The Great O!!!!

How many of you men have had the 'Great O'? Maybe, I should just say, the mind blowing orgasm that makes you look like you're having a seizure. I'm talking about masturbating without porn and through means of tantra or other methods.

We know that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things. I've discovered micro orgasms aka...mini blank contractions. Having the sensations without actually ejaculating.

I think as an exercise, if any of you are patient enough, you may want to practice the art of redirecting your sexual energy through different channels in your body to get the sensation of orgasm.

It's just a genuine practice of breathing, inhaling and exhaling and stroking at certain places and at the point orgasm, holding and channeling it.

It's almost like edging except..I think with enough practice, you'll feel your pipe spasm but no sperm will come out, of course.

You can do this up to two or three times in succession with these "peen jolts", maybe more and if you want, you can cum eventually or save it and move on to something else but it's up to you.

Legs spread in a butterfly posture while laying on your back seems to be effective.

You can also try getting on your knees and resting on your heels and performing either a rotating stroke with one or two hands.

I have a strong hunch (I'm full of all kinds of puns today), that flexing your kegel muscles during this practice plays a part in eventually having these peen jolts though I'm no scientist, just a nerd. It is known that flexing and holding your kegel muscles for at least 3 seconds will make you become multi orgasmic eventually. I think combining this with tantric practice may make you have stronger contractions. It may make a dribbler turn into a shooter too. Who knows.

The major catch to all of this is doing it without any pornography or thinking about anyone sexually.

Your task is too get aroused by the act of pleasing yourself, getting aroused off of your own personal energy (mantra) output without ANY "fantasy inspired visual aid".

This may be why it's possible for some men to ejaculate without hands.

With a solid hard on and enough mental focus, I wonder if you flex your kegel (making your dick jump) enough, you'll end up nutting just from that alone? No hands. Just your mind focused on that moment. I think being too much into porn may limit this because of the habituated need for visual aid?

I've seen a guy do it before so I know it's possible....

 

That's what I'm saying. I really think porn is re-wiring the way guys think. It's like it's sorta planting a seed as you release your seed. It's something about it. It's almost like a drug or some kind of visual ecstacy.

Men should know how to "get off" without the porn boost like they used to in their youth. I think (well at least in my opinion) that a man should get hard the minute he desires to without 'help'.

Do you think porn causes some low-key kind of erectile dysfunction based on a feeling of "boredom" which may actually be the result of porn leaving its imprint in the mind? Like it becomes that bump you need to get your fix, else your high will be blown?

Does it trigger the mind to associate the images it depicts as the only means of getting hard when you're by yourself?

I'm glad you shared your thoughts. I wonder how many other men find masturbation boring without visual aid.

Do you find the sight of your own erect penis erotic?

Have you noticed in some black porn (or maybe nearly all) that the men seem to can't really get off unless it's by their own hand and they are either watching porn in the background, or it seems like a "forced" cum (usually with very little.

When I did look at it, the men do all this and that (sucking, liking, screwing, eating) but finish by jacking off.

There is no way I'm gonna let a guy smash me down to try and make me "tapout" or if he can't nut that way he has to jack off. Ummm, no...you better jack on back up in here... We ain't did all this for you to play hand polo. You can do that alone..

(I know I sound like a demanding type or sumthin, lol)

Sorry about my deep diving. I tend to like to research and ask questions and find solutions when I discover things. Usually I'm talking about space or Bigfoot but this time...well.