Preference Or Prejudice? | Queer Britain - Episode 4

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    1. Immediately I saw that the 'Potato Queen' was Asian I was NOT surprised at all. Asian men are savagely plagued with such mentality.
    2. OH MA GAWD! Those black guys were from a previous post about dating on here. I so love them cos they were invited by the Royal Family to meet Prince William. I mean if you have received an invitation from the Royal prince why in the hell should you care about what some fucking racist white devil gay guy is saying on a dating app!?!
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    Dude forget all those ppl, come over here and I will love you looong time!
     
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    Btw Nick I think we need a 15 min audio review/experience during your UK trip. From the food, the people, expenses, its difference and similarities between the States, your 'About Him' experience at the gay club e.t.c I mean curious/nosy minds want to know...lol
     
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    So this also reminds me of what my Irish friend told me of his experiences on this app with white gays and gay guys of color. He is white, and I mean Tilda Swinton white, and his hair changes as the seasons too. So in the winter he is more of like ginger and in the summer he is full shiny blonde. He usually dates mostly people of color, he grew up around a lot Blacks and Indians, but is open to whites too as his current bf is white. Anyways he would hook up with white guys on the app without any ''preference'' on their profile and while hooking up they would say things like 'oh thank God you are white' or 'I only go for white/blonde/ginger guys' which is an automatic boner killer for him. With people of color that write him they actually thank him for choosing them. They go 'I can't believe I am having sex with a blonde/ginger guy, thank you for hooking up with me' or some are just so eager to please him or date him that it just becomes off putting. It baffles him that gay guys place him on such a high level esp minority gays when he sees them higher and on more desirable than white gays.
     
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    Should one take issue with another's blatant preferences or prejudices? At the end of the day, that person doesn't want to talk to you, whether or not they are explicit about it.
     
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    It is good in a way that these asses expose themselves as what they are. That way nobody has to waste their time on them. Why would anyone want to have anything to do with someone who is so prejudiced and rude and apparently does not care one bit if the world knows it? Not only are they racist, they are stupid and that stuff can follow them. No respect for other people, and no damn common sense. smh.

    *blonde, blue eyed or redhead with pale skin-the type of guy I found the least attractive. And sorry...British accents...YUCK! *runs*


    *Seriously now..Holy Shit! I cannot believe that guy said 'the white race is the superior one!!!!' this is fucked up!

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    Ok what is the difference between 'preferences' in race...and 'preferences' regarding degree of masculinity???

    Ok I recognized that first porn with the black guy-yeah he is huge but he is not tall-both of those guys in that porn are under five five! LOL
     
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    I think that there is a fine line between prejudice and preference. To prefer something means that you wouldn't particularly choose it, but you'd be open to it. However, most people that put those type of disclaimers in their profiles or make it known publicly are taking an adamant stance.

    I find that people confuse their "wants" with their "needs" quite often. They will pass up great prospects because they aren't/don't have a certain body type, color, dick size, status, masc to fem ratio, etc. It is very frustrating to listen to people complain about being single, but they have an entire checklist that people need to meet.

    If you aren't willing to look past what a person is or has then it isn't preference. It is your standard and possibly your prejudice based on how you view and treat these people.
     
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