Relationship Oriented VS Hookups: Fighting the Beast Within
I’ll start off by saying this: I’ll never fall in love with another man. Now, that’s some cynicism for you, isn’t it? It’s very true though.My belief stems from many different factors: Past experiences, distrust, shallow dating pool, incompatibilities and last but not least,…
Top 15 Reasons That You’re Still a Single Masculine Gay/Bisexual Man
A huge misconception that people have is that dating is easy for a Gay/Bisexual man. So many women right now are trying to play cupid and get the only two Gay people they know together as a couple. I mean, why not? They have…
Work Place Drama With My Ex
Work Place Drama With My Ex Its that time again for another submission to our advice column. This situation might be more common place to us gay / bisexual black men in corporate America in larger gay populated cities. But best believe similar circumstances can…
Kaoz: How To Use A Condom
In the following video, 2011 Cypher Avenue Award Winner Kaoz uses an unintentionally (or intentionally) homoerotic method to show newbies and the misinformed how to properly open, use and dispose of a condom. Very informative video where he even debunks common misconceptions about prophylactic usage.The…
Why Make Him Wait For Sex?
One of the oddest things I’ve observed about Gays and dating is the backwards idea of making sex a prize for that special someone but not for the random anonymous hookup. This one guy told me that if he meets a…
The 10 Level Guide To Meeting Masculine Gay Men
The one thing that I’m always asked by discreet masculine men I meet is this: “How do I meet people?”By “people” they always mean “men” and by “men” they always mean “Guys to have sex with, date and/or just be friends with.”This is a…
Classic Lies Gay Men Tell Each Other
The following is a major violation of Man Law. Not only am I about to reveal the secret lies that deceitful gay and bisexual men tell each other, I’m also going to translate what they actually mean. This will ruin things for a lot…
Relationship Advice: The Bi-Sexual Dilemma
Relationship advice from Cypher Avenue relationship specialist Octavius Wow…We have very interesting email from Anthony out of Dallas, Texas seeking relationship advice. As always the names have been altered for protection. Okay here is the summary of the situation. Anthony and Eugene have been…
Relationship Advice: Should I Leave or Do I Stay?
As the de-facto relationship expert on the website (of the two of us, I am the one in a relationship) I was recently sent a relationship oriented email seeking advice. I will summarize the situation and question along with changing the names of the two…
Looking for a Healthy Longterm Relationship?
Do you want a long term relationship? Some tips and advance from Cypher Ave’s relationship coach, Octavius.Now this post applies to those of you may be seeking a long term loving relationship…not those who are happily single. I know I could write a book…
What causes the Down Low?
What causes the Down Low? This post is to simplify what causes the Down Low… Who is to blame for the DL lifestyle? We all are! Men, women, church, society etc. Now before I really get started, let me say in no way or reason…