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  1. OckyDub

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    I kinda feel like this is possible if one is truly open to options...which could mean your bea may not come from the American BLACK gay community.

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    I'm down for any guy that complements me. I have no hangups at all about race.
     
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    I am fine with an Afro-Latino male or a darker skinned Latino man but I LOVE my melanin.

    I just think people chase after those who are emotionally unavailable more often than not. People are also stuck in a certain image.
     
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    Im cool with that. African, Afro euro, Afro French, Afro carib, , Afro latino, etcs as long as they thick, brown skin with facial hair i'm good. We can work on their visa/green card later.
     
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    I probably won't end up with a black dude. Tried exclusively for years but now I'm over seeking the ideal of "black love". I know what it'll look like and what people will say- "another 'good one' decides black dudes aren't good enough for him".

    Fuck them.

    Get your life, regardless of what others think.
     
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    There are nearly 7.5 Billion people on this earth, about half are men, 20% of those men or 80,000,000, likely falls on the spectrum of less than 100% heterosexual. You best believe that I agree with this sentiment.
     
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    I definitely agree with this statement. I just wish he would hurry up and come along. Of the three black men that I have seriously dated:

    - One was a compulsive liar.
    - One was a straight up manwhore.
    - The last one went back into the closet and became hotep.
     
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    ....is the key word here AMERICAN?
     
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    It's interesting to see how folks can start to lean towards casting away black dudes as dating partners as a whole based on their experiences dating a couple of no-shit black dudes. I wonder if there are nearly as many people who will cast away white men as a whole based on their experiences with no-shit white dudes. I guess even if you're black yourself, it's easier to sub-consciously see black people as a monolith.

    But anyway, it's hard enough finding love, so it doesn't really matter the race of the person you're with. I would just say don't close yourself off from any group. And that includes other black men. My husband is black, but he's from the islands. So you never know.
     
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    While I agree with your statement keep in mind I specifically stated "American"
     
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    Here's what that person looks like when yaw first meet...
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    Here's the last thing you remember before you realize you got Dahmer'd...
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    Well to the 'American Black' guys on here, what do you think? If you are not shit, then there are others out there too who are not shit. For a number of reasons (being a double minority in the US among them) it is harder. Try harder, look harder, put yourself out there more, etc. They are out there, because YOU are out there. I would not 'settle' for a non-black guy if you really want a black guy, American or otherwise. If you really do not care about race and ethnicity in a partner, fine-go for it-but do it for the right reasons, not because you can't get what you really want-you are not being fair to yourself or your potential partner. JMHO.

    I guess I agree...a partner 'may' not come from the 'American Black' community, because 'may' does not mean yes or no...it means maybe. Maybe yes, maybe no-American Black or otherwise. Nobody is guaranteed or entitled to love or a partner. Some will find it all, some will not find anything.

    Too bad it is not like healthcare where you could make it 'univeral' or a thing Oprah can give out so 'you get love, you get love, EVERYBODY gets love!
     
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