Many of you know my journey of being with guys over the last few months and my rendezvous with my coworker bae (who we are going to refer to him as Dame). Well I shared with you all that I am spending the weekend with him. He’s actually helping me tell this story to lol.
So anyway, me and Dame been having some serious fuck sessions the past couple of weeks. The last few times we’ve been at it, I’ve noticed Dame has been getting a bit handsy and playing around my ass. He did informed me that he’s technically versatile so I already knew one day he would want to fuck me. So earlier today we were about to go at it again. We’ve been drinking all day, lounging around and horny. Dame flat out said “let me fuck you!” I don’t know if it was the drinks or what but I agreed.
Mind you I have already heard of the horror stories of anal sex but I’ll admit I kinda dabble with it even with my ex girlfriend. I didn’t let her use a strap or anything but there were times she fingered me and I also used a 2 inch butt plug a few times so this wasn’t the first time anything went up the back door. So I got up and showered and used douche. (Sidenote: douching is really a mood killer when you are like ready to go now lol). After the clean up, I was kinda hoping he would have move on from me getting fucked but nope he was already game. I let Dame know the deal that this is my legit first time and his ass better be patient with me or I’m going to literally punch him in the face. He grin and said alright but I knew the mf’er was lying.
So I am going to bypass the foreplay shit and get right into it. He had this numbing lube and put some on my ass. It tingled me but I was so nervous and my heart was racing. He finally put some lube on him and position his dick to my hole. His initial entry didn’t feel bad at all. It just felt wider that my little butt plug. He asked how I was the whole time. Then I got a little impatient and told him I’m ready for him to put it all in. He did asked a couple of time if I was sure and I said yes. He did and when I tell you I let out the loudest yelp. Just imagine a crying goat. Or when Castro bottoming. That was me. He was smiling the entire time too. I did have moments when i enjoyed it. Like I don’t know if I was was turned on by knowing another dude just as masculine as me in me. It just did something to me. Bro I was sweating and waiting for him to be done.
It seemed like it took him forever to cum lol. Then he just laid on top of me for a while. I have gained a new respect for both him and others who do this shit regularly. It really takes a lot of concentration. It is a humbling experience hahahaha. Like I was so worried the whole time about the obvious but I see that he didn’t stop so I guess I was good. You couldn’t have told me I would have ever did this even a week ago but here I am. I think every guy once need to experience this (even though I know a lot are going to decline lol). I wanted to know from others how were their first bottoming experience and any tips for me in the distance future (if I decide to do this again).
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I just can't use my vidster or xtube. To me its not user friendly like xhamster and pornhub.
I hate:
*Screaming dudes who sound like women.
*Kats who push rope.
*Fisting
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What do you think black gay porn needs more of? This is what I think:
1) More diversity within black gay porn. Why is 50% of black gay porn still labeled "thug" on most sites? And I hate how it's hard to find black gay porn in other categories. If you type in any other porn category, it's always white dudes.
2) More black on black porn. We need to find a way to filter out porn with references to "bbc" or "black cock" which are obviously white uploaded and almost always have a white dude in them. Hate searching for black and getting mostly interracial scenes.
3) More high quality major studio porn. XL and the like are doing well. We need more of that.
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I think a problem that everyone here complaining refuses to talk about is: YOU DON'T PAY FOR PORN, GAY WHITE PEOPLE DO.
You want porn at a certain quality level and a certain variety but you want it for free.
Are you mad that the Interracial porn is better quality? Guess what, their subscribers pay for it which enables the producers to convince the beefier healthier (sometimes straight) Black guys to have sex on camera...they even fly performers out from other cities, hire camera and lighting crews and film them in expensive hotels or exotic rentals.
Mad about "Thugbait?" Guess what, hiring fresh out of prison or on parole Black men without all of their teeth to do porn is cheap. Filming them on a 2003 camcorder in a cramped motel room is cheap. Same applies to the 19-22 year old Black Twinks. They work cheap. Which the Black studios need to do because everyone steals their content and puts it on Myvidster or Pornhub.
A 6 foot tall healthy beefcake personal trainer with no tatts that lives in the gym and bartends on the weekends is not gonna work for cheap. So you won't see him on your Myvidster or Pornhub feed.
There's a reason why the guys on Tumblr look better than the guys in most Black Porn, they are usually professional models or guys that make real money from women or white men.
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Fishing for the internet "likes" basically. I think all of these guys are just trying to out do each other. I really don't think as many people were this bold before the internet and cell phones became so prevalent.
This is just inappropriate. And you could get a sex offender charge with this in some states and that's not hot at all.
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1. Boring a$$, quiet bottoms and disinterested tops "phoning it in". Conversely, annoyingly loud bottoms, and tops that require constant validation that what they're doin feels good and that the bottom can..."feel all dat d#$k" There has to be a balance.
2. That stupid editing that a lot of "producers" do where right when the shit is gettin' good and the couple really start gettin' into it and the scene abruptly changes.
3. Extended fellatio scenes (I've never cared for watchin someone get/give head, I think it's boring.) and excessive saliva.
