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Par for course, I've come to the conclusion racism is incurable like the common cold. Although the funniest thing I've been called is a "Klingon" by some fat white Jewish kid in college. I was alternately pissed and amused. When I confronted him, I grabbed him by the collar and said, "Mu'fukka, you don't call me a Klingon...I'm a Romulan, bitch!"

 

The problems of youth *sigh*. I will say if you are in a relationship then you should be able to communicate and work on what is causing 'bad sex'-you are in a relationship-different than a one night stand. 'Bad sex' is sex that is not satisfactory in the mind of one or both partners. If it is not at least as good as jacking off, or is not giving you something more than that can give you, then why have it?

I think people have way too high of expectations(maybe from porn?) regarding sex (and sometimes use the best sex they have had as a standard of what they want...there is a reason it was 'the best sex you ever had'..because it was the exception and not the rule! duh!). but at the same time there are some minimum requirements as well lol.

 

LMAO!! (Most) Fem dudes really kill me. LOL If a dude can get hard, stick his d@#k in you, ENJOY it thoroughly, and pop off (and make you pop off), then he's capable of being a Top. What the f#$k difference do it make that someone may have plowed him or ate him out at some point in time. Really, I can't take (majority of) "FemBot" mentality. Definitely a stupid a$$ "hetero-normative" mentality. smh Homeboy made a good point, "messy" bottoms that ain't gettin' plowed on a regular basis automatically blame their drought on an "excess" of bottoms LMAO!!!
Side note, I don't know that the "bottom shaming" is as strong in the white community because I see a LOT of white gay male couples here in NYC and a lot of them seem to be made up of (IMO) both fem (leaning) guys.

Side, side note - I LOVE that Jazz song playin at the end of the 1st video, but I can never remember the name of the (original) composer, I just know its a Jewish guy.

 

Warning: Some of the below material is NSFW.

One of my past time activities is watching porn. It’s not just watching porn but also the act of searching for porn that I enjoy. Think of the search as the dating process while my eventual act of masturbation is sealing the deal. Some of the types of videos I view as ‘four play’ are categorized as exhibitionist and voyeuristic in nature. I like viewing men being naughty in bathroom stalls, at urinals, locker rooms, saunas and cruising spots. Being the proverbial ‘fly on the wall’ is part of the appeal. As with most things…sometimes dudes in these videos go too damn far with their exhibitionism. I recently came across two proud exhibitionists men that took me out of ‘four play’ mode, one more-so than the other.

Being a guy who is on the thicker side but has been in ‘in shape’ a couple of times throughout his life; I’m fully aware of the hard work and dedication it takes to not only get in shape but stay in shape while continuously attempting to improve one’s physique. For that I give nexgencrusher all the props in the world. I view him as an accomplished athlete concerning his boxing, grappling, wrestling and MMA skills. If I ever wanted or was looking for a boxing / MMA trainer, I would absolutely hire him….but let’s refocus here. The first time I came across his vids was on PornHub. Him doing duck lips in certain pics and vids aside, I find his ass- hypnotizing and his athleticism attractive. After viewing some of his additional videos and pics on other platforms, I found some of his behavior questionable. I’m cool with exhibitionism but for me it has a time and place.

What I viewed reinforced for me that many Instagram fitness models (and IG culture) literally have no shame in regards to their quest for attention and likes. I find a lot of IG model’s videos are basically soft core porn that some are attempting to pass off as “fitness-workout motivation”. Many of these dudes display next level peacocking. Just check out this vid from nexgencrusher for example.



Think about it; are you looking at this dude’s workouts or are you distracted by his penis and ass? If you view the abundance of pics and videos nexgencrusher has online you can clearly see through his spandex meggins as he free balls. At times he’s flaccid but other times he’s semi-erect or completely erect. My judgmental ‘side-eyes’ come into play because dude clearly has an erect penis in the gym (in public) with other patrons around like it’s not an issue. Where is the sense of couth? Obviously for him he wants you to view all his assets because he craves that attention. Maybe its the reason why this continues to happen on his IG account.


