Open Relationships in 2017

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  1. takeyourmeds91

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    Would yall feel comfortable fcking somebody that's in an open relationship.?..follow up question. Would yall feel comfortable fcking somebody who was in a closed relationship but didn't care?
     
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    I have done both. On the open relationship, I found out after the fact. On the closed relationship, I knew. The closed relationships were when I was younger. Like 15 years ago.
     
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    @ControlledXaos To my knowledge, I haven't dealt with anyone in an open relationship but I did with someone who was closed. I felt bad after only because I wouldn't want that to happen to me. Some folks use the excuse, "well if they don't respect their relationship, why should I?" Honestly, it just comes down to being a good person and doing unto others..blazay blah
     
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    I mean in my case it wasn't knowing any better I was still figuring the gay thing and dating out. The open relationship situation being after the fact I didn't feel bad about but probably wouldn't have entertained it had I known. Not sure honestly. I think it's safe to say that most people would gather if you are trying to hook up likely you're single 9/10.
     
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    Wouldn't feel comfortable fucking someone in a closed relationship because once I know, I don't need that kind of bad energy on my back. If their in a open relationship I would tread lightly.
     
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    You have to be careful fucking someone in an open relationship on a consistent basis because once that is established, certain feelings are likely to become involved on either side whether you want them to or not.
     
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    I could never do either. I would get too emotional attached. When I was younger I had the experience telling one of my co-workers (at Mcdonalds night shift Job) that her boyfriend was cheating on her with this other girl from my day shift Govt. internship job.

    The boyfriend didn't know me nor did he know that I would randomly found out he was cheating when his sidepiece was talking to me about their "affair" over lunch. She knew he had a girlfriend and even showed me a pic of my Mc Ds coworker. I think the side piece was even trying to get pregnant buy him cause I dont think they used protection. She also already had a kid (not sure if he was the dad).

    So if someone was trying to be w/ me and was already in a relationship of any kind, my mind would always go back to this situation. I also know that karma can be a b***
     
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    I dunno...I used to be strictly against this but nikkas gonna be nikkas, I'd rather know who they are fucking on the side than not. Def would have to place the scenario out by ear, depending on how much I was "in love" with the dude...but we couldn't be on some new relationship shit, it would have to be after some many years.
     
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    I messed w a guy in an open relationship once. He said they were open because they had drastically different sex drives. It was actually one of the hottest hookups I've ever had.

    Ive never knowingly messed w someone in a committed situation.
     
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