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  1. @yahoo.com

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    I know I cannot be the only one…

    But I firmly believe that if you are on the receiving end of penetrative sex (bottoming) that you should at the very minimum have the kind of lube that you like, one that works well with your body. I don’t think that you should put just any ole possibly expired lube up in you. Like Lube from the club, going over somebody’s house and using their lube that you don’t know how long it’s been around for, or just asking some random Pick up some lube, or bring yours!

    I do keep in mind that there’s always exceptions in the thick of the moment. This is in causes of planned sex.

    It’s just a random thought on this Saturday. I hate going over someone’s house and they just randomly say bring some lube. It makes me think he has no standards and will settle for anything.

    What are your thoughts?
     
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    My thoughts are, sounds like someone had an AWESOME Friday night. :bronbad:

    But yeah I'm with ya, if you are bottoming it would seem legit to have all your necessary things in tact including your lube preference.

    Reminds me why I fuck with the bottoms that I, well , fucked with on past occasions. (pun intended) Them dudes were pros.
     
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    Yeah...I'm basically agreeing with this.

    Side note....coconut oil is really good lube and cleans up nicely while being a natural moisturizer. While I can tolerate it for masturbatory / oral masturbatory purposes... condoms, lube and the friction smell they produce during sex slightly annoys me.

    This is why I use the "old faithful" Wet for sex.
     
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    Im not a fan of the oils. Coconut and such. I feel like they get thick quickly and constantly need reapplying. Wet platinum is where it's at tho. And 'Valm' is pretty good too. Not as good as wet, but its cheaper and not stringy and gooky like some lubes.

    When all else fails or if ur poor tho...

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    If you haven't sized up the would-be-playmate (enough to mandate your lubricant preference or entrust them to bring the lubricant accessible to them); why are you hooking up with that individual at all?

    The greatest concern should be what's pumping in their veins and/or saliva.
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    Personal lubricants typically have a shelf life of a few years. Wouldn't it be more concerning if that would-be-playmate has breezed though a large bottle of personal lubricant they purchased a few days/weeks ago?
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    To avoid all this mumbo-jumbo; have your own and like Scar...
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    Yea, I was gonna say, lube doesn't really 'expire'. It might not be as good and silky as it's supposed to be, but it doesn't become dangerous or anything.

    I actually researched this a while back because there was a point where the Dollar Tree had all of this durex lube, because it was 'expiring' that same year. I pretty much bought every tube from every Dollar Tree in BK, and let's just say it worked perfectly fine for me.
     
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    Daps muthafucka, Daps!

    ...that $1 container of Softee coconut grease which is basically Vaseline. But you fancy though...damn Mango Butter!

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    Negro, I got both! I'm sofistikated! I got options.
     
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    I had @ControlledXaos runnin all over ATL tryna find that good lube down to the Tree 'while supplies last'. Po thang didn't realize that all them gayTL thots had alrdy bought up every bottle for Groundhogs Day Pride.

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    I sure did. I went to five muh fuhn dollar trees tryna find silicone lube for the low low. It was fruitless.

    I have a Big Boy Bag. The muh fuh dusty but it's there It has all I need in one place if and when a sexual opportunity is a maybe. Everyone should have one no matter what position you play.

    There's nothing wrong with party supplies from the club or the doctor's office or clinic My prep doc has magnums, Joe lube, and female condoms. I just grab a few and keep it moving moving bc you never know.

    I'm definitely interested in seeing how silicone would work for raw But it'll be a while before that's even an option since I'm not in an LTR. I just get lube from Amazon. That Shibari brand is good. Kroger and Walmart Equate brand KY style lube is pretty good too.
     
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    I hate ky AND shibari!!! Well, i guess they could be good for actual penetration, but since I got my life right with christ... but they're horrible for soloists. That's all silicone all day.

    As someone who didn't bottom often, I can't say how it is for being on the recieving end of raw sex. I always needed more grease, and for that, that softee boy was all I could fuk w.
     
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    Yeah I’m wondering what everyone thinks is the right shelf life; I.e. use until bottle is empty or discard after x amount of time. I’m halfway through the one I bought in August but wondering if I should just re- up every so often regardless of purchase date.
     
