QUESTION: Do Sexy Straight Men Go For Unattractive Mates More Than Gays?

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  1. Cyrus-Brooks

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    Another I failed to mention is attractive straight men and attractive straight women tend to want to be catered too. They seem to think because they look good. People should kowtow to their demands. With that in mind it makes sense that an attractive straight dude can get a homely chick to do his bidding and not complain and be happy about it. The same is true for and attractive woman who is in a relationship with an unattractive man.
     
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    Me too!!!
     
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    This is triple true for the better part of "Above/Way Above Average Attractive" Gay Men. Most of these muhf@#az have gotten by their entire lives to date off their looks alone, so not only do they not likely know how to function any other way, most of them probably couldn't even if they tried. smh I know quite a few... ES-SPEC-IALL-LY {{insert certain Ethnic Group that USED to be the "In-Thing" ER'BODY wanted to get with in the Late 90's Early 2000's here in NYC 'til the Dominicans took over that I will not spell out"}}s. I know nuffa dem lookin' like Don Omar and Miguel sh!t but with the personality of a slug. But... EEEEVERYBODYs their f@#kin "stan". LOL Smdh
     
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    Yeah I think many gay guys will get dickmatized and that would be the only thing they care about. Same for phat asses.

    There's a few porn models who need to be thankful they have a large wang and for protein shakes because they are... Strong in the face.
     
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    {Cough!Cough!CUTLERXCough!!COUGH!!}
     
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    I could not have said it any better. I am trying to be nice about it.
     
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    Not the word in itself, the way it was used. The style of writing conveys a certain tone especially through text when you can't easily decipher someone's emotion. Its repetitive nature in that sentence didn't feel necessary and felt like it was designed to convey a stronger hostile point. Example (bolded for emphasis):

    "You assume that she had budget issues, you assume that she didn't get the actors she actually wanted based on her budget, you assume that I liked the movie as much as you despite the actor's appearance."

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    "You assume that she had budget issues, that she didn't get the actors she actually wanted based on her budget, and that I liked the movie as much as you despite the actor's appearance."

    Slight differences, but an entirely different tone. Then again, that might just be your style of writing, so it's gucci.
     
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    rocks Whoa, yeah that def seems like an example of reading too much into it...But then again I don't know all of the Message Board etiquette besides not using ALL CAPS...
     
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    Could be. I might just be trippin, but that was my initial thought.
     
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    Okay, I thought it was just me. I was starting to feel bad.
     
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    #JesusBeAFenceAllAroundMe. Here is MY take, keyword "MY." Most Black males date less pretty females for a few reasons at times: 1. They get to still do what they want to do. 2. She is less combative as she feels undeserving of him. 3. He was a hoe in his past and truly changed and knows the ugly ones are usually the most LOYAL. 4. The Pussy is AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGG. 5. FINE Looks is ALL he has so a Pretty girl will pass. When it comes to gay males, I agree with your statement of they do it based on how it will look in the picture. Furthermore, I feel that in the LGBT lifestyle most minorities are very critical of looks as they hold themselves to a higher caliber so they do the same towards their mate. Furthermore, I feel with Gays especially black gays, you attract what you give off. All in all I don't think there is a true trend per say. I think we just pay more attention to what stands out to us the most.
     
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    I'm not going to lie, looks are pretty important...all that personality shit is well and good but looks are what attracts someone to another person initially...you can't just look at a guy or girl and say "gosh I bet they have a wonderful personality" it just can't work like that so physical appearance is what sets it in motion...if I'm not physically attracted to someone then it won't work...I don't really agree that most gay men are looking for the IG models and all that...I feel like man or woman, straight or gay, everyone has certain traits that they look for when it comes to finding someone and I think everyone is different...I can only speak from my own experiences though
     
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    I used to be like this but then I met dudes with dope personalities who made me laugh, smile and feel more comfortable with them than any "handsome" dude ever did. It def takes more time for those guys to get my attention than the dudes with good looks.
     
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    Yeah for sure..not to say attraction can't develop over time...I just hate when people say looks aren't important
     
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    Looks are definitely important but that's where the "average Joe" but awesome personality types end up scoring points because I don't care how find you are or how hot your body is if you can't carry conversation, make me feel comfortable and easy with you, then we pretty much will fizzle out because I'll just only enjoy the physical times with you and since I can tell that early on now, I probably won't entertain anything other than sex anyway. I thin this just comes with experience.
     
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    Yeah in the beginning I was so caught up on looks and them fitting a masculine box I had established as my "type" that in hindsight I missed out on a lot of good brothers...some maybe not so good too, but dating them could have still been valuable life lessons. I still do have certain men who I would not date but I've def more open to more personality variety than I used to be.
     
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    Same here, dude. In hindsight I passed on a LOT of potentially good dudes because I was into a certain "look" at the time that they didnt fit. smh. Eh, you live and you learn, I suppose.
     
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    lol i actually liked the film regardless of how they looked their acting was good and their both fine in their own right ;-)
     
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    to be honest i see this a lot of with gay men especially black gay men they tend to only date "attractive" or what they deem attractive looking men and to be honest it is a part of an inferiority complex that needs to be fix asap. I feel that black gay men are super insecure, there are many reasons why however, the inferiority complex needs to end lest we continue down a destruction path that leaves many heart broken and lonely
     
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    Many times when you see this, it's about who's willing to hold them down in spite of their glaring flaws and fuck ups. There are a lot of "obedient" men/ women who go into the relationship with a fine ass dude/ chick knowing they are going to have to put up with a lot of shit. That's kind of the unspoken contract. I've witnessed it more times than I care to have. I remember folks talking mad shit about Jesse Williams' wife Aryn. Everyone on social media was amazed at how "average" she was compared to him. But to be honest, their relationship goes back a long way. She was with him when he was a teacher and a struggling actor. Waaaaay before Grey's Anatomy. Sometimes it's about folks having a good compass in choosing the right partner. Because to be honest, a lot of these 10s would average in as 5s or below if their looks were taken out of the equation.
     
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