How do you make the first move?

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  1. Je Ne Sais Quoi

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    Ok so I've been hanging out with a guy for a few months now. We go out to eat, we go shopping, we work out together and he comes over for movies and dinner at least 1-2 times a week. When he comes over and we're done watching tv or eating or whatever, we sometimes sit in awkward silence waiting for one another to make the first move. UNFORTUNATELY, neither of us has ever made the first move and it's killing me because I've been waiting on him to have sex (meaning, I haven't had sex with anyone else since me and him have become close). He always says that he really likes me and that he's so shy when he gets around me BUT I'm the same way. Whenever I'm in his presence, I act like a school boy because he's so cute and his mentality turns me on. What should I say to get things going? Should I make the first move? Should I just rip his pants off? Or should I stop being a horny little hoe and wait for it to happen organically? HELP, I'm horny and I want to make love lol cpnoway
     
    #1 Je Ne Sais Quoi, Dec 22, 2016
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    Trust me, make the first move. It's already been a few months.Somebody has to do it. Wait for the right moment and kiss him next time yall are at the crib. Good luck.
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    #2 BrentForays, Dec 22, 2016
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    Bro, take a cue from Nike and Just Do It. For something to happen, "organically," SOMETHING HAS TO HAPPEN, meaning someone has to make a verbal or physical move. I'm assuming yall haven't kissed, so i would recommend a good night kiss at the door before yall part ways, and then take it from there. Y'all watch movies a lot, so spoon/cuddle, then take it from there. If you go to the movies, hold hands or put ur hand on his leg and take it from there...when u get home. (The darkness of the movies shoukd put u at ease a little.) Last but not least, you can pull the old, "so Wassup wit it," line and pull your dick out. Lol...that can be a bit crass, but the bottom line is to Just Do It. I missed out on a lotta booty for tryna to be too much of a gentleman. If both of yall are feeling it, just go for it.
     
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  4. Je Ne Sais Quoi

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    Well he's coming over today so I will update you guys on what happens. lol I'm such a nervous dweeb
     
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    What you got planned? Hit me up if u need a pep talk. Lol
     
    #5 Sean, Dec 22, 2016
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    Have you all talked about sex or relationships?
     
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    All of the time.
     
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    So what happened when he came over yesterday? If you're willing to share.
     
    #8 BrentForays, Dec 23, 2016
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    Sorry for the late response. We got drunk, made out and cuddled. It was cool
     
    #9 Je Ne Sais Quoi, Dec 27, 2016
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    I mean--I think things should definitely happen organically, but SOMEONE is going to eventually have to make the first move lol. If he's that damn shy then you should just step up to the plate and go for it. Be smooth about it though. Nothing will happen that he doesn't want to happen. Especially reading that you said he likes you and you guys have already had discussions about sex/relationships--yeah go for it. lol

    Keep us posted! Oh--and whatever happens, be safe. :)
     
    #10 Nicholan, Feb 11, 2017
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