Being away from the Apps...

Discussion in 'Dating and Relationships' started by Lancer, Jun 23, 2019.

  1. Lancer

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    So I have been away from dating apps for 3 years and Instagram for 2 years now and I have to admit the rewiring was not easy, still isn't.
    I meet guys and after a chat, they ask for my insta, and when I say I deleted it...
    I think insta is now used to do a background check like;
    Who are his friends?
    Is he of high 'ghey' ranking?
    Is he good looking?
    Bruh! I am standing and speaking right in front of you. Isn't that better?
    Has he hooked up with one of my friends? or someone I want to hook up with?
    Does he have a handsome friend that I could eventually get with, if I keep him around as a friend? etc
    My friends have told me to get back on Insta, that it would build up my dating profile but I just can't do it. I am too fragile mentally, for it.

    I must say though my discreet senses have been heightened though, not Gaydar cos its still fucked up and I don't think it would ever work lol. I have meet many guys who do not label themselves, however they hookup with guys. They range from the married with kids to having girlfriends but enjoy the male body. They are not self hating or DL, will never speak bad or consider themselves a part of the lgbtqia ''community'', they just like what they like.

    All in all, I have to keep in mind that just because I am off the socials that doesn't mean most dudes are. It also does not grantee me finding a cool dude, its just a whole different game in these parts and trust me its still full of Dementors.
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