easier to sit around and lament about dudes for not falling down to worship at their heavily made up altar instead of putting in the time and effort.SB3, GNerd2012, Discordant and 4 others dapped this. -
The whole concept of a fem man (not all) not understanding why a gay masculine man would want to be with someone like them seems weird. It seems like even in the gay community people don't fully understand sexual fluidity and the complexities of bedroom preferences. I think a lot of gay men cant get past these rigid labels. I cringe when they keep calling each other "girl". Or when they say stuff like (in @Nick Delmacy gay voice) "O he said he was a masc top but he really a bottom....he bottom better than...." etc. I think a lot of black fem dudes take on the mentally of black women for some odd reason.
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I think a lot of feminine men think that homosexual relationships should mirror heterosexual ones, where one person is masculine and the other feminine. A masculine dude seeking another masculine dude pretty much goes against this.
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All of these muhf@#kaz is madd as hell, but "Blondie" is TIIIGHT! This is the same situation as the whole "No Fats, No Fems, No Blacks, No Asians, etc" madness, If a nikka don't want YOUUUUUUU...for WHATEVER FUCKIN REASON.....MOVE, ON!!! Your bitcha ass whining and complaining and eye rolling, lip smacking, exaggerated inflections is NOT going to change a muhfukaz mind and make them sympathize for you and give you a mercy fuck.
I'm really not one for all the "Dick this, Dick that" talk. That (among many other things) turns me off about a lot of effeminate men. I'll say every once in a while.."yeah, dude probably got a big ass dick" or "damn, homeboy got DICK" if I'm with my cousin or my best friend, but the dick/ sex conversations are a big turn off for me.
Poor Pedro. In regard to his commentary on not feeling privileged and not to look down on guys that you don't consider on your level, he might as well have been tellin' a Black Baptist Preacher from 1930's Alabama that he need to have a flamboyant, gay man in charge of the "Ursher Board", because I could see it in "Blondie's" eyes while he was talkin...."Little Latin Boy in drag....SIT yo ass down, bitch. We don' do, foo foo, boo boo". LOLDC., Cyrus-Brooks, ColumbusGuy and 3 others dapped this. -
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"I can't have anyone more fem than me...it's just my preference," said the glassy-eyed wrist-popping pristeeJ84 as he complained of regular masculine dudes preferring to be with other reg dudes. As to be expected, hypocrisy is most delicious when you're the one serving it.
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I'm still trying figure what women gave him the taco? Must have been one of the BBWs with a pretty face and long hair. They stay on tryna get with the gays.
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The gum popping, blonde-haired really annoying one went to Ohio State Beauty Academy...naturally. SMH I hope he is not one of us(Buckeye). If he is I am gonna have to post that Freaks "One of us, One of us, Gooble-gobble gooba gobble" GIF I have.
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Man, i didn't even bother to watch the vid. 0 need. Get some fukn testosterone in ur life! Shyt is pathetic!
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i had to stop it half way...it was a lot of wtf. but i think it boils down to rejection no one wants to feel unwanted
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