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    Nah, u good. Use until it no longer feels the way it's supposed to feel, lol. Besides, yous married now! Yall are supposed to be thru several bottles according to the rules of gay.
     
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    Shibari has a liquidy one that's pretty good. It works with my grenade stroker. I had to stop using my hands as often because I have death grip and it was making it where when I was in position to have sex with the not bf but by by any other name, it wasn't that great because death grip was giving me tooooo much pleasure to enjoy the real thing as much.

    Albolene works wonders for direct stimulus but I don't go the grease route with condoms. Lube only. I'll be paranoid like a mofo If a condom broke down over some mango fruit hair food. Lol
     
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    Great food for thought on masturbation.

    I think something like a grenade may be beneficial for me idk. I need something that is easy to clean.
     
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    wait i hate to interrupt this greasy buns party but i'm seeing a lot of chat here about oils as lube. didnt yall learn in health class that oil based lubricants break down latex and, thus, pops condoms?

    i like to beat off with coconut oil but i'm not putting it in ya booty hole with a condom
     
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    Im talking about when I was wifed up. We didn't use condoms.
     
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    Yeah I was frequent with my sessions. Everyday after gym. I admit I just get so worked up after I get home and get ready to shower It just seems like the best time to fit it in. So I was taking away from quality intimacy with another guy, which in turn made me super anxious because then they are thinking they are doing something wrong but nope. They good. My body was just used to that super clinch action.

    See what he said to HARD in the second part.....

    https://www.thestranger.com/slog/2018/09/18/32529858/another-sufferer-of-death-grip-syndrome

    Anyway ...

    A sleeve was worth the investment. Not even 20 bucks. Mine feels awesome but doesn't provide virgin tightness but the internal texture provides a different stimulation that's gets me there good but still isn't flesh so I can still be satisfied by someone else It's pretty easy to clean because it's not encapsulated like a fleshLight. Not that those would be difficult to clean from my understanding. But at their cost and I wasn't sure if this was going to be as effective for me as it was I didn't want to drop fleshlight money.

    But there's different types of material that these things are made from and different lubes work better depending on that too. I got one from Groupon and it works better with liquid style lubes than gel. So you really have to experiment. That's why I wouldn't invest too much money on one initially. It's not like you can return it if it doesn't work out lol
     
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    Yes that's the one. It got mixed reviews but that shit worked for me. Lol
     
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    Bruh when I tell you years ago, prob around 2013 my homeboy told me about fleshLight. I never heard of it but when he told me and showed me his I was intrigued as fuck and went a splurged on one of my own. (agree about fleshlight money. those shits aint cheap)

    Dude I had to end up throwing that shit away. I fucked the shit out of that damn thing so often it ended up having a split in it and was ruined. Not to mention it was times when I was passing up actual real ass for that shit. Bruh that shit was like nothing I EVER felt. It was the best ass I felt at that time in a while. Not to mention you didn't have to make small talk with it, try to hint you have to get up early and go to work so they have to get out, or deal with it texting you wanting attention.

    Im not even playing. I was literally damn near in a relationship with that shit for a solid 5 months. Once it was ruined I figured it was a sign and I got rid of it and never bought another one again. I don't think good "ass" on tap like that for me added to me being my best self. :sadbron:
     
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    You may have just made a sale.
     
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    Wet? Damn, I didn't know dudes was even still on Wet. I used that it my twenties. I mean yeah its ok, but in my dealings dudes were up on that good shit now. That damn Swiss Navy is the TRUTH.... But yeah, lubes like this are pricey as fuck.

    If a dude ever even remotely pulled out some damn KY, I'm leaving. That shit is the absolute worse...

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    I was having this convo w a few friends about a month ago, and the resident Thotianna Ali was raving about Swiss Navy. Between the 2 of yalls endorsements, I'll go ahead and give this a gander next time.
     
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    I beg your pardon sir, I see that low key calling me Thotianna like the other Swiss Navy fan. I aint no damn millennial.

    I prefer being known as a good ole fashion SLUT. :babylawd:
     
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