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Our consumer driven society tends to distort the concept of age. Yet, 30 years old is very early in a career/job that is likely to span 35 years or more. As the article makes clear, planning early is key. If you don’t have a work sponsored 401(k), look into a traditional IRA or a Roth IRA. Consistently putting a little money away for retirement can make a big difference. An advanced healthcare directive is also invaluable. As someone who is single with a capital S and is unable to comfortably rely on siblings or nieces and nephews, I have a long-term care policy in addition to the healthcare directive.
Occasional sacrifices will be required as you seek to put yourself on solid ground for a comfortable and enriching retirement. However, you may not view them as sacrifices once you have achieved your goals. Try not to measure yourself against other people and what they appear to have achieved. They may have started in a much different place than you.Lancer, Dreamwalker, mojoreece and 1 other person dapped this. -
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Dr. U is a shock jock, self-aggrandizing, narcissist. The only reason he is relevant is that he makes ridiculous statements.
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But I still think those individuals shouldn't be working in close proximity to their triggers.mojoreece, Dante, Cyrus-Brooks and 1 other person dapped this. -
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... Hetero Supremacy
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That video though
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The way I was raised, no. But based on my surroundings and people I use to hang out with, and let's say I went that path...absolutely. I'd probably have a couple of baby mamas and selling drugs too.
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You just never know, I try to limit my shit. I feel like porn can limit your zest to get out there and interact with another human. It's too easy to catch your nut within the comfort of your own crib and that's some dudes' downfall.
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Is it me or does "The Community" sound more sexy than "LGBTQ"Dante, takeyourmeds91, ControlledXaos and 1 other person dapped this. -
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Depends on how many drinks I've had.
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What are some of your New Year’s Resolutions for 2017?
I gained ALL 40 pounds that I lost earlier in 2015 back over the past 4 or 5 months due to school stress and LIFE STRESS so I want to drop all that weight off again.
I want to read at least one new (non-fiction, [auto]biographical, and/or self-help) book per month this year. I want to empower myself mentally.
I also want to work on my thought patterns. Different events in life can cause one to be a bit more negative than positive at times.
Not giving excuses for not doing something that needs to be done.
Understanding what I can control and what I cannot control.
I want to learn how to be comfortable with being uncomfortable in life in general.
I want learn how to be comfortable with my flaws and insecurities.
I want to go on more dates and DANG IT I'M KISSING A GUY THAT I AM ATTRACTED TO this year!OhSheit, Jdudre, LeMignon and 1 other person dapped this. -
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If whoever posted that only knew the half of it.
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Btw,I'm claiming these two. MINE
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Very glad to hear he will at least get a new trial.ControlledXaos, Sean, DreG and 1 other person dapped this. -
Yo. First off, I think it's great that ur doin this! Grown azz gay men bein open and honest, keeping it 100 is sorely lacking. I get it. It's very difficult to be/feel sooo marginalized all of ur life, and not develop a few chips and guards. It broke my heart hearing the level of guard you have up, specifically pertainimg to Nick. He's never made a secret of how hard it is to get you out of the house. It sounds like ur biggest issue is vulnerability. Ur a dope azz dude, no reason for you to be letting the past keep standing in your way man. Making new friends is def difficult in ur day to day, but the last vacay I went on was w @ControlledXaos @klothesminded @questforknowledge, and I met them all here on CA. That's why Im always trying to push you guys into being active participants. The group of active members you guys have built ARE NOT the killers,or bad guys. Camaraderie is not impossible. My closest friend is a str8 dude, and Im the 'best man' in his wedding. Str8s can actually be aight these days man. Ijs, I really appreciate you for doing posts like this. I know it's much easier said than done, but please dont feel like ur only opps to build genuine relationships w good gay guys ended at 30.
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I get where Colin is coming from but I personally don't agree with him. I get (don't agree) him not voting for a president. But that's not the only thing on a voting ballot. What about your candidates for US Senate, Gov, State Reps and Attorney General. More importantly what about your local city reps who are the ones who are responsible for the police. Or your Judges who determine the sentencing , bail etc, when someone is charged with a crime.
