I'm going to take the initiative to start an argument with one of these types of dudes just to see what type of bottom shaming insults they're gonna spew, meanwhile on their quest for raw daddy dick.
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Most time the guys with this mentality are über fems and carry a similar mentality as that of a woman being courted by a bisexual man would have. Other times (I dealt with a guy like this, in the military) it could be a semi masc (if even masc on occasion) guy that feels a vers guy is "tainted" and feels that he'd be allowing someone "less than" to run up in him, despite the fact that he himself gets run up in. Either way, it boils down to hetero-normative, feminine ways of thinking.
I personally don't understand it and have never understood it. To me a d!ck is a d!ck. If I like a dude and I'm feelin him enough to let him run up in me, I don't give a f@#k what has run up in him.itsumoconfused, SB3, Mendizi and 6 others dapped this. -
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Its Possible That:
*He has the mindset of a straight Black woman. Meaning if anything has been near a dude's round eye besides toilet paper and soap...he is gay / not a real man.
*He is the type of dude who likes a dude to call his doughnut hole, pussy or man-gina or boy-pussy, etc.
*Its simple and actually makes sense. If a masc dude is versatile or a versatile top and he is a total bottom, that means he feels he would not be able to satisfy his man sexually and thinks the guy he may fall in love with may actually cheat on him due to not being completely sexually fulfilled or satisfied. Relating back to the first point. For women they feel like well, if its another woman, I can deal with that, but how could I compete if he is cheating with another man?
My office hours are Monday - Thursday 9am - 5pm. By appointment only. No Blacks, Asians, Fats, Jews, Fems, Democrats, People from California, Portuguese, Persians, Northern Irish, Southern New Zealanders, residents of Quebec of the last 7 years, people with freckles (gross), those who eat baking soda, people who are scared of their own farts, vegans, vegetarians, Hippies, Protestants, goat herders, Civil War veterans and people who are left handed. All others welcome.itsumoconfused, SB3, Mendizi and 5 others dapped this. -
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I hope people scroll past his profile.
I honestly don't get it. Although, during my military days, I did hook up with a guy in the Airforce a few times who was a total bottom and he was sorta like that. He asked if I ever had been a bottom because he thought differently of men who had bottomed. He turned out to be cray cray.
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I never understood it. It's like they get disgusted by the act of bottoming as if they aren't bottoms themselves.
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Another aspect of this is the fact that people judge others to a totally different standards then they do themselves. I mean people for instance would say no fats and then they themselves are on the pudgy side. Well in this case it seems this person has a negative connotation to one who is verse that he doesnt put to himself
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This thread is hilarious. Those fools just wana be treated like their str8 homegirls. Any chance that another gay dude would have the audacity to want to acknowledge their diks, let alone have them use it, strips away from the fantasy of them getting their shyt beat up like/being one of the girls.
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It's a symptom of internalized homophobia. There is a logic behind it.
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I've always wondered why some guys mentally limit themselves from topping... Like completely will not/can't do it...
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