Masculine 4 Masculine

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    I mean.... I see nothing wrong with the masc4masc concept. I mean these feminine dues are still DUDES when you look at the concept, so.... they still..... can.... change........ if..... they...... want...... a........ masculine dude.... to ..... want.......... them-I think I'm talking too much so I'm leaving.
     
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    Honestly Bro, they really shouldn't have to change anything about themselves in order to find someone. They just need to stop bitchin' and look for a masculine dude that's into them. I'm sure they're out there.
     
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    Too many folks spend time whining and endlessly obsessing about those that don't want them and the reasons why rather than accept it and go find someone that does.
    There are plenty of masculine dudes that like femme dudes, it's just encombent upon them to find them if that's what they really want but I guess it's easier to sit around and lament about dudes for not falling down to worship at their heavily made up altar instead of putting in the time and effort.
     
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    People tend to get this way when they run into a string of rejection from their "objects of desire", it all depends on how one handles it. When enough of a said type rejects you, all of a sudden its..."all these {insert type} is only lookin' for {insert type} " when the real case is you just happened to have run into {insert number} nikkaz that didn't want anything to do with you. LOL Some muhfukaz (like myself) don't have the patience for the "hunt & peck" so I just decided to fall back for a minute, but I be damned if Im'a sit and bitch about it. If a nikka don't want me for WHATEVER reason, that's his prerogative and ain't shit I can do about it. LOL Muhfukaz just need to cup they ballz, man the fuck up, and SHUT the fuck up.
     
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    This brings this old cartoon to mind.
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    So many fish in the great big ocean.
     
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    LOL I have this cartoon in a gay comic book from about 1987-1988. I think it is on the back cover maybe. It was Gay Comix.
     
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    all of that sounds vaguely right.
     
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    They had ongoing series, Like 'Leonard and Larry' and they had 'Swishy Fishy' ..I can't recall the names of any of the others that regularly appeared. They were hilarious though. But that cartoon was definitely on one of them and it was on either the front of the back cover or the back of the back cover since it was in color and was on white shiny thicker paper and not just the newsprint type of paper.
     
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    Wow! Good memory dude.
     
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    I remember them well because I found them in Chicago on a visit there in 1988 and I loved them so I bought a whole bunch of them! lol. Some crazy funny stuff that made people laugh in the midst of the AIDS crisis. They are buried around here somewhere in a box.
     
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    I agree with earlier comments about sexual positions do not define gay men. However with a culture based heavily on "Sexuality" it's almost like how could it not? (Not saying I condone it). I was originally going to say why dont feminine dudes seek other feminine dudes, but some people just have their preferences which is okay as I do and others do, some people like opposite to what they are. For example, they may be on the short side but prefer taller guys, they may be black but prefer white guys etc. I personally wouldn't mind dating a feminine guy, it really just depends on his character. For example, I wouldn't mind dating a feminine guy who still identities with being a man in terms of traits if that makes sense. In other words, if he dresses up like a woman and things of the sorts, then that's not really for me, a few quirks here and there and some smaller traits, I'm definitely fine with that, even a voice depending on how it sounds. lo.
     
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    First, there is a fine line between expressing a discomfort for a trait and outright bashing. And some of you have crossed the border into Hate Country. Secondly the pool of masculine men who desire effeminate guys is very shallow. I think we can all empathise with that.
     
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    Because this thread is kinda dated, I revisited the comments everyone left. I didn't get a sense of bashing nor hate? What gave you that impression or what stood out to you?
     
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    I only signed up this week so that explains the late comment. But to address your point some of members were implying that men shouldn't be effeminate. And to me that's awfully close to the "man should not lie with another man" diatribe we all hear. Again this is the vibe I got as a non - masculine man. Lets just say I know when I'm being hated on.
     
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    Ok. This is a rather vague comment. It started as, "some of you have crossed the border into Hate Country", then progressed to "some of members were implying". Both accusations need some evidence. So, please send some quotes so I don't need to guess.

    I don't think anyone here hates any other group of people. But if you think they do, I'd suggest asking a clarifying question. Maybe you won't get a response, since as it's been noted, this is an old thread. You could always start a new thread (see what I did just then? lol).
     
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    I will address it in a new thread at a later date but the fact you can't spot it is itself troubling...
     
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    *sigh* I suppose the 3 minutes more history that I have here (compared to you anyways) gives me the all-important context of remotely provocative comments on this thread. That being said, I'm certainly not gonna be playing the "guess what I'm thinking game". If you feel wronged or 'hated on', you should say why specifically. Until you do, imma throw the deuces up.

    whatever nigga riley.gif
     
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    If I have to spell them out I find these statements troubling: "Get some fukn testosterone in ur life!"; "they need some testerone"; and "I mean these feminine dudes are still DUDES when you look at the concept, so...they still...can...change". Ouch! What makes the first two even more disturbing is the fact that some countries actually give effeminate gay men hormone "therapy" in a misguided attempt to "cure" their "abnormality". But even if you didn't know that it's morally dangerous. The last one shows a clear misunderstanding of the effeminacy. I didn't want to attribute the quotes because I want to start a civilised dialogue not a war of words. Let me also say I'm glad I joined CA. :)
     
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    @Champagne_Papi or should I say the guy with the Drake smile . Nobody issues receipts for under-the-table transactions. Didn't you learn anything from Whitney!
     
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    Thanks for joining and also continuing the conversation. Did you find anything offensive in the video that began the thread?
     
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    Well, thank you for actually saying what was on your mind. I think I should defer additional comments for now and have you refer to my last message. Since I've interacted with quite a few guys on this site and feel like I've started to get to know who they are (incl dudes whose comments were sorta kinda attributed...I just um went backwards with the search function) I feel that your comments are a bit off-base. But again, context. We're here for discussion. And, yes, you're certainly allowed to pointedly question members here. I know I certainly have.

    Welcome to Cypher Avenue, where men have interesting, mostly-thoughtful, sometimes-heated but always adult conversations with other men. I look forward to your contributions. Kudos to getting in the pool with the rest of us.
     
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    I do think optics are important. I can understand why these phrases can be problematic.
     
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    No it's not offensive per say and the critical comments were warranted. But some folks got carried away and given that only one member mentioned this in passing I had to highlight it.
     
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    I guess we have to agree to differ on this point. Alas, I didn't want to cite the exact comments to precisely avoid making it personal. In any case I believe you can amicably disagree with someone on substance without attacking their mannerism. But that's just me.
     
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    I thought about this picture on my way home from work today. Some little Spanish chick got on the train and was all down my throat, then some 'Rican dude got on behind her and I was checkin him out, all to see that he was checkin' the Spanish chick out. LOL!!
     
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