[QUESTION] Single Black Gay Men: Why Do You Even WANT To Be In A Relationship?!
If all the examples and discussions we have about Relationships are from a negative perspective, why do so many single black gay men want to be in one so badly?
QUESTION: Three Types of Men, Which Would You DATE If They Were Gay?
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While in the supermarket today I saw these three magazine covers and had to ask The Squad:
Which of these 3 very different types of dudes would you date if he was gay?
QUESTION: Does Your Family Turn Up During Gatherings? Or Are They Boring Like Mine?
Is your family really “Huxtable,” respectably discussing current events over a iced cold glass of water? Or does your family Turn Up more than a Tyler Perry movie?
QUESTION: Do Sexy Straight Men Go For Unattractive Mates More Than Gays?
Personally, I rarely see a fine black gay dude with someone busted or “average.”
QUESTION: In High School – Were You Openly Gay, Openly Bisexual Or Were You Pretending To Be Straight?
Many of us are Out and openly dating men now that we’re older….But was that the case for you even in High School?
QUESTION OF THE WEEK: $250 and Up…How Much Do You Spend On A Gay First Date?
Now that Cuffin’ Season 2015 is upon us, its time for the single gay men of the world to get booed up for these cold winter months. But how much are you willing to spend to find him?
If I’m Killed by the Police, Will My Black Gay Life Matter?
As I often do, I was recently listening to African American talk radio and the host was reflecting on the death Eric Garner. It was approaching the anniversary of his murder and the family settling with the state of New York for 5.9 million dollars….
QOTW: How Much Younger or Older Would You Date?
In regards to dating, there’s overt ageism in the gay community. Even more so than for heterosexuals, I would argue.
Flirting, Texting, Cheating: What Would Be Your Final Straw When Dating?
What would be your final straw when dating?
Question of the Week: Is He Really Masculine?
You have a self-described masculine gay man. He follows and adores all the pop and R&B divas. He can name every character from Reality TV. He loves fashion and is a super trendy uber metrosexual. He uses all the gay lingo and terminologies. He is…
QUESTION OF THE WEEK: What REALLY Makes Someone A Boyfriend?
Gay men are VERY cautious about using the Boyfriend word. Maybe its because of the whole Banned Gay Marriage thing. Regular “Boyfriend Status” has replaced “Marriage Status” for many of us.
Why Do Gay Men Sound…Gay?
There is no way to ask this question without accusations of being some type of a’phobic. I’m not one to shy away from asking real honest questions just because the nature of the question could be interpreted as being offensive. Critical thinking is becoming a…
Question Of The Week: What If Your Masc Boyfriend Was A Public Cry Baby?
What if the guy you were dating, either new or long-term, started crying out loud in public. Maybe it was a reaction to something you said to him…or maybe it was a response to a phone call about a loved one…Snot tears and all that.
Race & Sexuality: How Do You Identify Yourself?
Race & Sexuality: How Do You Identify Yourself? A Cypher Avenue member asked this question on our interactive Activity Stream. The question was “How do you identify yourself; as a gay black man or a black gay man?” I’m sure we all have seen this…
Why Do Gay Men Degrade Other Men By Referring To Them As Females?
Question Of The Week: Why Do Gay Men Degrade Other Men By Referring To Them As Females? I noticed something last week amongst gay men when viewing their conversations online via social media. Anytime one gay dude or dudes wanted to degrade another man,…
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