Biggest Turn offs?

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    So guys,

    We've talked about what we all like in a man but what can't you stand to see in a guy you might become romantically involved with?
    Name one physical feature and one personality feature that turns you aaaall the way off

    For example:

    One Physical thing I hate are guys with unclipped fingernails. I know everyone has their moments with this but just don't let it get out of hand!!

    One Personality thing are selfish/self centered people. I hate feeling like I'm giving the most in a relationship (even a friendship) and the other person only thinks about themselves or what you should be doing for them!

    Let's hear it!
     
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    These things can run together, but I do not like guys who overstate their looks and those who are too into their looks and themselves, in general (narcissism).
     
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    A dude I dated last year was handsome as fuck with a thick defined body, he used to look at his slightly defined abs in the mirror and complain that he was fat...

    I looked at him then my own (hidden) abs and then back to him like: :whut:

    That was the first time I was turned off by him and viewed him as imperfect. I can take a fine dude who knows he's fine...but a fine dude who's obessed with perfection :camby:
     
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    Closed-minded or Judgemental dudes who think anything other people like is benath them.
    Anyone who can't take a joke,takes EVERYTHING super serious,and who can't laugh with me.


    Physically the onlything I'm not into is long hair.
     
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    Ha yeah that sounds annoying, it like when people fish for compliments or constantly seek validation.
     
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    LOL..I love how one contradictory sentence came moments before the other...

    No worries, more for the rest of us...

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    Lol but it's not that I think long hair is ugly or nothin,I'm just attracted to guys with shorter hair 9 times outta 10.It wouldn't be a deal breaker.
    by having a closed-mind i mean someone who won't try anything new or who cant see validity in others' perspectives.
     
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    You mean to tell me you would turn down all of this:

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    :franko1::franko1::franko1:
     
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    @DreG I hear you! I used share a similar view until I was made aware of guys like flashmanwade :banderas: lol[​IMG]
     
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    see now...he'd be one of those 1 times left outta the ten
     
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    LOL
     
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    So that's where that's from lol
     
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    Just the one each then?

    Physical: I'm ok with a gap or crooked teeth but unnatural shades like orange, brown, green or even gold fronts skeeve me out.

    Personality: not a fan of close minded intolerance. We can't all be the same or like the same things.
     
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    Physical: Long fingernails--For more than just my preference for the look. lol

    Personality: A guy with no ambition. In a constant state of contentment with no plan to make himself better.
     
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    Sense of humor is No 1 on my list. Like if you always take life so seriously, we will not get along at all
     
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    Physical: Dudes who's breath smells like Yesteryear's tobacco, last decade's weed, and fermented garlic sauce :foxxxy:

    Personality: I don't want to come off as elitist, but I am very attracted to intellect. The internet is your oyster and if you still think that Chicago is a state and Illinois is the city:khart1:
     
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    Physically: Dirty fingernails. If you've been working outside all day, I understand. But if they're dirty on a consistent basis, that just shows me you don't take care of yourself.

    Personality: Dudes with no ambition/drive or who pay too much attention to mindless bs like celeb gossip instead of more important topics. It's okay to enjoy tv and movies, but if that's your go to conversation starter and you spend your free time looking at celeb gossip magazines, you will put me to sleep.
     
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    physically if they are not well kept or sloppy looking

    personality some one who acts snobby
     
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    Let's go with bad body odor. That includes, but not limited to, breath, pits, genital area, etc. It will totally ruin it, even if you look good otherwise.

    For personality, it would have to be someone who doesn't know how to hold a decent conversation. I like to be up on pop culture as much as the next guy but if I ask you what's your stance on the Syrian Refugee Crisis and you have no idea what I'm talking about...
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    WTMI & I know I'm always the odd man but I kinda like some "bad" body odors around the pits, genital areas.
     
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    Physically - There's a LOT of things that can turn me off physically, but there are other factors that play into whether or not I'de consider them a "deal breaker", but if I had to pick one it would be bad breath.

    Personality - I've mentioned this on here many times before. Like physical attributes, there are a LOT of personality traits I don't mesh with, but the absolute deal breaker is arrogance/obnoxiousness. I really can't stand dudes that are full of themselves, whether they "have" a reason to be or not. A rich dude can easily end up on the streets, a physically 'perfect' dude can easily end up out of shape and obese, we are none of us "better" than anybody else.
     
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    Can't say I'm a fan dude...I can understand a slight musk in the genital area...that's just a guy thing I guess but not pits...wear some fucking deodorant lol
     
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    - I cant deal w jacked up feet. U dont have to be a foot model, but no 12 years a slave..

    - No deal for selfishness. Im pretty much 100% sure it's my #1 character pet peeve. Like, if Im always the one having to 'over look' and give 'passes', no go.
     
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    I am into odd individuals who have the ability to think outside of the ever day. So, if an interest opens their mouth and spew a general lack of intelligence/ mundane shit, it's a big turn off.... colder than that episode of Game of thrones with the Night's King. Not so much talking intensely at all times but at least the potential to engage in a debate, even about the simple things, like who would be a better stripper lol or why is anime these days lame.
     
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    Me and my best friend debate about that all the time! She's more into late 90's-2006 anime and I like/grew up on a lot of that too but I try to get her to watch some of the newer ones but it doesn't always work out lol.
     
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    I think it's the commercialization of the medium. They are more focusing on getting new shit instead of quality content.
     
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    Yeah that's her thing too and I agree to an extent, but still some good ones out there!
     
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    lol In defense of the dude with the abs ..... he could be in the constant search of perfection, where he knows he would never be perfect. Basically the search for the next lvl. It is not necessarily comparing yourself to someone else but looking for the next "you" . In my opinion

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    Yeah I mean he wasn't as bad as some others I've seen but witnessing him doing that in front of the mirror was a slight turnoff. Def not the reason we eventually broke it off though.
     
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    Was it a search for perfection, or a search for validation? Was he the 'fish for compliments' type? Some guys who look perfectly fine constantly need that reassurance (esp if they're 'new' to being 'hot') and it's fukn annoying, but i digress lol
     
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    Short men or men who talk about themselves way too much.
     
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    Physically: bad skin care

    Personality: lack of motivation. I like to be stimulated mentally.
     
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    The way that one speaks. I'm sorry, but if you sound like you graduated from The Charles Barkley and Floyd Mayweather Community College of Trapville, we have nothing to discuss. I just cannot do it.

    I won't.
     
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