Romantic or Disgusting

I think it depends on the person you're with and how you felt about the experience. If it was just your routined scheduled sex night, you'll probably want to cleanup as soon as the sex hormones wear off. If was spontaneous, romantic, or you were feeling your partner more than usual you sometimes want to "bask in that afterglow"....or you're just too lazy/exhausted to get up.lol
Get Your Glow On

 

Depends on the occasion really and what hygiene means to you, but for me, in that moment, I would take it as romantic. But the sheets needs to be changed and cleaned the following morning - that is a must!

 

Lol what Dreamwalker said, but also depends on how dirty I am . I don't mind a little sweat and other stuff but I would have to draw a line at a certain point cause I like to be clean when I go to bed, and feeling too dirty would irk me too much. But you can always shower in the morning! My sheets on the other hand couldn't be filthy! lol

 

I always have to get up and clean up no matter what. My bed is like totally my sanctuary. I even try to do it other places besides the bed if at all possible lol. I cant even imagine just laying there and saying oh fuck it.

 

I would sleep better (literally not because of ocd) if I cleaned up. I'm OK wallowing in the juices for aa few w minutes but after that... We's gotta shower and if needed change the sheets. (sometimes you just get a towel to protect the sheets during)

Besides if we shower that means round two is possible later or a quick handy J and blow session in the morning.

 

I would have to clean up afterwards in general. But it would have to be that dude for me to be like "Okay babe".

 

Random hookup... cleanup.
Love of my life... marinate.

 

Rly? Im surprised yall are so strict, seeing as how the question said 'your dude' and not a hookup.

 

Good point, @SB3 lReading is fundamental.

I change my response to just, "MARINATE".

 

Ijs..theyd think i was nasty as hell if thats the case lol

 

Y'all telling me you letting that truffle butter just marinate into the sheets. I guess you ain't working with those Egyptian cotton sheets. Personally, the kind of lube I use (silicone based) needs to at minimum be rinsed off but probably requires soap and water.

 

TMI @BlackguyExecutive.not everyone nor every encounter, for most people, is that messy. LMAO

 

LOLok I know....I normally don't use phrases like Truffle Butter

 

I sweat too much to just be laying on some wet ass sheets or avoiding The Wet Spot. As I stated we can chill for a minute, but before I sleep I'm getting in the shower.

 

Actual intercourse can be one thing, but if yall are doing mutual j/os, n b/js n shyt, yall cant just grab that towel n wipe off n spoon urselves to sleep???

Like, my ex and I had quite an active smut life, so wasnt nobody trying to shower n change the sheets after every round..ijs

 

Im waaay too low maintenance for egyptian cotton sheets...my reg lil sheets do me quite aight

 

I think the pink elephant to this topic is how many guys are grossed out by jizz. I never realized it was that serious, but it really is for some of yall!

 

Or rather are people grossed out by other peoples jizz?

I'm not trying to be rolling around in a pile of it so I'm guessing that if you are not rushing to the bathroom to clean up afterwards, they'd at least have a sex rag on the night stand.

 

This! I am too sweaty for that

 

I think its both. I dated one dude who was grossed out by his own.

 

Grossed out by his own little swimmers? Geeze. Every time he jacks off he has mixed feelings. Lol

 

Yall funny as hell..LMAO!

 

That is sooo strange to me. I've had a similar experience. I'm just not grossed out by semen.

 

In my relationships, it was always marinate!
Let the love juices seep in and dry as long as didn't get in an eye.

 

If he fasted, it's all good...

 

Let it Marinate

 

Disgusting....just even the thought of it is making me cringe. I hate being sweaty and having things on my bare skin, I'd have to immediately take a shower afterwards.

But if it truly, truly, TRULY meant that much to him....then I'd take it as romantic, suck it up and just lay there.