NICK'S ADVENTURES IN LOS ANGELES - #2

Just another example of how the dominate Hetero Supremacist society AND Gay Culture can have such a negative impact to the point of crippling sexualities.

 

Yeah I don't mind dating someone who is discreet about telling other's he is not close to but also as a reply to @Ockydub advice video, I could not date someone who is out to their family. I think it takes someone who is willing to put up with being kept a secret from a potential boyfriend's family and friends to date someone like that.

Keep doing your thing @Nick Delmacy. You will eventually find a promising dude.

 

I am always cautious of dudes that are Super Discreet. He has lived in ATL and now LA and is STILL acts the way he does? NO! He did not even know about Tinder? Has he been living under a rock even if he is not ''into gay life'' he would have heard of it from his str8 friends, LA times article, seen an online banner or overheard ppl talking about it.
''He also def doesn't ever want str8 friends/family to think he's gay based on any person he brings around them...so he's super selective. They have to pass the "masculinity test."...guys like this kill me. One will never be ''straight'' enough for them, they will always be on the alert for any gay expression or sign that they will quickly tell/correct you with ''cut it out with that gay shit''line. It will feel like a prison with them. They have have this over specific expectation and qualities they want in a mate in their head, that I feel only a 'Sims' or 'Mass Effect' character creation profile can fulfill.
I wish you all the very best as you search and hopefully find this super discreet/just super private, masculine, straight acting dude you desire. Also since you in LA have you tried going on a date with someone that isn't black? You never know this dude you looking for might come in another Hue.

 

I can understand exactly this dude complex way of thinking . I'm slick happy I'm not the only one who feels this way. I tried having that cool azz friend situation but I started to feel like the objectified chick that has to say "hey not tonight we really are JUSt chilling" and later when you doze off his hands starts to go on a tour of their own. #stuck

 

Why are gay men sooo obsessed w creating new labels for things? You wanna be close, but not committed on paper, but always avail on demand, and lay up, and _____, but u don't want to call a spade a damn spade.

 

So, where are parts 1 and 3?