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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    This Is What I Wouldn't Mind Having:

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    UNFORTUNATELY, THIS IS PROBABLY WHAT I'LL END UP GETTING:

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    You'll get what u decide to take negro, like the rest of us.
     
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    your perception can become your reality. You'll only get what you want...
     
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    Relationship Goals: Me seeing life with bea looking like

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    Yeah, I get that way sometimes when I get home from work; Then I remember how many people are locked into relationships like this

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    and for a few minutes, I'm chill again

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    Add some hot wings and two xbox ones and I'm set. Id love a bf could game with. Unfortunately that's never been the case.
     
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    U might have to put him on! Most guys will get into their dude's hobbies once they're let in on them.
     
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    My last bf just liked to watch for the story.

    I wanna be gaming power couple whooping azz online bussin caps on these hoes.
     
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    :dead1: @ 'gaming power couple'
     
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    So true I know that Im not into games as I was when I was younger. I would def be up to play if they were into vintage games systems like super nintendo.
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    LOL nick so shady. Just know what you think about you bring about.
     
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    right bro!:umad:
     
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    @Nick Delmacy and @DreG are the resident shaders here on Real Gays of Cypher Avenue.
     
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    Me? ? never...:sass2:
     
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    Just ask @alton He takes his boos to basket weaving and paint drying class all the time!
     
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    Ijs, that's why he's never available for the 2 for 1 happy hr dranks n 50 cent wings
     
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    Im sorry, but I call BS on all this..."you get what you put out" shit. If that was the case then more than half the nikkaz on this site alone would be in phenomenal relationships, because this site is FULL of good looking, intelligent, level headed dudes that Im sure are well aware of what it is they want in another person. We say this "oh...you have to put that energy out there and it'll come to you Huney" (I dont know why I did that in a gay voice LOL) nonsense because it sounds good and it's reassuring, but the reality is the better majority of muh'fukaz str8 and gay (and women too) ain't shit. The culture promotes "Ain't Shit-ness". Any genuinely good dude with half a common sense that can spot bullshit from a mile away will most likely be single because out of 10 dudes (or chicks), 7 ain't shit, 1 is in a relationship, and one is over the bullshit and don't bother anymore. That just leaves the needle in the haystack. LOL.

    And @SB3 You an't shit fo keep putting me in basket weaving activities. Ain't been on here in fi'ty 'leven years and now you wanna jump back in and "shade" me. Chyle, Cheese LMAO
     
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    SLAYED IN THE SPIRIT BY ALLLL THIS TRUTH!!!
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    We come up with coping and reassuring ways to help us with issues, which I totally understand is human nature. However the earlier we face reality, in this case that some will probably settle in crappy relationships or have their friends be the best relationship they ever experience or be single till they die, the better chance we will have to enjoy and go through life Happy and Internally fulfilled.
     
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    Well we are more than just what we see of each other online. I'm some us have character flaws which might put us in the Ain't Bout Sh!t column, the No Swag Set, the Too Nice list, or the Poor Social Skills /Does Not Play Well With Others cube.

    So while online we may all be the apple of someone's eye, it the real us may not be attractive to admirers in real life.

    However, we have a few dudes here who are in relationships and Even married.

    I just hate to see people just completely lose hope that they will never be in a healthy loving relationship. So while casting good vibes towards the universe may not be helpful, it's a lot better than throwing the towel in.

    /soapbox
     
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    I don't care how old I sound..if you are wearing mother fucking suits you wear mother fucking socks! They look mother fucking ridiculous in suits and shit with no socks with dress fucking shoes on!

    And I can only be an admirer on here now...my masculinity level got downgraded AGAIN at dinner so at most compared to yall and considering that only a Chuck Norris type white guy can be considered 'masc' compared to black dudes I am stuck in the in-between zone. shit. Plus GAWD dang! I am old-just saw a recent pic of myself...I am looking old and tired and puffed up like a dirtbag. But if I can get my shit together I may start being 'open' to meeting someone again at some point I have decided(possibly). Oh and who the hell gets a fortune cookie that says 'Fortune not found! Abort! Ignore!????? I am gonna sue that place

    Oh and anybody else notice how masc Nick was when he was introducing that podcast...all low deep voice and 'dope' DL sounding and shit...and then as the podcast got on and with those dranks and all...he 'lightened up' a bit? voice got a little higher, got talking a little faster? etc.? Got a little less self aware as time went by?
    :kermit::sass1::bronbad:hahahahahahaha....

