No Fap.

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  1. NewAfrikan

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    Has anyone ever tried the no Fap for 90 days. How did it make you feel? I haven't had sex in a year since moving to Atlanta. I'm afraid of diseases. I realized I've become way to comfortable jerking off and watching porn, too the point where I don't even think of human contact. I don't want to become addicted to porn and masturbating.
     
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    I have never tried the no Fap for 90 days, sounds like a challenge I will fail 45 min into it lol. I now I mostly prefer human contact and my urge to masturbate has really gone down, I just feel weird after I rub one out. Before I would attribute it to my religious upbringing but once I got rid off all that BULLSHIT, I mostly feel now that I don't want to make it a constant thing and I try to get with someone. Haven't gotten any since January sooo....yeah lol
     
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    I don't know about 90 days there would be too much build up lol. But I have tried a couple of weeks. Taking time off It does make ur energy and time more focused on other productive things. And when u "return" you feel more "powerful" and "refreshed;" feels like coming off vacation lol

    @takeyourmeds91 have u did a "90 day challenge" lol:franko1:
     
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    I am thinking of taking a break. TBH, I'm a 4-5 times a week guy. Usually before my post gym shower. It has significantly dropped my desire to actually have sex and I think I'm at the point where I'm so good at taking myself where I want to go, that it makes it harder for me to be satisfied by another person. Sad I know. But hey, my risk of STDs is a little lower since I'm not actively tryna hook up.

    Soooooooo gonna try to see how long I can go in October with no fap.

    My main concern is that I love sleep and if my man man decides to go on a rage at 2:4am it's easier to give in, rub it out and get to sleep versus trying to get in a comfortable position that isn't stimulating waiting on it to calm down.

    I can say that when I have taken breaks, I was very productive.

     
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    Mmmmm I think I'm good on the no fap.
     
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    Gosh. I feel so bad, I am up to jacking off 2 - 3 times a day. Which I can accept - I know the time it takes (5 - 15 mins) including finding the right video on Tumblr to get busy to. Which I can accept, since I spent more time on hook-up apps and talking to people and arranging a date and being on their time. It saves a lot of time and energy on may part to do other things with my life - like running my business.

    I am not worried about an addiction. I think the bigger addiction is the dating / sex apps. they are so time consuming and have little to no payoff.

    Pass the vaseline. LOL
     
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    LMAO Im not even gonna fool myself into tryin this sht.
     
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    I can do it actually. I don't think anything is wrong with masturbating in moderation. I think the main culprit is porn. I think porn is damaging because you're sharing an empty orgasm. Instead of getting that connection with a person, you're wasting it on an illusion. I also think it makes men handicapped in a sense that you'll loose your imagination and all go to porn to jackoff.

    I'm gray Ace but recently since I haven't done any masturbation in a while, I've been craving a real man to bang me senseless and since I don't have sex...that can be problematic... If I see a chocolate man in a wife beater (so many athletes around me too) I tend to eye him. Look at his arms, chest, his walk and his butt and crotch.

    I tend to try to channel my sexual energy into my creativity though. My sexual nature will never trump my morals. If I don't know a guy well enough, sex with him will be not happening. Haha. Now if I like him and we vibe then he'll see a hidden side oof me.
     
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    Yo what’s good fellas..
    I’m new the boards and this is an interesting thread. Honestly, I don’t think I can last a month without a lil stroke ... I fap about 4-5x’s a week and even then, I still get the urge to jackoff. Yo if I did participate, I definitely would have to channel that sexual energy elsewhere cause my dick would get hard at the slightest glance of a nipple or I see a bulge in the gym or some shit lol
     
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    2-3 times???
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    How do you get time for that? lol
     
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    Even when I young and dumb after 3 times in one day I'd be sore or out of product. Because I have been so frequent, 2 nutts a day is my max. I could do more if they are further apart.

    I'm going at attempt to only have orgasms via sexual interaction with someone else for October. Until then, I'm going to have a few blasts this weekend.lol
     
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    Well there was that Brazilian kid that masturbated himself to death...
     
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    Ooooo - what you wanna know? lol

    But nah, I typically go about a week and half without fapping (or maybe once in that whole time) then I'll go ham for like 2-3 days straight at least 2 times each day. If it's a weekend and I'm in the crib, I'll reach 3 but that's my max cus shit start getting sore lmao.

    I'm not doing 90 days. Periodt.

    Bwoaayy, it's something about that post-work out energy that makes you wanna fck suummnnn. Especially if it was fine mthfckers in the gym. I saw this fine dude when I walked in today. I went to go change in the locker room and he walked into about to take a shower. Lord Jesus. I had to give him a small round of applause as I was walking out to the floor.

    And then I as I was pulling out the parking lot, I saw my other crush jogging down the street shirtless. I had half a mind to hunk the horn smh

    LMAO this gif personifies what I was thinking
     
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    Other than religious (never my concern lol) or medical reasons, I never saw the need for these Seinfeld type time outs, lol. It’s like dudes are still carrying around cisgender, sports myth (“It’ll kill your performance”), or Judeo Christian baggage.

    Once I learned about bonobos after taking Anthropology I lost any guilt about faps etc. Humans dominate as life forms because we can do it anywhere, anytime. And there’s medical lit that shows there’s probably some health benefit; this is more @takeyourmeds91 realm but hey if Harvard says pocket pool is good sport who am I to argue with Ivy League?

    https://www.europeanurology.com/art...esults-with-an-additional-decade-of-follow-up

    Hell, I’m in a relationship and I still get it in as much as pre-relationship levels lol. Until there’s a body of literature that demonstrates outright medical harm, I’ll just keep doing like MJ and not stop til I get enough.
     
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    I think most of the time it's really the test of will power to see how long you can go without.
     
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    Don’t you mean WON’T power ... (*snare*)
     
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    Hmm....I am tempted to try this. I don't know about 90 days though...I'll take it a day at a time.
     
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