My Gay Cousin Is Doing Porn, Allowed to Fap or Nah?

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    TLDR: Is it acceptable to Fap to porn featuring cousins? Does it matter if they are distant cousins? Have you ever "messed around" with a cousin?

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    So I officially made it through my "No Fap January"...in anticipation of the return to Fapping Season, I randomly checked out some of the porn sites....

    To my surprise, I see that one site featured a model with a somewhat familiar face...Oh shit...that's my lil 27-year-old cousin (not pictured here, but def similar look/vibe). cpnoway


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    To be fair, he's a distant cousin. Very distant. As far as I can remember, he's my mother's aunt's daughter's grandson. So he's the son of my mother's second cousin (?) I don't know if for me that's second cousins twice removed or what, but at the end of the day he's not a first cousin.

    Although we've exchanged numbers and texts messages in the past (as the Old Head cousin helping out the Young Buck cousin with info/contacts while visiting Atlanta), he lives in another state and I'm older...so we haven't actually met in person. Social media connected us: "Oh, you're related to me...friend request sent."

    I know his mama, aunts, uncles, grandmother, great grandmother, great great grandmother, etc. But I honestly don't even think even my mother would recognize him if she saw him. She has a huge family on her side. So it's not like he's a regular face at Christmas gatherings. But even if he were, would it matter?

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    Didn't even know he was gay until he started posting tons of pics of him (a very masculine dude) and one of his feminine boyfriends on social media some years ago. So he's Out. That side of the family knows he's gay.

    I have zero desire to mention this porn discovery to anyone in the family, or even to him...Hell, he probably wouldn't care as (while not posting shirtless pics) he's very much an attention seeking social media user.

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    But I can't lie, the young man is handsome, masculine and has a decent "young nikka" body...and learning that he was gay those many years ago only made me admire his confidence being so open and Out at such a young age.

    I don't wanna be his gay cousin or gay friend or gay mentor to guide him...For now I am just very tempted to Fap to his vids just to get it outta my system.

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    Is it acceptable to Fap to professional or amateur porn featuring a cousin? Does it matter if they are distant cousins? Have you ever "messed around" with a cousin?
     
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    Fap away Nick! That's what makes the fantasy hot is that its a little bit wrong. I've never messed with a cousin. But I have a first cousin who is straight who I find very attractive. I feel like deep down he knows, but its never awkward at family functions.
     
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    your mother's aunt's daughter's grandson?! man... if you don't lol
     
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    Ultimately the decision is yours.

    But when you know it's a relative it will add to that awkward feeling we all have at the end.

    So for me it's a no.
     
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    :thinking:so technically he's your second cousin once removed.

    I guess u could be called kissing cousins lol:D
     
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    That's gross Nick...
     
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    Nah, leave this one alone. Even while technically he might be distant, some part of you is still saying, "my family". We all have to draw the line somewhere, personally, this is where I would draw it lmao
     
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    Well I know people who've hunched with their first cousins. Personally, I wouldn't want to have a climax thinking of a relative and I have very attractive male relatives. But from the sounds of this post, @Nick Delmacy has already lusted in his mind so you might as well soak a hand towel and be done with it.
     
  10. Nick Delmacy

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    I promise y'all I'm not thinking about this too tough, hence the reason I'm only just now responding lol. And upon further peeking at the vids, my lil cuz's porn skews a little too "young" for my current tastes. While I do like the young bucks, there's a big difference between college athletic and just hitting puberty. :whoa:

    I don't have many attractive cousins, tbh. I mean, they're okay, but not many that are traditionally handsome.

    Wait, I do have a couple young second cousins that are pretty good looking, but I used to babysit them and they were like my nephews, so nothing sexual ever pops in my head when I think about them. :iverson2:

    This porn cousin though, I've never even met him in person...nor have we ever spoken on the phone, just texts (he was born and raised in another state by a side of my mother's family that I've rarely spent time with).

    LOL Yeah and I only THINK that it only goes that deep, mom had a huge family and it was always confusing to me to understand how I was related to all those people, just knew that I was in some way. Some people on that side would be old enough to be my Father, yet calling me "cousin." I think that's just a blanket term for "we're somehow related."

