What Does His Career Say About His Sex Life and Dating Potential?

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    Was talking to one of my homegirls today and we joked about her being near "cougar" age (she's 37). She said she would NEVER date anyone near her little brother's age (he's 26 years old). "That's just weird," she said.

    Playing Devil's Advocate (like I always do), I asked her, "What if he was a 25 year old, over 6 foot tall, muscular, personal trainer with a full beard who wanted to take care of you?"

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    Bruh...The long pause that followed was epic.

    She laughed and admitted that she would just use him for sex, nothing more.

    Then she said, "Personal Trainers and Bartenders are the biggest male hoes" so she would never seriously date any of them.

    Is there truth to this?

    While I can see why ppl would think Personal Trainers and Bartenders are whores, most that I've met (straight and gay) actually complain about being single a lot because they say ppl are too intimidated to spit game at them.

    Are there certain professions, careers and jobs that a dude can have that would make you think he's a whore, game player, or Playboy?

    My answer would be yes...

    Many of them gay I.T. nikkas are BOUGIE WHORES!

    Whether they live in ATL, DC, Texas, etc...They hoes! LOL

    They make a lot of money, they stay in the Mall buying expensive trendy clothes, and they stay on Jack'd/Grindr and they be the main ones talking about "no dark skin, no fat, no fem, no bottoms, must be this, must be that, etc." I promise you if he wear a $200-$500 belt and a tight V-Neck sweater showing off tribal chest tattoos in a gay club, he's most likely in I.T. or some kind of computer/tech related field...and he's got a HIGH AZZ BODY COUNT!

    [Yes this is a generalization thread, who cares. lol]
     
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    You're a damn fool. I.T. really?
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    Yeah a lot of "personal trainers", armature bodybuilders, IG models types seem to also work as exotic strippers, web cam/flirt4free sites, escorts, and even do porn. They're just all over tumblr and the internet advertising their "body of work" lol They tend to use their great looking body, good looks, sexiness, and sometimes even sex for money and a comeup. I don't want to be in a serious relationship(bea stuff wise) with someone who puts their body out there like that with half naked pics and clips all over tumblr and pornhub lol Now just to smash would be something else....lol
    Just make sure they're tested for everything before hand:sass2:
     
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    Yeah. It would be typically assumed that someone with those positions would be "whores". But being a whore can be undetectable on the front end, unless your shit is out there.
     
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    Damn Nick, that description about the IT guy sounds specific as fvck. Whats homeboy name? LMAO :franko1:
     
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    From my experience dudes in education (teachers, principles, administrators) are hilarious because they are often straight up FREAKS and good lays IMO.

    Its hilarious to me because when you see them on the job or talking to parents I think to myself "If you only knew what that freak dude is into thats running this whole school" :heh:
     
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    At first thought bartenders were whores and then I decided that half were whores and the other half were just the opposite.

    People who start/have blogs and websites are either sexually freaks or are sexually frustrated or both.

    :troll::sass2:
     
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    What say ye @SB3? Lol

    I'm in IT and hardly a hoe. Hell I cant get one of them IG models to look a me twice.

    But I can cosign on the educators, mental health field folks, and factory/distribution center workers. Lol
     
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    You may be an exception to the rule, lol...But a lot of I.T. dudes be the main ones using Grindr and Jack'd while visiting other cities on jobs building networks for hospitals and other big clients. I've met many of them before, lol. One of my close friends was one of them (before we stopped being friends), he used to tell me stories of his out-of-town sexcapades.
     
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    Oh yeah? Kinda think I.T nerds are cute but have never heard that before. Don't doubt it though..

    I don't care for blatantly placing labels or stigmas on people I don't know but I definite think there is something to this barber/trainer thing...especially personal trainers!

    When you think about it, what have we been told to base our careers around our entire lives? Our personalities. Career placement tests and evaluations all rely on these social aspects of who we are, so it makes sense that certain people with certain types of personalities are attracted to specific careers or professions. People that tend to care more about interactions with people are naturally going to chose jobs that let them do so, making it more likely that you will find more whores in a barbershop than you would a laboratory.
     
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    Well you may have something there with the ones who go out of town. That I can definitely see. Especially if they have to work overnight when the facility is on down time. Definitely plausible.

    Let me also add... Truck drivers. When you carrying your bed with you everywhere you go, you can't help but hoe.
     
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    I have special ho vision and can always spot the freak in someone's eye.
    They come in all shapes and sizes, work many professions and take many positions and I don't like to talk bad about anybody but the biggest ho's I've ever known were Corrections Officers/Prison Guards!
    They take hoing to another uncharted level of hoism!
    They are usually married and mess around with each other and the inmates and the inmates relatives and anyone they meet at the bar and on and on it goes, where the ho stops, nobody knows.
     
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    U better defend the bartenders ;-)
     
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    I need that superpower so I know who to avoid lol!
     
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    You need that superpower so you'll know who can take your virtue.
     
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    :wtb:? You mean it would help find people that just put out? Negative. Not interested.
     
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    More like it'll weed them out and you'll know who to avoid.
     
