Your take on: Gay men grinding at the clubs

You better give your dog a toy or something so he stop grinding on everything lol

 

Call out as in "wanting to have a grinding session with them?" You nasty...

 

Getting a private dance by oiled up male strippers is even more gross than random strangers grinding their poop-shoots on my semi-erect penis in a public club. To each his own, though.

 

I agree (I don't want that damn sweaty oil on my cloths) but why you semi-erect though over dem nasty oiled up mens?

 

LOL I'm just saying...this damn dog is gettin it!

 

My gun is ALWAYS loaded and cocked, even if I do have the safety on...

 

Pretty much. This spot I used to hit up in Fayetteville, NC when I was in the army called "Spectrum" was very much that, my dude. LOL And "Krash" here in NYC, but when it was in Steinway, Queens. Mainly Black/Latino crowd, but still, same concept...shirts off, sweat, booze, cigarettes, and grindin'. I miss those days....kinda of LOL

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with a little grinding and the position you are doesn't matter. Its dancing people. I also think there is a difference between close dancing and grinding and TWERKING <---but if you are a twerk hero then so be it too. I think people should be free do dance how they want to dance. For me, my grinding days are over, it was fun when I use to do it but now it just seems kind of silly.

 

Yeah, when I was the Air Force I used to hit up clubs in DC, Houston, and Atlanta. I met quite a few other military guys in the club. Lots of bruthas shirts came off including mine. The alcohol flowed freely, dudes would be smoking cigarettes, blacks, and weed. Had lots of good times. I kinda miss those days too.

 

I like a good slow grind in the club with dude I'm feeling (Dance With Somebody is also one of my favorite songs) but I'm not into men twerking at all. That seems to be what they do here in the DMV now so typically I just hit a two step with my boys in the corner and call it a night.

 

Twerking is definitely a deal breaker. It's a big red flag that points to some effeminate characteristics. If I see a dude twerking on the floor that's definitely not someone I'd be trying to holla at.

 

As Daggering is a Jamaican "experience" ... and i am the resident Jamaican I feel i have to propperly introduce you to the art.... the skill...the hillarity of Daggering ... because what you showed was a tame .... very tame version lol.

 

LOL Daaang that guy dropped one girl on the head in that first vid!! Doesn't that hurt the guys too when you when you're jamming your sac on the ground with those jumps and thrusting them at people lol

 

LOL! If you have a male stripper, you MUST twerk, especially if you want these dollars (YES, dollars, because I have bills). For any other man, it depends. Some masculine men can twerk and still keep everything in place.

 

there is an art to landing that eliminates damage to that area.... you land on your thighs not your privates lol

 

Oh ok I was going to say.....Ima need I cup running with them lol!

 

You're comparing apples to oranges.

 

Sorry...I just found this pic LOL

 

I'd wana say I dont judge, but I have never danced w a man in the club. At least not beyond a co-2 step.

I get that gay men should feel completely comfy in our own spaces to dance like ev1 else, but ur also hard pressed to get me to dance, at all, str8 or gay space, unless im tipsy as hell.

N dont get me started on strippers. Im just not into it. I talk a lot of shit but im def a lowkey dude when there isnt a stage/check involved.