4. Fisting/ Abnormally sized dildos
5. Pissing
6. The SAME position for 26min
7. Videos with no sound
8. Poorly prepared bottoms
9. Grunters (UUUUGHHHHH!!!!! YYYYYYYEEEEEEEAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!! FFFF&&&&&&&&$$$$$$$KKKKKKKK.....MMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEE!!!!! ERRRRGHHHHHHHH!!!!) Dude, are you f%^kin or workin' out?
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Idk where folks get this idea from. The rectum does not "cream". Sure there are minor secretions from the lining but that's by no means creaming. What folks actually see is the lube (or saliva...I'm looking at some yall), that is foaming.
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If you don’t know by now and / are learning, certain types of porn I view as fodder entertainment. As a streaming services like xhamster and Pornhub offer an abundance of short vids of random mundane sexually suggestive or subdued situations that you can play like arbitrary Vine clips. I’ve come across a few that shows the spirit of male bonding and togetherness while still being sexual in nature.
Brincadeira entre héteros II
Policias Heteros jugueteando
Stag nite...str8 guy stripped naked on the street......
Soccer fans making out in public torcedores de futebol se beijando
Beso Gay entre heterosexuales XVIDEOSCOM[1]
Bajada de Pantalon
Indian Boy underwear stripped by naughty girls - 12 sec - xvideo - Grandmast
Metalúrgico querendo pegar no pau do colega
Dando uma chupadinha no pau do pedreiro
Sexo en el galpón..
Peoes no canteiro de obras
Despedida sexual
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I'm not a fan of the typical tatted up, twinkish, ribs showing (Breed It Raw, Black Rayne, Raw Nasty Freaks, etc) porn models, so I don't view their scenes that often. I was shocked to find two that I actually found sexy or at least I thought I did. Those two are Xaddy and Krave Melanin. Both looked like they eat solid food and are masculine leaning (at least from what I can tell) but also are versatile / versatile tops.
But then the more I looked at them online when they're not in the act of fuckin, I'm like...
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glad you had a fun weekend with ol' boi. I have bottomed once in my life. It was terrible and there's nothing else to say about that lol I definitely have tremendous respect for the dudes who bottom on the regular. The physical and mental prep alone is a lot, but who knows maybe one day(soon) I might decided to take some lessons. A verse situation would be dope; I hate feeling limited within my sexuality.
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I will say that (from what I've seen) a lot of cut dudes have "aged penis heads" LOL.
Them shits be looking shriveled up over time.
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I blame Fly Young Red.
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Thank you for being That Guy today.
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Thanks for this @Lancer .
Honestly, I'm a bit less concerned about bacterial infections than viral infections. Usually bacterial infections are obvious- it's not always easy to hide the stomach gurgling and diarrhea cha-cha-cha. And because people usually feel like crap, they seek treatment. Regardless, bacterial and parasitic infections do happen pretty commonly. Like giardiasis, or as some people refer to it, beaver fever. But norovirus, Hep A, Hep B and other uptypeable shit are also very common and sometimes have more mild symptoms.
You'd think people would have the sense to decline getting their ass ate if they're about to have a huuuuge watery blow out. SMDH. Anyways.
But one take home- if you're gonna put your tongue up/near/on/outside/underneath/etc some dude's booty-hole, make sure you're vaccinated against Hep A and Hep B. And if possible, HPV. And, of course (the obligatory WTF recommendation)- use a dental dam. I know I know---"never seen it, never used it". Well, use the google machine and at least see what it looks like.
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I hate the damn 'zooming in'! Can I PLEASE know who Im watching?! I wana see facial expressions! I do not need 20 minutes of u zooming in on the penetration! I know how sex works! Do ppl actually like cams zoomed in on that angle?
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I'd go to watch. Hell they could change more for non participant lurkers and I could consider going for the voyeurism but I don't know want to get involved. If you get a case of blue sausage, you can't even pin point it.
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I have seen footage of nude beaches and people should definitely not have the expectation that everyone has a gym body there. You will see every walk of life and body's type and just like real life, you'll see more average bodies than fit/ "sexy". So if the motivation is to see swinging swords and phatty phatty phat phats attached to chiseled bodies, you are likely to be disappointed.
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If somebody said this to me during sex, whether I was pitching or catching, I'd probably laugh out loud then get up...that shit is not a turn on...
It would go from...
To...
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Well yeah .it's definitely intimate to have another person inside you. But I think it says a lot about how secure you are that you can submit to being penetrated and still not be submissive. I'm throwing it back like I'm fucking the dude. Lol like in my mind I'm like "knee grow, I'm finna MAKE you nutt." lol
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Some of them dudes were lowkey into the shenanigans too haha
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The theatrics in the fake-azz screaming and moaning and how everyone says "yeah nigeh" like they're reading it off a cue card.And I get turned off if someone is trying to show off they're production skills by putting some distracting trap beat in the scene,so now idk if it's time to do the wobble or do the wobble.I get that it's all a performance,but stuff like that takes me out of the mood.
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Lacks public decorum, but I'd rather see someone masturbating than committing acts of violence like the fight videos that used to be popular.
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Lmao @ 'look like they eat solid foods'.
But no, the blk guys always look dirty. And don't get me wrong, cus a lil dirty can be hot. But when they all look like wayward youths or like they started filming at the end of a sex party, I'm good.takeyourmeds91, Nigerian Prince, mojoreece and 3 others dapped this.
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