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    Everyone knows Im a bartender, AND a prude! Ive been w 1 person in 2016! I wont front, if I was str8/bi, i'd have prob been a ho, because I encounter fly azz women everyday, but in my day to day, i dont meet fly men at the same rate.
     
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    I don't know if that's what he meant but that's what I was saying in the first place
     
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    Nawl! I was trying to get you to find the freak nasties to smash!
     
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    I can concur with you on this one. Lol. But you know who else be freaky?

    Church folk:
    choir director (male and female)
    pastors
    musicians/singers--probably the freakiest, with they ole artistic, creative asses
    deacons
     
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    ....I disagree with almost everything except for the pornhub part (even at that, it's kind of so-so).

    I support a dude who's comfortable enough with their body to put it out there like that (Instagram, Tumblr, or whatever); even if it is that guy who's every photo is shirtless or that dude who makes sure to get his bum in ever picture or even that guys that struts his print.

    I don't know, I don't think those types of dudes should be castigated and for me personally, I wouldn't condemn them as not bae material. It's already tough finding dudes you like (and even more so dating them), I wouldn't cancel a guy because he likes to put his body out there.
     
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    ....the slander!
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    I've wanted to f*ck more moms than dads at my school, so I feelya.
     
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    I dont know I couldnt serious take some one that put themselves out there like that. I carefully choose the content I put out into the internet. Maybe a smash and quit it but nothing else. Im selfish I want Bea only for me to see lol and not the whole world to see him desnudo and his pene all over the net.
     
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    I couldn't deal with it. I think it's cool if a dude has a few Sexy photos and then has a video of his dog, instaplates, actions shots and etc peppered in but when 95 percent of what you take photos of is your face, body, attractive friends, etc... You are looking for followers, validation, and DMs.

    It's cool to be comfortable and confident but let's not forget that some people are addicted to gaining a following and doing whatever they can to be popular. So it's less about the photos and more about the motive.
     
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    "...when 95 percent of what you take photos of is your face, body, attractive friends, etc... You are looking for followers, validation, and DMs."

    I concur, my friend. One may not see it themselves as seeking outside validation but it usually takes someone looking from the outside in, to notice. I can't stand narcissistic people and for me, 95% of your online portfolio being half naked IG body shots, 4% Head Shots, and 1% your dog/ your latest kicks/ or some random pic you took out in public to make it seem as tho you're interested in soemthing other than yourself, is the epitome of Narcissism. I leave those types to their throngs of Stans. LOL
     
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    Side note, and muhfuk@z are going to GRILL me for this {I'm so old and out-of-touch smh} what exactly is a DM? I just know it has something to do with some phone app sh!t.

    Before all the Millenials/ Millenial Chasers/ and Gen Z's (not sure if there are any 18-19yos on here) jump down my throat with insult and ridicule please note, I consciously made a decision to cut myself off from the Social Media world years ago (for reasons of my own), so I am out of touch with a lot of sh!t. I just see this acronym a lot now, and was wondering what it stood for. LOL
     
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    My 52 year old self knows(I think) that it is Direct Message?


    OK I checked and I think that is it. It took me forever to figure it out though lol.
    I have never been on any social media either. Just messageboards, forums, etc-no devilbook. And a few sex/chat sites too...
     
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    Aigh, that makes sense. Yeah, this is the only site I participate on/ interact with people. I have absolutely no interest in anything else goin' on on The Net that isn't porn. Peoples' overall stupidity, excess, and vanity turned me off from Social Media outlets long ago.
     
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    There are not that many people I really want to interact with...so many people have tons of family/friends, coworkers and they want to know about things going on. Friends and coworkers(the few I have cared about) can contact me directly. Relatives and all?-that is what mothers are for! Anything going on she will know about it. They know everything.

    Plus some of us kind of do not want to be found by certain people and would rather not have an actual real 'online presence'-some of us have stuff to hide! lol.

    *you would not believe how long it took me to figure out 'direct message'..I think I got enough clues from seeing it being discussed/context as in 'DM me' and stuff.
     
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    LOL so it's just a f#$kin IM. smh I'm here thinkin' it like some sophisticated voice/photo interactive thing that only an Apple device can utilize. LOL Whatever...
    Funny, if it wasn't for my mother (or the random news/Pop Culture updates I get from this site and the elevator TVs at my job) I wouldn't know what the f#$k is going on in the world. LOL

    As far as an online presence, I prefer to deal in The Real World where I can physically interact with and react to things. LOL Plus, I have absolutely NO interest in other peoples' shit. Those that are closest to me, have the means to reach out to me directly via phone.
     
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    I'm more lost on all of this both of you and I have people directly in my life that are on all of these platforms but I don't care enough pay attention to them when they discuss it.
    I have the Facebook but I haven't been on it in about 5 yrs and when I was on it, I was connected to family and co-worker friends so I wasn't active on it. I'd use it to check out party pics and vacation shots and the only photos I have on it were family friendly g rated.
    Like you @alton this is the only interactive platform I participate in.

    I do have the tumblr though and it's nothing but pure filth, a$$ & d!cks everywhere.
     
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