Or what about the California marijuana referendum that would directly impact African American arrested on marijuana drug charges. Not including the other referendum voted for in California include:
- (Again) Proposition 64 · Legalizes marijuana for use by adults 21 and over
- Proposition 57 · Allows parole consideration for nonviolent felons and allows juvenile court judges to decide whether juveniles will be prosecuted as adults
- Proposition 51 · $9 Billion Bond for modernizing K-12, charter, vocational schools and community colleges
- Proposition 52 · Extends existing fee on hospitals to fund coverage for Medi-Cal, uninsured patients, and children's health
- Proposition 56 · Increases taxes on tobacco and e-cigarettes to increase funding for health care for low-income Californians
- Proposition 62 · Repeals the death penalty and replaces it with life imprisonment without possibility of parole
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Just wait; somebody bougie family member going to try to stunt at the Thanksgiving Dinner
Family: Oh who made dim greens
Boguie family member: "Oh they are special imported "Neah-moin Mah-keesh"
Family: (rolls eyes) you mean u bought them from Neiman Marcus.......... baaah lol
mean while your grandma and older autties looking at you like lol
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I think you can push for fair treatment within existing frameworks while at the same time building similar or even very new and unique frame works that are based on non-white gay men. I don't think those things are mutually exclusive, but you definitely don't want to be stuck with just trying to fit into established systems that are focused mainly on whites. And those white dominated systems changing to be more diverse will benefit many (non asshole racist) gay white men as well. I also agree that at some point of beating your head against the wall, you have to say 'fuck you' to certain institutions that will not change and stop giving them your time, your money, your support, and your energy-when you realize it is simply being wasted. Cut them loose.
Anyone who would use 'no chocolate, spice, rice, mayo, etc' is an asshole by nature and should be disregarded. That they would use these terms and show their damn faces on dating/hookup apps with no apparent shame shows how they are even worse than they appear because they either are completely ignorant to their insensitive expressions, or they know and just do. not. care. Fuk them.
-Many white gay men are assholes.
-White gay guys named Brad are the devil(I was rejected hurt by at least 3 of those demons)
-I love mayo lol. but I love chocolate, rice, and spice too! It is all good- nice and attractive guys come in all types.
I don't think you have to let up the pressure on white gay institutions, you can keep complaining and demanding fairness at the same time as you are building institutions for non-white gays, as long as you see progress. At some point cut your losses and abandon them-if you do not see progress in a certain time frame, take your time/money/resources/emotions/energy elsewhere where it is acknowledged and appreciated.
*unless you are well connected, very attractive or very wealthy, being white and gay really ain't shit. You are in the majority group-but still close to the very bottom in many ways. The majority of what is out their representing white gays is not representing the majority of white gays.
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I was the overachiever. Valedictorian. Involved in clubs. All that. And was nice to everyone enough where I was voted Homecoming King.
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I also thought about what it would be like to be a twin (even fraternal). Like do they share some kind of mind link or scriptural bond or something?
Also can their parents and family tell them apart lol Is the spouse of one twin also attracted to the twin's brother?
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I am from Baltimore, MD. The crabs are ALWAYS good, home of the Ravens and Johns Hopkins Hospital/University (one of the BEST medical and research institutions in the country), and home of The Wire the area I live in, but will be changing soon.
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And with one thread,a mass existensial crisis was triggered.
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Change Jew to Black or Muslim and change Black Gay Man to White Gay Man and this not only would have been a more mainstream story but they would be facing hate crime charges.
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On a calmer note, sometimes the best way to deal with stupid shit is humor and satire. I wish there was a gay/bi version of Chapelle's Show. Every time I hear "pray the gay away," I think of the priest in The Exorcist and imagine some lisping demonic voice going, "Holy water?!? Chile, you bet' throw some mimosas on this bitch, it's Sunday, we having brunch up in this soul!"DreG, Tyroc, ColumbusGuy and 1 other person dapped this. -
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After dating an HIV positive dude at one point, I'm sympathetic to this guy's views. There is definitely a lot of ignorance and misunderstanding about HIV and I can imagine something like this only contributing to that ignorance. It's better to be able to have conversations instead of just closing yourself off. Nobody is asking anyone to date HIV+ guys, but I think being able to block them automatically might be a little excessive. I know Grindr is mostly for sex, but you never know, maybe you'll miss out on the one time you'd actually be willing to make an exception for someone you otherwise click with. If not, at least allow yourself to get to know someone outside of their status before you decide that it's a dealbreaker.
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