His thoughts and reaction, “Haters are fans too”. Perhaps but this is about you posting pics and vids on IG with a proud hard dick in public spaces with people around? What I can’t do (as others have) is accuse the dude of wearing a strap-on. I respect penises big or small and my personal unorthodox bro-code will not allow me to criticize another man’s penis. Viewing his soft core porn Twitter account, I feel it’s only a matter of time before he ends up doing solo jack off vids on an ‘Only Fans’ page. I’ll wait for those vids when they’re uploaded to PornHub. Regardless, check out the numerous additional “motivational” NSFW pics and vids I used for research (cough) from nexgencrusher below.




















Now that you’ve viewed those…these are the types of antics that inspire salacious attention seeking gay dudes to do bullshit like come to your local gym and workout in boxer briefs as if that’s appropriate gym attire. Speaking of having zero decency, what we just viewed is tame compared to vids I came across on PornHub by Duriel Hines.

This dude is crazy and I see him as a sexual deviant that’s pushing the limits until he gets arrested by law enforcement. His bold careless acts are Folsom Street level nastiness that’s being performed in stores and in locker rooms. In a one vid, he brazenly inserts a dildo in himself while masturbating in front of other dudes like it’s a part of normal locker room conduct. With the Walmart video alone I’m thinking, “how has this dude not been arrested”? The locker room vids would be excusable in a bath house but not at your local gym. Yes I know there is an audience for this but WHAT IN THE ENTIRE FUCK dude? At least with nexgen, there is some value and mass sex appeal which is evident with the word count I spent on him in this post. This kat here to me is just gross and perpetuating a stereotype about non-heterosexual men. See the NSFW Videos below.

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"Duriel Hines - Famous Walmart Jack Off Video"

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"Duriel Hines - At Walmart Waiting on an Oil Change"

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"Duriel Hines - Caught Playing With My Dildo"

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"Duriel Hines - Caught at the Gym"

I’m sure we’ve all seen the crazy KSUhurdler videos from years ago. His main claim to fame was the one vid with him masturbating in broad daylight at the entrance of the Cleveland Galleria Mall.


His vids gained more attention after a conservative gay blogger saw the videos and called for KSUhurdler’s arrest. It was later discovered that KSUhurdler is IFBB Pro bodybuilder Michael Anderson. The blogger was successful in getting the vids removed from XTube.

Exhibitionists can face real world consequences while living out their fantasies. While I proudly embrace my exhibitionist and voyeuristic tendencies, I think there should be limits. Using the examples above think about it like this; the next time you’re at the gym would you want to work out near or spot a dude on the bench press that is proudly rockin a hard dick while he’s wearing spandex? Or would you want to wash your hands after pissing next to a dude masturbating while massaging his asshole? On second thought some of you just might.

 

Question - Do you like an "Ejaculation Proclamation" when having sex?

meaning = announcing when you are cumming at the moment you are cumming.

I for one DEFINITELY do.

(Background)
Im a verbal guy. I find being verbal hot and I prefer to be verbal and have it returned to me while doing the do. I think it makes the act even hotter. Especially when it's done right. The key words being DONE RIGHT.

Because there is indeed an art to verbal sex. Anyone who likes verbal sex knows what their trigger words are. As well as knows their "un-trigger" words that may make it shit wack or turn them off.

Now communication in any other dating or relationship area is key, but NOT when it comes to verbal sex in my opinion. This is an area where you CANNOT communicate your trigger or un-trigger words before having sex. It spoils the fun. You have to go in hot and just go for it. Start talking mad shit and see what sticks. And its not just the words you say, its the tone you say them, the facial expression, moves, it all plays in concert.

(Now back to the thread topic)

I feel that an announcement of cumming is soooo fuckin hot. That "OH Face", the shakes, calling on god, etc. That can actually make me blast off as well if its done and said right.

