When Was The Last Time You Went Out On A Date?

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    When Was The Last Time You Went Out On A Date? Where did you meet? Who was the the initiator? How did it turn out? :lupe1:

    Like a real date, not "just hanging out." :iverson2:

    Last time for me was waaay back in May (by choice, no time/interest). It was with a dude I had already dated and in the past. We had separated, lost each others' contact info. Reconnected through Instagram. He reached out to me. (Had originally met him over 4 years ago on a Phone Chat Line)

    We had a good time. Hit up a couple of my go-to dating spots in Atlanta that he had never heard of...

    However, by the end of the night we both remembered why we split and we realized that we were both looking (or not looking) for very different things.

    When was your last shonuff DATE and what did it look like?
     
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    Date!? A real date?
    Wow, it's been way more than a minute.
    Last "official date" I went on was back in '10, a forced blind date.
    It was a straight co-workers type event and I'm no longer one to lead a lady on but I admit I punked and wasn't able to think of a proper excuse not to follow through.
    We exchanged numbers and agreed on a low pressure evening of a drink, dinner and a movie.
    It was enjoyable, I tried not to be too charming and yet not too standoffish.
    Ironically enough if she had been a dude, she and I might have had a real solid chance.
    We had seemingly similar jobs, outlooks on relationship and family type values.
    I did find her physically attractive and could have performed (at least I think, it had been a while!) I decided it best to flake and cut it off rather than add confusion to her or my life.
     
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    Wait so the last real date you went on was 5 years ago?! How long before that was your last gay date?
     
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    That would have been '05.
    It wasn't technically a "date".
    We met on an online site, "hung out" and it turned into a relationship that lasted four years.
    I have some deep seeded lumberjack lesbian tendencies, I know

    I knew when we met that he was going to be moving away in a few years but we still did the relationship thing.
     
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    My first and last gay date was back in May too hahaha. I met the Nigerian dude on Jack'd. He noticed my profile name and was happy to find an African and we just started from there. I asked for face pics then I reciprocated. I gave him my number (Google voice number lol) then we spoke and I liked the way he spoke on the phone and we had a good first conversation. We agreed to meet at an IHOP and that was the start of us getting to know each other better. We had two more dates after that.. one at BJ's Brewhouse and the other at a bowling alley. We both really just got each other and really enjoyed one another's company. He proposed meeting once more but it didn't work out because that was when I had 2 or 3 days left before moving from Texas to Florida. When I got to Florida, we text maybe once or twice then we lost touch when I got super busy during my first semester of my graduate school program.

    I do hope to go out on a date at least once while I am out here. But school is definitely number 1. My "gay dads" as I like to call them (my new mentors that have been together for 23 years and are married for the past 2 years) told me that d!ck and @$$ are not going anywhere lol.
     
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    A real actual date, about a year ago
     
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    April. I was with my (now)ex. I initiated the date. We went for dinner and drinks at this great Cuban place, then saw a movie before taking a walk around the harbor . It was nice.
     
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    Like, a week or so ago, actually. Great guy who Ive known for years. Problem was that he was a super 'good guy' (church, didn't drink, etc) and I'm not exactly like that, so I fell back. He sent me a FB shout on my bday, was looking great, so I asked him out. We had a great time, and are trying to make it happen again. The problem is our schedules...
     
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    My date was actually with a female, two weeks ago. Yes, I am (barely)bisexual.

    We ate at the fancy restaurant inside the Space Needle Observation Deck. A dent on my paycheck, but it was worth it. She is beautiful and intelligent and definitely my type. If she was male, I would be all over her. I just have this uneasy feeling about dating both sexes(even though, I am exclusive to whoever I am talking to at the moment) and from my people radar, she seems like she wouldn't have none of that.
     
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    March with my ex. Dinner and a movie
     
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    I think the last date I went on that I would have considered a date was actually back in December. I went out on two dates in the same day. The first date, we met in Manhattan in NY, hung out in the city and went to a late lunch at Guy Fieri's Bar American Restaurant. He liked me and I thought he was mad kool. I just didn't completely feel the chemistry, but we still keep in touch and he still is making a play for me. The 2nd date was with a dude I was feeling the chemistry with. We went for drinks at Dallas BBQ and I wanted to kiss him so bad. After we left, he told me that he wanted to have sex with me and asked why I didn't kiss him. He is feeling me to this day so we are just taking our time and letting things go - very organically. He still wants to ride the "D" train...lol.
     
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    Btw, the first date was mutually initiated through conversation. The 2nd one, I was the initiator.
     
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    I used to go to the Philippines to visit relatives every few months when I was living in China. That's where I met a dude. We had something between a relationship and a situationship. It's hard to define "date." We would travel around together. We went to a beach resort, did overnight trips to nearby towns, and by virtue of being together, we had meals and watched shows and stuff. I guess those were dates.
     
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    What abt the night you were out before metting me at that karaoke bar? That wasnt a date?
     
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    Oh yeah...I completely forgot about that! Preciate u @SB3 . That's why I love u bro...true story...lol. SOOOOO... My last date was in June. He was a kool dude but I haven't spoken with him since. He told me he was flaky straight up and he has pretty much lived up to that. Nice dude tho...,maybe we will reconnect when I go back "home" to NY. That date was a mutual initiation. I met him at his place and we went to dinner in Manhattan. We talked, laughed, and had a good time. Then I met @SB3 at the karaoke bar and we hung out wit some of his former coworkers...that was fun!
     
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    Yea man, those are called dates, u know, like the str8s do, lol
     
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    It's been about 2 months...
     
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    Damn. It's (sadly) been yeeeears since I had an actual "date". "Hangin out and Hookin' Up" is the "In Thing" in NYC nowadays.
     
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    A few weeks back, my boyfriend and I got dressed to leave the house and decided to do something a little different. Walked from the crib all the way to downtown ATL & Midtown (around 5-6 miles). Stopped and checked out a few random locations along the way. Ultimately ended up ubering back to the crib, where we immediately hit the kitchen and threw together the BEST Shrimp & Grits you ever had. We sat down, ate the meal we prepared together w/ a couple drinks & watched a flick together. Perfect impromptu date night.
     
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