Best Posts in Thread: Is Sexuality Truly Fluid or is its Glass Half Empty or Half Full?

It's fluid. I just think gays are more aware of it ... Or we can be. Many gays still think that bi is just a gateway to the gayborhood but that's definitely not true.

I think straight men especially black, have a difficult time accepting same sex attraction. Like it triggers an internal conflict that some can't handle. I mean can we extrapolate that as many girls who kiss girls that mentioned in rap music, that there's an approximate equal amount of guys who kiss guys as well?

I don't even buy the 10 percent rule either. Unless we're saying that 10 percent of the population is strictly gay, maybe but that 10 percent can't be a placeholder for everyone who is not 100 percent straight. I think that the 10 percent is too low for gays because probably that's the percentage of people who have no qualms identifying as gay anyway.

 

I think people can identify as more hetero or homosexual in the broad spectrum of their life or personal taste / preference, but I do indeed think sexuality is absolutely fluid for most homosapiens.

I believe we can all find ourselves sexually attractive to the same or opposite sex given a particular circumstance, moment, and more important a specific person in the attraction.

Besides those that are bi-sexual Im sure people stay true to their self identified preference, but Im sure there is definitely a dude out there that would make a straight guy do a double take and wonder. And likely for straight woman looking at a certain woman and gay men or women seeing a specific person of the opposite sex desirable.

For example for me - I have always said and still to this day that I would fuck the shit out of Jada Pinkett. I always had it BAD for her every since A Different World. And trust me, im gay as fuck....

But the funny thing is I also wanted Will Smith. (Especially Suicide Squad Will. DAMMIT!!)

So you could imagine if I was ever invited to have a 3-some with Will and Jada I wouldn't need to have sex again for the rest of my life. That would be it. I could die a happy man.