Best Break Up Songs

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    Although I've never been in a gay relationship (technically -- I got a late start :yeshrug:) I've still had some tough breakups.

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    While its easy to just say, "Fuck that, Nikka!" and hit the club to find a new boo...Most times you're still stuck in your feelings for him for awhile, even if he was mostly full of shit (figuratively and literally).

    What's a break up song that you play to help mourn the loss of the friendship? :mjcry1:

    Here's one that I always turn to...

     
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    Great song! This is going to be a good thread I can tell.
    One of my favorite breakup songs is Breakdown by Mariah Carey feat. Bone Thugs N Harmony .


    I love it for its classic 90's RnB sound and intricate, hard hitting lyrics. My favorite part is the chours

    Well I guess I'm trying to be
    Nonchalant about it
    And I'm going to extremes
    To prove I'm fine without you
    But in reality I'm slowly losing my mind
    Underneath a guise of a smile
    Gradually I'm dying inside
    Friends ask me how I feel
    And I lie convincingly
    'Cause I don't want to reveal
    The fact that I'm suffering


    Whenever I am feeling down or in a similar situation those words get me every time...
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    This joint got mad replays when I fucked up and messed around with a homeboy, we kicked it for a minute then we drifted apart, losing the whole friendship, now messing around with friends is forever Off Limits, lol....

     
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    When I found out a dude I'd just severed ties with moved on
     
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    Lauryn Hill "Ex-Factor" is always good. Soulful and speaks to you.

    112 "Your Letter" This isn't quite a breakup song, but it's the song you would play back in school when you were still coming to terms with your sexuality and you start to develop feelings for your homeboy and part of you hopes he feels the same way but then your heart starts breaking when he starts talking about these girls he really likes.
     
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    Keyshia Cole, K. Michelle, Monica, Aaliyah, SWV, Brandy, Lauryn Hill, Jill Scott, SZA, Jhene Aiko, Angel Haze, and Adina Howard are my go to for breakup songs.
     
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    Boyz II Men "Doin Just Fine" is probably my number 1.


    Lily Allen "Smile" when I'm feeling for something more upbeat.


    John Legend "Used to Love You" when i gotta lie to myself lol.


    Can't go through a break up without some Mary ;)
     
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    To this day I still think about some of the dope dudes I've dated...Makes me wonder if they do too...

     
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    Definitely listened to this a few hundred times
     
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    I love that song so much! You have good taste. I love Musiq until he tried to become a rapper aka The "husel". Just no.
     
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    One dude didn't even have the nerve to break up with me with his own words, he just played this song instead. We had a good long convo (and continued to mess around for a week or so) after that...but it was a wrap.

     
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    LOL damn. Talk about creativity! At least it ended as it should.
     
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    After dude chose that other dude over me, this Jill Scott joint got mad burn in my iTunes playlist...My gay homeboy who knew all about the situation saw my playlist one day and clowned me for being so heartbroken over a wack situation from the beginning, lol. He was right in hindsight.

     
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    LOL I remember that song. Damn dude had you MESSED up.

    I pretty know all the songs and moods in R&B and love the genre so much but not so much of what it is becoming now (partying, drinking, smoking, etc & nothing of substance) but I have not really experienced any of it. Just the infatuation and lust aspects lol. But one day. Maybe sooner than later lol
     
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    This India Arie joint gets mad burn when I breakup too...

     
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    To be honest, with you being such a nice and gay naive dude, its just a matter of time before you get your heart broken by some guy out there, no matter how perfect he may initially seem :fantasia:

    It'll make you stronger in the long run though, tough experience but definitely helps you filter the lames out in the future.
     
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    I love Get It Togehter!

    Nobody has mentioned Sade yet so I'll throw in a few of my favorites from her since she is the Queen of Breakup Songs!





    This last one is sorta a breakup song? More like the aftermath of a breakup, still has the same feel of a breakup song.



    Almost forgot Love Is Stronger Than Pride!!!
     
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    haven't heard this one before but dang
     
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    LOL naive??? Really??? I know I am nice but I don't think I am naive. I used to be especially when I was younger. Some of the Cypher Avenue guys I met in ATL have the same sentiment as you though lol. They're like, "awww he is so precious" and "you're so nice". They always tell me to be careful hahaha.
     
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    Yeah by Naive I just mean that you haven't dated or been in a relationship yet. It's different than just reading and seeing YouTube videos about it
     
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    Apart from R&B, this song always gets me through those times where I feel like my life is falling apart.
     
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    Shout out for listing a non R&B song. R&B is usually my go to, but sometimes I like the louder break up songs from Rock music.

     
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    Oh man I definitely agree with this statement. I dated a guy for a while then he dropped off the planet earth for 3 years. I mourned him for all the good thoughts he left me with and it hurt til this year.

    I ran into him for 4 months straight at least once a week and I swear I thought he was such a great person until these run ins. Now I just want to fling him out into the freeway and not look back because I guess now he has a boyfriend and that meant he can say whatever he felt he wanted to me. All while I still maintened a nice and respectful demeanor. I definitely learned and feel a lot stronger now, I'm happy to say that.
     
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    Me and my pillow got real cozy several nights over this song
     
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    Idk abt the breakup theme, but a dope song, regardless
     
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    "I know I oughta leave the young thang alone, but ain't no sunshine when [he's] gone..."

    This was so me...



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    Can't leave out the Old School Classics
     
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    When you deserve to punch yourself in the face...smh
     
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