10 First Date Deal Breakers For Gay Men
A lot of people think gay dudes are finicky and maybe that is true to some extent however, I still there are probably a number of universal first date deal breakers that are exclusively linked exclusively to gay men.
CA Podcast #38: The “Reasons Why He Doesn’t Want You” Episode
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founders Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the Black Gay Men Obsessed With Interracial Dating, Light Skin vs Dark Skin in the Black Gay Community and Alternative Explanations for Gay Men Who Only Date Younger Men.
CA Podcast #36 – Tinder and Online Dating
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founders Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss the Online dating, the dating app Tinder and how your popular online presence could be hindering your dating endeavors.
Purple Haze and “(No) Homo” Ways in my School Daze
This blog is in response to Ocky Williams’ Raymond Helped Me Realize I Was Homo. We all have some insight about who we are and it is clear that, for some of us, the paths toward who we are were paved by stories written…
CA Podcast #32 – Inside The Mind of Nick Delmacy #2 (The Gay Origin & Ending Story)
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founder Nick Delmacy once again gives us a solo pod full of personal stories, self reflection and introspective thought on being a black gay man.
CA Podcast #31 – Theyyyy’re Baaaack
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founders Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy return after a two-month break to discuss all the topics they missed including: the Baltimore Riots, Kendrick Lamar, Nas’ New Album, Earthtone Mixtape Review, Superhero Fatigue, Gym Thirst, Why Are Sexy Men Still Single, Commercial Break, HIV Scheming, The success of EMPIRE and FREEFALL, SCOTUS Gay Marriage and The Disappearance of Jason Collins, Frank Ocean, Derrick Gordon and Michael Sam.
QOTW: How Much Younger or Older Would You Date?
In regards to dating, there’s overt ageism in the gay community. Even more so than for heterosexuals, I would argue.
Flirting, Texting, Cheating: What Would Be Your Final Straw When Dating?
What would be your final straw when dating?
CA Podcast #29 – A Cypher with the Tops
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founders Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy join three members of Cypher Avenue to discuss what its like to be confident, aggressive Tops in the gay community.
Guys on the ‘Side’: Looking Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms
There’s so much talk and discussion about who gives and who receives. I’ve had straight people tell me that they assumed that most gay guys simply take turns. Yes, some do, but most don’t. But what if a guy isn’t a top, a bottom or even versatile? What about gay men who have never engaged in anal sex and never will, ever?
CA Podcast #28 – Gay Escorts, Gay Alcohol, Gay Music, Gay Boyfriends
In this podcast, Cypher Avenue founders Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss Gay Alcohol, Gay Male Prostitutes, LGBT Music and whether it’s possible to be an Unofficial Gay Boyfriend.
QUESTION OF THE WEEK: What REALLY Makes Someone A Boyfriend?
Gay men are VERY cautious about using the Boyfriend word. Maybe its because of the whole Banned Gay Marriage thing. Regular “Boyfriend Status” has replaced “Marriage Status” for many of us.
WATCH: Please Go Home
In my “sowing my wild oats” days, I may have had a one night stand or three. However there has been an occasion when said one night stand was still around the following morning. OMG, why are you still here? Well there’s a song for…
Dr. Strangelove or: How I Learned To Stop Worrying and Love The Joys of Being Single
“Life is short. Life is Dull. Life is full of pain and this is a chance for something special.” Casual Dating. This seems to be a foreign concept in the gay community. Oh sure, many people do it but good luck getting them to publicly…
We Just Starting Dating and Already He Wants A Gift
It’s been awhile since Cypher Avenue had an ongoing advice “column”. Even though I was spearheading this idea, the questions that we kept receiving were becoming very similar and one dimensional. Mostly relationship and sex questions that were answered in numerous posts already published on…