"SET THE STANDARD HOE!" A Gem For Gay Boys?

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  1. Nigerian Prince

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    This video comes from a guy on FB that goes by 'The Misunderstood Social Worker' and he states: "This Gem is for The GAY BOYS; life lessons on dating vs. hooking up... and THE "ADHD" in the Gay Community!!!!! Im sure alot of you can relate.. Lets deprogram the foolishness!!!!"

    Tell me your thoughts about his advice.
     
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    I think its pretty clear around here exactly how I feel about this topic w/o even watching the video...
     
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    i agree with all he said if you don't want to be seen as fast and easy don't curry your self that way learn how to say no to a dude
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    First: Why his nose so shiny? It was distracting

    Second: Can we STOP with the false narrative that gay men are more promiscuous than heterosexuals?

    Third: The ONLY reason a dude would be concerned about being perceived as a "hoe" is because they are a gaylebrity or they're dating and having sex amongst a group of friends. Of course if you're running through your friends and their friends, you might get a reputation.

    I don't date my friends or their Exes.

    Every dude I've dated, I had no idea who and how many people they had fucked...unless they told me...and even then, that was before this is now.

    Fourth: You got some good sex and he didn't return your call the next day...So what...Good riddance, he just showed you early that he wasn't shyt. So you would have rather wasted 3 weeks dating an "ain't shyt" dude instead? What, so he could slowly see the real you? That would make him stay? He ain't shyt...if he will disappear after one day, he will disappear after 3 weeks...He just saved you 20 days of back-and-forth with an "ain't shyt" nikka and you still got some peen out of it.

    Fifth: If you're sexually active but concerned about becoming a Hoe...most likely YOU ALREADY ARE! Remember that HOOKUPS COUNT! Just because he didn't take you out for a $200 date first, that doesn't mean that it doesn't apply towards your overall Body Count!

    Assuming that everyone reading this has at least 12 hookups/NSA-sex-partners a year (one per month), how is that ANY different than having sex with 12 dudes on a first date who didn't call the next day?! Shyt, I'd rather have 12 one-dates and sex than 12 anonymous hookups. And if they talk, cool...all they gonna say is I put it down, possible free advertising for the dude who actually wanna keep the merchandise...

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    who spends $200 on the first date tho? but i kinda get what your saying overall
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    lol what is that gif supposed to mean?
     
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    I guess it is true that it is best that things ended early with the "aint shyt" dude but don't you think it is better to build something more meaningful? Both parties get on the same page about what you both want? If you both want sex cool. If you wanna do FWB, then cool. If you want a meaningful intimate relationship then cool.
     
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    LOL

    Nick got charged up seeing the video
     
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    dont know just wanted to use it lol
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    I like this pic of him....a lot...

    Am I a chester????
     
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    Ok, after watching the vid, he just sounds like his frustrations are recent and built up! But I def cosign the ADHD of gays! And I like 'set the standard hoe!' cus i like callin ppl hoes...
     
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    U know @Nick Delmacy is always gettin charged up for the chance to shut somebody down
     
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    I was riding w u, w the exception of point #2! Gay men ARE more promiscuous than str8 men, becus gays are allowed to be. Str8 men would hook up w diff chicks 4x a day if it was 'allowed' by women. I dont even know str8 dudes who've jakd off in as many places as gay men have hooked up. Gays just happen to get an 'ok' on it, because its all men involved, until they find themselves no longer the 'hot' dude on the app any longer, and then want, 'something more'.
     
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    Yeah we gonna have to just disagree here because Str8 men are notorious for being hoes. That's the reason Mary J Blige even exists in the first place. Some of the biggest hoes I know are str8 men in relationships. Shows like The Sopranos demonstrated that married men with even just a lil bit of money will fuck anything under 25 years old that smiles at them. Str8 men invented the hookup...they invented the sex after just meeting each other in the club...they invented "running a train on chicks"....they invented Freak-Nik...they invented the "I'm in town for a conference" Hotel Bar sexcapades...How soon we forget about Ashley Madison, a site created for married men to find hookups and affairs...
     
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    Chance The Rapper is like a magic eye painting...sometimes he looks like a mess, but most times his handsomeness comes into focus and makes me smile...

    As for being a Chester, I'm even older than you and I still think its fine...he's over 21 years old so no guilt needed. I have a whopping 16 years on him though so all I would feel comfortable with is messing around ONLY once and then becoming gay his mentor or something.

    But that one time would be special:

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    This is just wrong...
     
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    Granted...but u kept touching on married/cheating situations. Thats the biggest difference, you have to be committed in order to cheat. The gays cant get past that first 'elusive, mythical, radical' first step, in order to be able to cheat like the str8s.

    But we can agree to disagree
     
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    True...I only mentioned the cheating thing a couple times to highlight that ALL men are promiscuous, even if in a relationship.

    As for single str8 men, I grew up listening to Hip Hop and most of it involved tales of single men fucking LOTS of women (namely Tupac). My older cousins were always getting randoms pregnant left and right...So maybe its all about the difference in who we both grew up around and who our influences were.
     
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    it would be great if childish gambino was in there wit him
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    Yo I'm pretty sure I saw this dude on Vine before... the XXX side of vine.
     
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    ....he is so f*cking hot to me. :whew:
     
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    ....but so f*cking hot at the same time.
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    Im assuming most of yall have seen him from the face pic thread, but chance actually reminds me of @JNH412
     
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    ....I'm telling you yeh, it's that sharp jawline.... ....and probably the height too. reallynow
     
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    This is kinda odd to me. I agree with shiny nose's message. I agree with @nick 's message but think it can stand on it's own but don't feel it should be in disagreement with shiny nose's message.
     
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    I see @Nick Delmacy 's point because truth be told straight men are really no different than gay men, it's just what they are attracted to is no different. I mean straight guys these cheat just the same and most of them just mainly want sex primarily if anything. I have some friends who are straight women and the stories are the same as from what I hear from my gay male friends. Although when it comes to any of my friends who are lesbians, I never hear those kind of complaints from them about women they've been involved with... lol
     
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