    I agree it would be awkward if one of my nephews or first cousin's kids were doing porn...I honestly don't know this dude and I'm sure that he would say the same. Again, we've never met in person, lol.

    But its def a possibility that we will meet at some family gathering or funeral eventually and I def don't wanna feel awkward.

    I missed this post, interesting discussion...

    I used to idolize (and had a mini-crush on) one of my male first cousins back when we were kids. We grew up together, he was a year older than me and was the coolest nikka I knew...and I was related to him so that made me feel better than all the other dudes in his entourage.

    But once we hit high school, we drifted apart. He continued to be the cool kid, so much so that he started fucking up in school and eventually had troubles with the law, did time in prison, baby mama drama, etc. Suffice it to say, I no longer idolize him, lol.

    Is it only that? If he's the son of my mother's second cousin, does that make him only my second cousin once removed?

    Wait, Wikipedia is saying that too....He's my Second Cousin Once Removed. That doesn't seem right but I guess there is some logic to it. His great-great-grandmother is my great-grandmother.

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    Maybe because I was always separated by distance and never spent much time with that side of the family, it seems more distant than it really is... :lupe1:

    To be honest though, went to a family reunion few years ago and they all pretty much knew who I was even though I had know idea who some of them were, or specifically how we were related.

    I've def admired the man but never to the point of fantasizing or fapping. Plus he only likes feminine gays and trans women, so that's likely another reason he never popped up on my lust radar.

    Seeing that he did some porn though, that's got me thinking, "Should I.....?" LOL :fredo:

    LOL yeah as I'm answering these responses, I'm starting to convince myself not to Fap and to just be a supporter of this dude living his best young gay life. Too much other porn out there. Or better yet, have my own real life porn sessions with real people that I'm not related to instead of fapping to porn featuring someone that I am.

    From the little that I know of cuz, I don't think he NEEDS to do porn, seems like something he wanted to do for more status, attention and quasi-fame in the community. I have read some of the comments on his videos, he seems to have a lot of fans lol.
     
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    It would definitely be awkward if you ever meet but the "end" I was referring to was post "secretion"...:snoop:
     
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    I have a biracial second cuz (mom is German) that I was really cool with when we were growing up. Since I spent a lot of time with my grandparents and they were both the matriarch and patriarch of their respective families, I'm the cousin everyone knows. This cousin is four years old than me and was shipped back and forth between Germany and the states. I had a chance to spend time with him off and on during the time he was with his grandparents, my great aunt and uncle, but that was a short period of about four years. He eventually moved back with his dad who moved to Seattle and we lost touch when I started middle school.

    Anyway, one night when we were visiting my aunt and uncle, cuz showed me his dick. We had been wrestling and playing when we were supposed to be sleep and I guess cuzzo hard and horny. We started talking about girls and next thing I know h,told me he had a big dick and whipped it out.

    That image is still in my head today. And I ain't gone lie. I'd be inclined to at least rub one out with cuzzo if I knew he'd be down.
     
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    I’d say ... a sexual scenario with you two involved is ok .. threesome.. group shi. naked in same room... watchin porn... batin together... but I wouldn’t do too much else with a cousin... def no kissing... or fuckin... now I’d watch or beat off to him gettin it in with someone else .. but that just me
     
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    So an update: Due to the lockdown and quarantine, I eventually watched and fapped to the porn. Three different videos. To be honest, they were kinda boring. Ended up fast forwarding through most of them. I will say though, lil cuz is packing some weight. We're definitely related, lol.
     
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    :reallytho::sass1:


    This was a truly excellent wind-up to the confession.

    I've really enjoyed the euphemisms we've gotten out of Ms Rona. Like, "out of an abundance of caution", "due to the covid-19 situation", "due to the lockdown and quarantine", "the drivethrough is over there dumbass", etc.

    Show me the way. Show me the way.

    lol

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    Sooooo the first 2 didn't do it, but you persisted to the third due to demonstrably better material and a slight...um backup? I'd have done the same.
     
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