Guys Really Live in Apartments Like This and Don’t See Any Issue

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  1. OckyDub

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    Well....they van host unencumbered.

    Also that's an easy fix. Craigslist always got free stuff and if they have a college near by the dumpsters will be full of gently used Ikea and you can make a bed frame with free wood pallets.

    I see no issue.
     
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    Lol must be nice where you live.

    Free stuff and dumpster diving in Chicago

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    Most furniture stores will give people with a so so FICO score enough of a credit line to get a couple of chairs or a loveseat. Then there’s the rental places like Aaron’s...

    Also if a guy is living like that because he’s doing the Dave Ramsey type thing, good for him. Better to have one thing you own, then a dozen things you owe on...
     
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    Look I'm all for faking it until you make it.

    I'd definitely hit up Ikea first and foremost.

    But I did notice a problem here.

    His electronics are not on a surge protector. Lol
     
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    Yall playin. Yall Atliens (well, those from everywhere besides 'big' northern cities, really...) may be used to nice lil apts in nice lil complexes for $700 a month, but I've seen soooo many apts like this in NY that it's a shame. Mattresses (material or air) on the floor, no non-mattress places to sit, no table to sit your drink on, and no damn cups to be able to have a drink to need to sit anywhere cus ain't nowhere for you to sit down!!

    All jokes aside, this is waaay too normal for a lot of these dudes out here. You can get u 2 lil shitty futons from walmart for 200 lil shitty dollars! 17 roommates can't throw in a few dollars for them to have a place to bring their hourly rotation of jakd and grindr dates?!

    And many of them may or may not have the audacity to own several pairs of Jordans, ijs...
     
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    Can we talk about how nasty some of these people live? Oh my God! I went to a friends apartment the other night, I had no idea he was so disgusting! Mess, dirt and dirty mess everywhere and dirty bathroom. I had to use my shoe to left up the toilet seat. And a green flern bottle top on the sink. A young, black gay man. There was an empty lube bottle under a table in his bedroom. And there was a half full bottle on top of the table. His place was so disgusting and nasty. He offered me water and I just declined. Some of the nastiness could’ve gotten inside of the bottle. Yuck.

    And he stay on jack’d inviting people over to get him poom poom .
     
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    On the serious tip, is he so Jack’d up that he’s lost a sense of proportion? I’m the kind of dude that would say something, just be straight up with him. Friends tell you what you need to hear not what you want to hear.

    Speaking of Friends, never really watched the show but I remembered this particular episode because I had a friend whose nasty ass apartment was EXACTLY just like this



    He was spoiled and his parents had money and apparently he wasn’t used to self-cleaning. He offered some food and I straight up told him why I wouldn’t eat anything out of his kitchen or place. No one one had ever said NO to him, so he got the message and started straightening shit up. Maybe have a heart to heart with your friend?
     
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    It was even worse than the friends episode, I think. Her place was junky. His was junky and dirty. I didn’t say anything because he thinks I’m a snob as it is. I’m not. I don’t like calling out the obvious - it was disgusting, the kitchen was the worst. And he always inviting people over because he cooked. Lol. I’ll muster up the courage to say something. And he has roaches.
     
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    Yeah you should have said something.

    Like I'd appreciate the honesty. Just come from a "caring and concerned and want you to do better " place instead of a "I'm talking about your stank ass" place.
     
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    Lol yes, you’re description gets worse and worse. The critters are a no go. I recall a Richard Pryor monologue about a dirty kitchen, roaches, and why I don’t eat oatmeal raisin cookies to this day (“Grandma, that raisin is moving”). Seriously, like @ControlledXaos said, be the gentle voice. Roaches are disease bearing so it’s also a matter of your friend’s (and your) health not just aesthetics.

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    you all are right. and thanks for the gentle nudge. I need to say something to him about the condition of his place.. I tend to shy away from controversial subjects with my friends, but I need to say something. I was laughing at the comments - especially since he considers himself to be a IG influencer... he has something like 70k followers ... and post a lot of videos on FB, etc of him working out.
     
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    70 K? Well at least 50k wouldn't give a shit about his squalor ass apartment if he can host and the sex is good. Lol

    But yeah...get your friend to Do Better! Lol
     
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    the struggle is real.... I cant tell no one how to furnish their place when im not paying their rent. :hubie::yeshrug:
     
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    @@yahoo.com said 'it was mess, dirt and dirty mess everywhere'!! Lmao
     
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    True..but you also SHOULDN'T have to tell someone that they should have some place to sit if they wana have company.
     
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    I Like It. I'm feeling the Japan meets America minimalist vibe...some see a poverty of possessions, but I see a "less is more" masculine efficiency, that I'll admit it, actually leaves me a little horny.
     
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    Some guys live like this...
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    but are doing this...
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    prefer someone that eats
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    and might live like this...
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