The Weakness.

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  1. Jai

    Jai I sexual person that doesn't have sex...Slap me...
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    Greetings Cypherions,

    As you may know, I am clever, artsy and all that other stuff. You may also know that I talk about sex often or situations. I seem man crazy right? (Dark-skinned, chocolate Hershey bars and all that stuff), Anywho, so you also may have seen me state that I don't have sex anymore (I've done so three times 3 years ago), nor have been masturbating either.

    I call this rekindling my flame within (is this fancy talk for igniting the ho?). :)

    However, it's failing as of late. Yesterday, I tried too pluck the peen but couldn't even stay interested on the porn I was trying too look at. My imagination? Nope. Bored and unimpressed.

    So I was like well this ain't cutting it. Do I need the real thing?

    I know some might say, Go have sex! But I really can't just hook-up with a guy and have aimless sex. I know some may also say that I should separate sex from emotions.

    So does anyone else out there not do anything sexual and try to channel it into other things (besides other people lol)? What do you do? What's your longest streak..

    Also do you think others may be able too pick up on when someone else is in heat or horny. I think it's pheromones or whatever the hell it's called. Can't remember the name.

    Ya know, vibrational energy? Like if you met a guy and y'all click, is it possible to feel someone's sexual energy also just by being around them? Is this what they call sexual tension?

    This is literally how I sleep at night, well at least how I wake up in the morning...

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    Any others out there with their own experiences and tips?
     
  2. takeyourmeds91

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    Are you actively trying to date? It sounds like the clear answer would be to get out there and try to get to know new guys. This doesn't have to involve sex at all but could potentially develop into that if you develop a certain level of comfort with that guy.

    Over-repeated concept but I fully believe that when we stop putting so much thought and effort into an entity, it finds its way to us. And when it finally does find you, it's so much sweeter.
     
  3. Jai

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    No. I've never actually been on a date with a guy before. Well, at least not one that agreed to & knew about it. I'm pretty much used to just friending everyone most of the time & go about my business really.

    I guess I could put effort into dating...

    You really believe in the find your way to you stuff?

    I guess it does kinda sound like the Laws of Attraction perhaps. This might be best and just kind of let things happen...I suppose..

    But it may just be best for me to just stay single and focus on my dreams and development.

    I mean how many guys we got on here over 40 & they don't have any complaints about not being with someone.
     
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    Lol we'll never know exactly how folks feel in their personal lives - but I do think that when you focus on yourself but leave yourself open to opportunity, it allows the right people to gravitate towards you for the right reasons. It sounds a lot more idealistic than how I mean it but the main idea is that it's okay to focus on yourself, just make sure you're not shutting yourself off.
     
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    Interesting...I like the way you think.
     

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