Race & Sexuality: How Do You Identify Yourself?
Race & Sexuality: How Do You Identify Yourself? A Cypher Avenue member asked this question on our interactive Activity Stream. The question was “How do you identify yourself; as a gay black man or a black gay man?” I’m sure we all have seen this…
Why Do Gay Men Degrade Other Men By Referring To Them As Females?
Question Of The Week: Why Do Gay Men Degrade Other Men By Referring To Them As Females? I noticed something last week amongst gay men when viewing their conversations online via social media. Anytime one gay dude or dudes wanted to degrade another man,…
Who Would You Rather Date?
Question Of The Week – Who Would You Rather Date? For me, the negative reactions from some black gays concerning the revelation that Derrick Gordon and Michael Sam are dating white men has been mind numbing. The outrage from some black gays is basically that…
Is It Ever Okay To Out Someone?
Is It Ever Okay To Out Someone? My first instinct is to say no; however I than thought of these two possible scenarios.
Are The Grammys Biased Towards Gay or Gay Friendly Artists?
Are The Grammy’s Biased Towards Gay or Gay Friendly Artists?
How Will You Grow Your Relationships In 2014?
How will you be a better man in 2014?,
Question Of The Week: Does Masculine Privilege Exist?
Do you believe masculine privilege exist in the gay community?
Question Of The Week: Gay Tourists and Jamaica?
I don’t think it’s a secret that many citizens of Jamaica are extremely intolerable to homosexuals. The latest example comes to us with the recent killing of a transgendered 17 year old, Dwayne Jones. On the night of July 21st 2013, Jones was attending a…
Question Of The Week: Guns and Gay Men
With the recent anti-homosexual attacks and killing going on across America, should gay men begin to take up fire arms as a protection measure?
Question Of The Week: Same Sex Marriage and Men in Prison
QUESTION: Now that the Supreme Court has deemed DOMA (The Defense of Marriage Act) to be unconstitutional, do you think homosexual men in prison institutions should be allowed to marry each other in states where it’s legal?
Question Of The Week – The Dating Pool
Why do many guys say that the dating pools in their respective cities are bad or of poor quality? Is it the dating pools that are bad or is it the quality of black gay men in general that is lacking?
Question of the Week: How Many Does It Take?
How many individuals need to know that you are gay before you are considered out? 10, 20, 50? Who are the people that need to know; friends, family, co-workers, or casual acquaintances? Does everyone need to know your sexuality for you to be considered out,…
Question of the Week: What Would You Do?
Saturday afternoon you are at the barber shop. As you are awaiting your turn when you notice what appears to be a father and son sitting a couple of seats away. The young boy look about 12 years old and is flipping through a magazine. …
Question of the Week: The Machine
As some of you may know, I am a sci-fi fan boy. So this week’s questions have weird sci-fi twist. There is a machine that allows you to travel in time and to other dimensions. You have 24 hours to use the machine. Question 1:…
Question Of The Week: Would You Date A Man With Children?
So this question came about because Cypher Ave Co-Founder and single socialite Nick Delmacy stated on Twitter that he would not date a man with kids. I had to stop and ask myself, if I were single would I date a man with kids?…
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