You and Your Current / Future Partner's Hobbies Together

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  1. OckyDub

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    We've talked before about or perspectives and the pro/cons of dudes in relationships posting what seems like constant updates on social media of their relationships. I know some on here are in relationships but don't talk about their relationships nor share activities of the things they like to do together. Yall know me and my dude are into fishing (some recent pics below from the Alabama Gulf and south of Tampa) but what activities are you and your partner into OR (for the single dudes) what are some activities you may want to do with your boyfriend / partner if or when you enter into a relationship?

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    When I get a Bea upload_2016-10-3_1-31-42.png , I would love to do more traveling; particularly to tropical sunny places[​IMG]
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    Taking cool pics of each other while on vacation lol:cool:
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    Going to workout together

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    Dressing up to attend cultural events: museum gallery openings, the opera, Alvin Alley, ballet, the orchestra, concerts, NBA and NFL games in club box seats(hey guy can dream lol)
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    Reading books together and having intellectual discussions

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    Eating food at different restaurants together (I like to eat food but dont like to cook lol)[​IMG]
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    Or Bea does all the cooking lol and I just eat lol
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    I do like 95% of the cooking/chefing in our house. But the thing we do is as I cook my husband sits at the bar and we chat about whatever is going on. The news, new music, just solid undivided attention,

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    When we first got together we use to paint. I went out and got us some small and medium canvasses and some oil and acrylic paint and we would put on records and have paint time. Now when you come into our flat you see original artwork made by us hang on the walls in between photos and other wall art things.

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    Our house in Florida has a pool. We would spend many days/evening just sitting by it. Never swimming but sitting outside on the back patio chillen drinking Beer (for him) and Scotch (for me).

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    I like the outdoors, going for long, sometimes aimless walks and occasionally hiking. I would appreciate a partner sharing an interest in the outdoors. It would be cool to go out into nature, explore national parks, go camping, kayaking or rafting, stuff like that.
     
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    I always figured it would be just whatever we had in common and willing too share.
    I like video games both playing and watching people play things like that.
     
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    I don't feel the need to travel a lot with a potential partner, especially when I live in a city metropolitan that already has so much to do and see.

    Having said that I would like to go to tons of live performances and shows.

    Atypical group activities that pop up around the city...

    Cooking (and messing up) unique meals from scratch together...

    Hit the many Festivals that occur in the city every year...

    Check out the nightlife...

    Bingewatch TV shows and specific movie genres...like mini-film festivals of our own...maybe even invite friends...

    Traveling is not totally out of the question, but def not essential...and to be honest, it's pretty "gay," especially when it is to resorts and beaches...even gay couples going hiking is cliched at this point
     
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    I think for me being with someone that I share similar hobbies and interest with is cool, but ultimately I would love for my dude to have very different areas of hobbies and interests than myself. And the one thing we do share is the ability to be totally open to try new things outside of our norm and comfort zone.

    I have immense range that I have found not many people share. Especially black gay dudes. I can go bowling or play cards, to the opera, to a white house event to partying with predominately all white crowds or a party in the trap.

    So I guess the "hobby" I would appreciate him having is being OPEN to explore. I would love for him to have stuff I never really tried and share it with me and vice versa. And there isn't any judgement and he's down to do whatever, like myself.

    Trust me, it may sound like a no brainer, but its hard to find. Many men I have come to know (especially the older they get) are very strict and only interested in what they like to do and if you suggest something else, they get turned off or just not interested.
     
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    Ive been single for a while now but my future partner would definitely have to be down for traveling at least once a month. Getting out and creating experiences with one another is paramount. I'd like to be able to pick up a sport together, learn different languages, take cooking classes and educate ourselves on modern art perhaps create some ourselves. Hit up live music spots. Different music, food, and culture festivals etc... I'm into obstacle races so it would be cool if my partner would be interested too.
     
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    This one.... Is definitely wassup. That would be fun to do together.
    I dated a dude once that spoke fluent Italian. Anytime he started speaking it, I wanted to grab him and head to the bedroom. :banderas:
     
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    I definitely want to travel. That is #1. Then doing other things like others mentioned on here together like live music shows/concerts, entertainment (film, music) festivals, cooking classes, hiking, sports, TV, etc.

    Whatever gets us out of the house and creating memories.
     
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    You guys have already pretty much covered everything lol but I am just commenting to let you know that I am taking notes.

    Speaking of travel, I would definitely love to go through the BBC 50 places to visit before you die list with my future significant other.

     
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    Learning language. That's what up. In some instances, my husband and I have developed a code. Certain phrases that mean something only to us. It started as a security strategy but has evolved. Now when we out and about or having a conversation we can send messages to each other without anyone knowing what we are talking about.
     
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    I would like to suck my future partner's D, ride his D, turn up with my family as usual(WHERE THE FUCK IS THE BARACK OBAMA HOLDING A BEER STICKER?!), make fun of Internet memes, watch him play video games because... I don't know why; I just like watching people play video games, have convos about who's team is better than the other :sass1:, and for him to show me what outside looks like since that's a foreign place for me.
     
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