One sex partner I had the past always laughed hysterically when he came. Like every time. Very weird. That wasn't a turn on. As well as a white sex partner I use to deal with would always say, "oh yeah, thats the spot", and picture the most white man voice you can possibly imagine. That too wasn't a turn on.

But I will say I would take both of those over a dude that remained completely silent with just a small grunt, if even that. Maybe something in me needs the validation. Who knows.

So what say you squad. Am I alone on this?

(by past conversations I wouldn't be surprised if I am. I kinda noticed Im one of the only squad members that is sex positive. Or at least one of the only that admits it. )

 

Not gonna lie, I like some freaky shit. Well…minor freaky shit. Nothing like bondage, golden showers or fisting. But we all like what we like… Stuff I like is still the kinda stuff that may be a little off-putting to reveal to a dude you like the first time you both mess around (or have sex).

One time I was with a dude I was REALLY feeling, first time being fully naked & intimate and I was caught up in the moment. I remember going the extra mile to help him “finish” and then it was my turn. Like a drunk dude at a party, I started making requests.

He obliged, I was done, wiped myself off then looked at his face:



Then I realized that I may have revealed some things too soon.

So my question is, how soon is too soon for a dude you’re newly dating to make freaky, outside of the norm requests while being intimate?

 

I was browsing through one of my favorite Bloggers website, Jamari Fox, when I stumbled across a post about this guy with a nice shape, but most importantly -- a nice ass.

Before I continue, check out the link HERE.
If that doesn't work, then try this link: Work Those Brazilian Bunz Out | inside jamari fox

Can we agree that his ass looks amazing? Okay great---

But something about him just wasn't doing it for me. It's the subtle nuances that turn me off. It wasn't the tights, it was the WALK. I've always had an issue with men who flaunt their asses in the the same way a woman would. It completely makes me go limp. Lol...

I'd much rather watch a man in tights running up and down the football field lol

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Of course, we all do things to attract who we want, sexually. For example, I heard a joke a few years back during the early signs of Fall and heterosexual men were excited because it was "leggings season." LOL..meaning women would start wearing leggings showing off their curves.

Comparing this with the world of same gender loving men, do you feel as though some guys do a little TOO much to flaunt their cake OR do you find it sexy, for instance, how the guy in the video chose to present his backside (I'm assuming for his followers?).

Disclaimer: I'm all for the idea of "to each is own" so there is never any judgement with me. It's a bit tricky talking about certain things within the community because you never know who you may offend. If I was a heterosexual man talking about things that turn me off in a women, it wouldn't offend anyone because I would be talking to a bunch of hetero men lol. So it is tricky having this type of talk, but it is something that is always on my mind so...yeah.

 

This past Sunday night I was at a bar here in Miami when I was approached by a 35 year old black man. He was fairly good looking, and had a great personality. After chewing the fat for a couple of minutes, he asked me if he paid me $100.00, could he see my feet, and smell them in the bathroom. I am $100 richer today. But, that has me thinking. Does any guy in this group have any fetishes? Why do you have them and do you consider them weird?

 

That's because straight porn is about straight men's tastes and desires. The woman and her pleasure is kinda irrelevant. She's supposed to get fucked and look good getting fucked so straight men can jack off. Gay porn is more about mutual pleasure between men. Except for that kink/BDSM stuff which usually is abusive but that's a whole different subject.

 

Them thick track thighs though

 

I could date a dude that was the same "role" as me. I'm vers so it wouldn't be a deal breaker for a dude to be either a bottom or a top. Now if they say they don't give head...

 

You wanna find out? I'm "7 uncut.

 

I personally love both. I think straight porn on average as better looking guy. But I skip thru to certain positions. I dont really like the upclose shots, uness its from the back where I can see the guys ass as well.I like the shots where I can see the guys whole body. I like when they show missionary positions so I can see his ass. I'm mostly looking at the guy. The girl is just an accessory. Gay porn I prefer amateur over professional.

 

Absolutely. If u got pretty toes, im def gon suck em

 

LOL!!..See I can't be in a theard with you no more!!

 

Oral sex is sex...it has the word "sex" in its name...

