Why Did/Would You Give Him Your Number?

So you do know for sure that he is gay? Was there any kind of subtlety flirtatious comments thrown out there by him? (ie: "I'm sure a guy who looks as good as you has no problem dating" etc.) If not his intentions could just be platonic.

Would I ask for a number in this situation? Possibly if I was new to a city. Given that I'm about to move to LA for awhile, I will probably have to do this a lot. I know a lot of straight ppl there but not many gay people.

And many of the straight ppl I know there are either just younger college friends or just hetero thirst traps straight dudes I've befriended and connected with on social media.

So if I met a cool guy who was driving an Uber or car service, I might ask for his number (or give him my card) too.

 

*cues I'mma Flirt by Rkelly ft Tpain*

LOL. He could very well have just been trying to branch out. I'd say hit him up if you're interested in hanging out on a platonic level/getting him up to speed in Atl; if he tries you then c'est la vie.

If you're not interested in getting to know new people at all for whatever reason or you really think he just wants the long-and-strong (..or the cake...), then pretend you never met him lol.

I'm trying to do better at not over-analyzing things myself and just going with life's flow, making experiences. It might benefit you to just look at it for what it is with no assumptions and go from there.

 

I don't know if it's just me yeh but I never held my number close to me, I'm usually the one to offer it. It's weird though, for someone who dislikes being at moments reach like that, I give that shit out like it's candy. I'm like what's the worst that could happen? Plus, there's always the block button innit (unless they try to text you from another number or download that stupid text app so they can blow your shit up after you blocked them)?

But yeh, it can be both reasons or something completely different innit. He's probably still interested in you (because being in a relationship means nothing to these niggas) or thinks your dope and is looking for something platonic.

 

Im more of a 'what's there to lose?' type. I have no problem exchanging numbers most times. They can't kill me thru the phone. Whether or not Im interested in beyond platonic, you'll know.

 

And knowing you, Im gonna assume u weren't attracted enough to send a 'hey man, nice meeting u the other night' text.