Free porn ruins men’s sex lives, but not women’s

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    Excessive pornography viewing is likely to contribute to a risk of sexual dysfunction in men, but not women, according to new research. A panel discussion and presentation held on Friday at the 112th Annual Scientific Meeting of the American Urological Association highlights results from surveys conducted on men and women about pornography viewing habits and the long-term effects on sexual health and intimate behavior.

    The researchers, led by Dr. Matthew Christman, a staff urologist and program director for pediatric urology at the Naval Medical Center of San Diego, report that while pornography trivially affects women’s sex lives, an excessive habit can be ruinous to men’s psychosexual health. Essentially, many men who are really into internet porn have the potential to become disinterested in sex with a real-life partner. The researchers suggest that the more time men spend on sites such as PornHub, the less able they’ll be to connect with a partner in the bedroom. This can result in severe damage to sexual and romantic relationships and make intimacy challenging, at best.

    The presentation was based on two surveys. In one, researchers administered self-reported questionnaires to women aged 20 to 40 who were patients at a military urology clinic. A majority of the women who took part in the survey were white, married, heterosexual and on active military duty. Roughly 40 percent of women who participated claimed to use pornography at least occasionally, with a quarter reporting to use it less than once weekly.

    The findings of the accompanying study on men raised more concern. Through surveys administered to 312 male patients of the same age group (also mostly white, married and heterosexual), the researchers found a close correlation between excessive pornography use and sexual dysfunction. Roughly 20 percent of men reported using porn three to five times weekly. Nearly 4 percent of men reported they preferred masturbating to pornography over having sexual intercourse with a partner. The researchers also recognized a correlation between men who used pornography frequently and those who reported lack of sexual desire and intercourse satisfaction, as well as erectile dysfunction.

    The two surveys also shed light on how both men and women are choosing to consume pornography online. In both surveys, more than half of study participants (55 percent of women and 62 percent of men) said they viewed porn on their smartphone.
     
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    You just never know, I try to limit my shit. I feel like porn can limit your zest to get out there and interact with another human. It's too easy to catch your nut within the comfort of your own crib and that's some dudes' downfall.
     
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    I guess my long standing engagement to myvidster explains why I give 0 fuks about sex w a real life person... Well, that's not totally true. While I can't say that I'm in any way active about pursuing what I want, I just never seem to encounter it, so I say fuk it. The most quality gay guys I know are now friends of mine, and I don't want to become that guy who stays hooking up w all of his 'friends'.
     
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    Four years ago I probably would've {reluctantly} disagreed with you but...here I am, four years celibate. LOL NAh, it's not totally because of porn but, it definitely contributes to the complacency.
     
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    Myvidster hasn't been the same since the ads to watch ANY video
     
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    But do you need to have 'quality gay guys' to 'hook up'? Maybe so...what is a quality gay guy when it comes to hooking up?-is it different than for a relationship? I guess it would be for me(if I cared about that stuff still). I would not want to hook up with quality gay friends, but damn when I was 'active' about hooking up, 'quality' was very subjective then(back when we rode dinosaurs and all).


    Also they did not discuss incorporating porn into a real life sexual relationship. Is there a place for 'porn with a partner'? If you incorporate porn as part of sex (like adding food, role-playing, toys, etc) does it make a difference?


    *hookups are supposed to be kinda sleazy...that is part of it being a hookup. How can you have a 'walk of shame' if there is nothing to be ashamed about lol? All of you younger gays are too 'clean' and all about sex. Hell if I survived as nasty as I was at times you all can too. Nobody...no sane people want HIV or some STD...but there is a middle ground too.
     
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    Huh? Have you seen modern day porn with these "younger gays"? Clean is the LAST thing the younger gays are about sex. :kermit: LOL
     
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    I am not fully sold on the ever-present horrors of pornography. However, I do think there is a growing trend that people, in general, are having less sex and that is a bit concerning. Do I think porn is the root cause, No! I think porn should be categorized with all of life's indulgences, if it done in moderation, you are probably fine.

    I don't think there is a shortage of sex to be had and getting sex has become increasingly easy...I think a lof of this is laziness and preoccupation with other "more meaningful" activities such as bringing Netflix on a Saturday night.
     
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    Not for me. Don't get me wrong, cus I have def had some hot hookups/partners ;-) but in true honesty, Im just not into the randomness. Like I said, there's a world of difference for me between meeting up for drinks and then deciding to go back to my place, and you showing up at my door w ur poppers n just starting to undress. I find a lot more comfort in one over the other.
     
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    U need the ublock add-on bro
     
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    We (people) might need to come to grips that the reality about actual sex is that its at many times VERY overrated. Lets be honest, some sex hookups can be awesome, but many are just blah or downrite, I could of did this myself and had a better time.

    Which is why with the easy access of porn these days and the filthy but oh so good content of porn, men are like "fuck it, i'll handle this and I'm good".

    Nobody to make awkward small talk with as they wipe off and take too long to find their shoes and underwear, no dick size disappointments or oooh ouch can't take the dick shit, and no "I'm on my way" and 2 hours later they ring the doorbell. And no worries about stds.

    Real sex is good, but I just wonder how many people have Good Real sex!
     
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    Well I kinda meant 'you all' on here...and yeah 'younger' being relative to my age. To to the average gay thot most of you are ossified as well lol.
     
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    So I need to pay for porn, because it won't ruin my life?

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