If I can catch a Sexually Transmitted Infection doing it, its sex.

If I were dating a dude and we went to a party where it was discovered that he "only" had oral sex with everyone in the room in the past, not penetration....I would still think he had sex with all of them...

 

Before we get too much misinformation floating out there, the average penis size is 5-6 inches...even for black men...and that's okay.

Science Reveals the Average Penis Size. How Do You Stack Up?

Porn is not "research." They purposely cast a larger percentage of well-endowed men.

Also, I've observed that too many men start their self measurements further back than they should. The testicles do not count as a starting point.

 

Sir the previews are sometimes the best part! I refuse to miss them and will be tight if I do!

 

Interesting discussion. I am seeing a ton of myths and misinformation being quoted as fact and hard fast belief.

1. We always joke about taking really large penises and eventually getting a loose sphincter and needing a diaper..Not typical.

2. Average size 9"?? Not even 7" or 8", even for black men. think about this, two men can have the exact same sized penis, however if one is 6'2" and 220 lbs vs. 5'5" and 120 lbs, the penis would look huge on the smaller dude. It is all about relative perspective .

Everybody is different..and a larger penis on one encounter may feel wonderful, and on another, the me size may hurt like hell.

I don't measure mine or judge any other. I've never has a complaint. I will never ask you your size.

I refuse to dislocate my jaw. Orals sex should not be uncomfortable. So it makes sense, orally, you can do more if its smaller

I have only really bottomed in relationships where we versed..In that case, I am as open to pleasing my partner as he is in pleasing me...so regardless of size, I will attempt to accommodate, as did he.

All these rules and requirements we have take all the joy and fun out of sex/making love. It becomes a test or contest about living up to the world's expectations when none of that really matters.

A big part of sex is communicating with your partner likes and dislikes. I find the best sex comes after you've gotten to know each other's bodies... likes, and dislikes...after all pretenses and facades are ripped away.

Ok..I've strayed off topic enough. IJS...

 

I agree. Our brains are wired to stereotype, make snap judgments and put things in the simplest terms to understand, but that's also something you can train yourself not to be conditioned to. I do agree that sometimes labels are necessary and came cut down on some confusion. So most times if I don't feel like getting into a whole discussion I'll just say things like "I'm gay" or "I'm a top" to cut down confusion. Especially if the convo or person isn't worth in-depth analysis lol

 

I'm just full of surprises. Lol.

 

I'm not a Gold Star Gay I guess...I love tittays too much...so much so that I don't even like dudes with hard plump chiseled chests. Hard muscle bodies in general are a turnoff to me unless its just because the dude is super slim and can't hold on to the cushion. But I'm already way off-topic so I digress...

 

@BrentForays must have receipts that we don't...

 

And Im not equating all 'non str8' with gay. Ijs, THIS dude will either realize that he's gay and it's ok, or end up married to a nice, clueless, chubby lady from church w pretty hair and a pretty face. ( @DreG )

 

Wow. It'd be one thing to decide not to go and hear about it the next day, but that's some shit to pull up on.

 

I think everyone should try it at least once. You never really know until you do. There's a lot of factors in whether or not you can have a successful relationship with someone who plays the same role. The main thing is both parties have to be willing to step out of their comfort zone.

 

Rest assured that 30 is quickly becoming the new 25/26 but with a comparatively better sense of self haha. I think there's a shift in how us 20 somethings are beginning to process age and it's being passed down.

 

So I need to pay for porn, because it won't ruin my life?

 

Not into anything with a vagina present at all. Pretty much just gay black porn. Some Latino and White mixed with black here and there. Top and bottom sex is VERY boring. I hate the dynamic of that. I pretty much stick to mostly stuff from Taggaz that features versatile men. Nothing is better than the best of both worlds lol.

 

Yeah I guess count me as a gold star gay. I can appreciate a beautiful woman but I've just never had the desire to have sex with them. I think that term sounds kind of corny though. Who gives a fuck really. If your gay, it doesn't make you any more or less gay if you've been with a woman.