So there's a lot of discussion on how to meet dudes. I'm a firm believer that closed mouths don't get fed and to not rely solely on dating apps. It would be interesting to see if being open and not limiting yourself to gay sites or gay events actually works. List the last three men you dated/hooked up with/were intimate with and how you met. I'll go first. 1) I met the most recent guy this past summer. We were doing separate summer programs, but lived in the same building. I thought he was cute, but I didn't know he liked dudes at first until it was mentioned at a non-gay party we all went to. 2) Second most recent guy I actually met through the guy below. Yeah, it was kinda ho-ish, but whatever. Nobody got their feelings hurt. 3) The third most recent guy I did meet on a dating site. We knew right away we were both gay. So basically, expand your horizons.