    I am joining a few groups, including one for 'more mature' guys since I found out the guy who is there that I hate and who hates me is universally hated by everyone there. All of you wearing-a-suit-with-no-damn-socks-types-need to stay with yourselves and not contaminate the dating pool for the rest of the guys here!

    Plus I realize I am one of the seven ain'tshit dudes so I guess I will settle for another ain'tshit dude. Too old and too late in the game to be picky if I am gonna get back in the game here sometime. Damn at this point I can't worry about 'em carrying purses, I got to worry about them having pulses. Fuck my life lol.:mjcry1:100dap:lawd:


    *So how come I could say f u c k e r on here yesterday and it came through and now it doesn't?

    Anything else not censored yet? prick. dicksucker. cocksucker. cumdumpster. ?

    (hahahahaha! I am just an overgrown mothafuckan child on here).
     
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    A friend showed me his Gear VR, which blew me away and made me want to go out and buy a set. It was a lot better that I expected (and yes, I bumped into some furniture from the visual effect).

    Maybe that's an option for the lonely hearted: a virtual boyfriend? Put the glasses on and he's sitting there. Programmers could put in an option that visually fits your preference (Marshawn Lynch plug-in sold separately). Ock could make a mint if that dating app he talked about doing was the first one with virtual videos and selfies of prospects (customer to another customer: "Yo, how about unlocking them 3-dimensional dik pics for me?")
     
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    Damn after looking at my post I am going to have them check my testosterone and estrogen levels when I get my blood work done. 'Throwing shade' at Nick like that...damn I might as well start growing a vag if this keeps up.

    ^^and to heck with a virtual boyfriend. I would marry a hot muscular Brazilian dude named João who really really wants a green card first..
     
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    @ColumbusGuy - Your order is easy to fill. However, travel would absolutely be required. Grab some Xanax and get a tourist visa…a whole new world of Brazilian hotness will unfurl at your feet. Don't worry about the language barrier. I've seen American dudes in Brazil work their magic with nothing more than body language and rather suggestive gestures, which amazingly have led to multi-year relationships (Love wins…). lol
     
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    Oh Jesus, I was JOKING. I don't throw shade...except at relatives (they deserve it). My intellectual life is like Ocky's but my dating life makes Nick look like the star of "The Bachelor." I'm in no position to throw shade when I'm a goddam eclipse my damn self!
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    If you go south, just remember Truvada don't work for Zika...
     
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    "I don't care how old I sound..if you are wearing mother f**king suits you wear mother f**king socks! They look mother f**king ridiculous in suits and shyt with no socks with dress f**king shoes on!"

    Dude, styles change with the times. There was a point in time a few years back when I thought the "highwater" dress pant looked stupid as f#$k, but now it's the mainstream. Few can pull it off and look good, but its the style of the moment. Now, "highwater" dress pants with either no socks (but mainly ankle socks) is in. I think it looks good {on some people}, but truth is most muhfuk@z look ridiculous. These two dudes look good. lol
     
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    I don't like the dress pants + no socks look. These guys are getting passes because they have nice bodies which usually makes alsost anything you put on look good.

    I just think about how sweaty their feet have got to be. It's late mid springtime. Either their feet stank because of the heat and sweat or they they are ashy as hell because you are baby powered down to keep them dry.
     
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    "These guys are getting passes because they have nice bodies which usually makes alsost anything you put on look good."

    That's usually the only reason anyone that pulls this look off gets a pass. You can't be rotund and try to pull off that look because it wont work. I've seen it here at my job. It really takes a particular body type because it only works with slim fit pants/ shirts. As far as the socks go, most dudes wear ankle socks that are maybe a size too small so that you can't see them. That quells the "Summa' Foot" problem. For the ones that don't...Not in MY gotdamn house!!
     
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    Booties. They are called booties. Lolololol I have them for my Chucks. Usually you can barely see the edge of mine but I have been out and about and legit seen dudes' arches. Not a bootie or ankle sock to be found.


    "Rotund"

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    My relationship goals is to hoard my house in a mountain of chicken fingers, eat some flat bread pizza all day everyday, and have a storage full of butterscotch cookies. Then how bout I'll call you if I wanna listen to music, suck face and get my booty rubbed?
     
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    AMEN! There's a dude in my building that works for another company and he is dressed like this everyday; highwaters, socks showing...and fine as fuk! I definitely co-sign on your sentiments, 'cause he pulls it off but if my ass tried that look, people would be looking for the empty hobo cup to put coins in.
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