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  1. bisonboy

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    Have you ever been to a sex party? What was your opinion of it? Have you ever hosted one? Was it successful? Would you do it again? If you haven't been to one, are you scared or just not interested?

    I have been to a fair share. I like them, especially the ones I have been to in DC. I tried hosting one, once, but it wasn't successful because I was in the wrong kind of motel. They had a limit on guests after hours. I would definitely like to try to host another one.
     
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    The gays can call me every single kind of prude they want to, but NO!!! I can't imagine going to a place where the point is to have anonymous sex w strangers. Ijs, are grindr/jackd/scruff not enough?

    Im not judging, but its a no for me.

    I might go if they let me run the myvidster scenes displayed on the walls. Id be useful in that role.
     
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    Hmmmm, but how you know the setup up and vid platform they use?
     
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    A 'sex party' per se...no. I have been to parties that devolved into something else for some of the people there... but nothing like a motel room with people coming in and all. I won't mention other sex 'venues' though. lol.

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    lmfao!!!!!!
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    I'm wit you, Bro, but maybe for different reasons. I've gone to "theaters", book stores (do they still exist?) and bathhouses, etc, in the past, but something about 20-30 dudes in a confined space turns me off. I would imagine it smells like lube, poppers, sweat, cheap cologne, and "rushed" preparation (like a bathhouse, actually LOL). I can't do funny smells, plus I've never been the "orgy-esc" type. I don't even like seeing more than 3 dudes in a single scene in porn. LOL
     
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    Lol. Just cus I don't fuk w it, doesn't mean I don't know many ppl who have.
     
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    I don't mind watching it (as long as I can tell who is who, and the camera isn't constantly zoomed in on the penetration, as if mofos don't know how sex works)! I HATE that shyt! Like, can I see who is in this scene tho?! It might be one of my favs, but yall got a shytty camera guy and/or director! Smh
     
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    lmfao!!!
     
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    I have never fully understood the concept of "Sex Party" I mean I get what happens but I just don't know or now have been privy to how these kinds of things happen. With that being said, I have been to Gay Days in Orlando and stayed in the hotel for Gay Men and there was a lot of sex happening but I don't think it was an on the record sex party.

    Last Month my husband and I took a mini weekend vacation to the Key West and we stayed in an all male gay resort. We were the prude ones I think. I also think we were probably the youngest ones in the entire resort so we were not as comfortable.
     
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    Don't do it EVER! U have a husband. The other 99.9% of CA is tryna get into ur shoes and (@Ockydub). Dont u do it!!!
     
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    Never been. Once I was going to hook up with someone and, on my way, he started sending messages like, "How do you feel about threesomes?" and, "I might invite a couple of friends,"

    ...which made me laugh because apparently he couldn't count because that would be at least a foursome...

    and then when I got there he mentioned that he invited a bunch of folks and was attempting to have some kind of sex party while his roommate was out for the weekend. I was only trying to mess around and get head. I figured I would stick around to see where this weird night might go and what kinds of personalities may show up, but will probably leave early because I'm not always a great performer with just one person and don't think having a crowd would do me any favors.

    So I guess I'm nervous about not performing well. I also feel weird about getting intimate with strangers, though most of my intimacy has been with strangers, just not a room full of them at one time, aside from some kind of masturbation gathering where a bunch (15-25?) of dudes hung out and jacked off (and touched each other as long as it was consensual and outside of the anus).

    Anyway, only me and one other guy showed up and things pretty much worked out in my favor. I wasn't intending to fukk anyone and it didn't go there. And there was a strange dynamic where they both seemed to enjoy my company while the host, a black guy, didn't physically interact much with the other guy, a white guy. Later he told me he didn't really like white guys. I guess he was invited to pad numbers and expected to interact with other guests. It was interesting to watch him gently push the guy away to decline his advances.

    I guess his sex party planning skills were lacking or his only respondents flaked, or maybe he contacted them with suddenly escalating details in the same random way he did with me and they found something better to do. I was contemplating turning around too but was intrigued by the unexpected escalation of events. I'd love to go a sex party and hang out and watch, but sometimes watchers seem to be discouraged, like I'd be judging or be like a sober guy disturbing a group of young drunks who want everyone to partake.
     
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    I've had some threesomes and one foursome, but have always chickened out on going to sex parties. The idea of going is HOT, but the reality of doing it is not.
     
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    This is way out of my comfort level. I'm to private to participate.
     
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    Im passionate (it's sad that I care so much) abt my pron! It's my love life!
     
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    I'd go to watch. Hell they could change more for non participant lurkers and I could consider going for the voyeurism but I don't know want to get involved. If you get a case of blue sausage, you can't even pin point it.

    If Imma have sex with someone Imma at least know their name and phone number.
     
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    I'll never forget my ex and I seeing Alejandro at the bookstore near that formerly shady McDs at 34th n 8th. We were like 2 school kids (str8 up ridiculous) and too naive to know we could've brought him home for $20, a 40, and a blunt. Smh
     
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    LMAO! I saw him at the McD's on 42nd when I was 25 and was thinkin the same, in hindsight. I got a smile from him and er'thing. LOL!!
     
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    Of all the...we'll use the term "uninhibited" things I tried in my wild youth, sex parties was never something I took an interest in unless like @ControlledXaos said, that I could have attended as a non participant.
     
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    I saw him on the J train many times, but I was insecure abt talking to guys in public. My ex knew that he was LITERALLY my fav pron star, (his thing was, u always like native looking latinos) n that's why we stalked him that day. Smh. Memories.
     
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    LMAO I just took the smile and kept it movin'. I've never been one to desire a porn actor. I already see what you have and pretty much what you can do, and probably have popped off to you innumerable times so, in my mind there's no point in tryin for physical contact. LOL I've actually seen quite a few of them over the years, well, back in the day at least. Nowadays I wouldn't recognize these new dudes if they bumped into me.
     
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    I wouldn't recognize these new kids either, but my ex could've got put in the corner! I was IN LOVE w Alejandro man.
     
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    F$k'd up part, is {imo} he's actually a decent actor, it seems like. LOL I'de like to see him in a legit role.
     
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    He def couldve done work w bigger companies, but back then, LFC was cashing fat checks for him, Viper, n Papi Songo!
     
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    "Viper" is another one I used to see quite frequently in The City. They should do a "Where are they now" of LFC LMAO!
     
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    Im not a captain save a hoe type, but id have been soooo tempted by him. No other pron dude held my heart like he did. Smh
     
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    LMAO LFC=Latinos From Corrections program They all look like jail inmates.
     
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    I'd always be worried about the STD/STI aspect. I've known guys who've hosted them on the regular, they've made it seem like it was no different than planning a regular house party; lube and condoms instead of chips and music lol. Apparently they get a range of ages and body types; in that aspect I'm glad, less body shaming apparently.

    I probably wouldn't as it seems like on of those things that's so great in theory but the execution is something else and then disappointment; like the first time I 69'd. Looked so hot in videos, but ended up being too much damn work, like calisthenics in the military lol. I can only imagine the clean up after such a party, though:

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    Would probably make a good, raunchy premise for a Seth Rogan comedy though.
     
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    I don't think that I would actually perform well in a sex party situation. I am much more a casual observer than an active participant.
     
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